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ok well here's what happened...i was dating this guy who ended up bein a total jerk and tried to get me to have sex with him so i dumped his ass and then i met this really nice guy who i liked alot but we didn't date and now for some reason he just wont talk to me or is all of the sudden completely uninterested in me and i dont know why. so i;'ve been talking to my ex boyfriend and we're thinkin abt gettin back together and i know he's worhtless but i want to anyways cuz i feel like if i sit around waiting for something better it's never going to come....i don't know what to do at all...anything anyone can say to help would be great...i rate. thanks!
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wahts the point of goin back out wit someone that u know is a jerk and just wants sex...basically the only reason why hes talkin to u again is becuz he thinks he can maybe get another try at sex wit u again...and believe me...a better person will come..u just gotta have patience..let me ask u this..would u rather go back out wit an asshole that u know is just after sex and basically end up breakin up wit him and while ur wit him waistin ur time someone else could like u and u not know it becuz ur wit jerk off and is to afraid to tell u becuz or wit him....or wait for a good guy to actually come along thats gonna respect u and ur choices? i think anyone would rather wait...but i hope u do what u think is best for u...good luck
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You have plenty of time to meet new people. You shouldnt revolve your life around having a boyfriend or else you will just have hurt and regret. If your ex boyfriend is a jerk than dont mess with him. He isnt worth it. There are plenty of nice guys out there that wont pressure you into having sex..and you wont be able to meet um if you are still with someone that you dont even really wanna be with.
NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS.
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You got a better chance of finding someone better when ur single than when ur with someone worthless, so dont get back together with ur boyfriend if hes a jerk to u. u did the rite thing by dumping him. Try talking to the guy that u like, and if it doesnt work out dont worrya bout it, you will find someone better. Hope i helped and good luck! rate me
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Well i would say follow your heart. But your ex sounds like an a$$ hole so watch out.... try talking to the other guy and see what happens and you can always make a move yourself.
--Julie
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Don't get together with your ex just for the sake of having someone there, I've been in relationships like that, and if you don't really want to be with him, there's no point. Pressuring you into having sex with him was wrong, and you were right to end it. Go with your gut instinct, if it doesn't feel right, don't do it. As for the other guy, don't stress too much, if it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. Also, I always find that as soon as you stop looking for a guy, one comes along. So why not go out, have fun with your friends and forget guys for a while. Being single can be fun! Hope I helped a bit!
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Well hun... I think u should definitely not get back together with him if he is that way, dont worry about not finding the right person because there is someone out there for everyone and i think if u are patient and dont settle for lower level guys .. u will find yourself more patient, and u will find the right one.. but with time.
Xo HoTLiLShOrTiE oX
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okay you shouldnt go back out with your ex! and i know how you feel sometimes i think that if i sit around nothings gonna come... but at the time it sounds like anythings better then your ex... as for this new guy try to talk to him more and have one of your friends ask him if he hates you if he wont talk to you... i hope i helped.. if you need anymore help drop one in my box...
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You shouldnt settle for less. Even if you dont date someone for a while whats the worst that can come of you? Dont let despiracy let you get back together with the jerk that was pressuring you and made you feel all uncomfortable. You'd only punish yourself. True love waits! As sucky as it will be you'll be so proud of yourself for not settling for the trash bag. Plus, he might even pressure you to do things that you arent up to, and you might one day give in when your not even looking. It would suck. Go with what i say and i promise you'll benefit 100%....
xoxoo Muah
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