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I just can't do it.
I am going into 9th grade. My boyfriend and I have been together for about six monthes. I love him so much, but lately he's starting to be a jerk. He seems to care more about what he thinks than what I think, and he makes really gross jokes on occasion. I really want to tell him that unless he starts acting better, we're done. But whenever I see him I start going girly and I blush when he smiles at me. I don't know how to tell him, and I just can't seem to do it, but I know I need to. What can I do?
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I am also going into the ninth grade =) Don't be afraid to break it off with your boyfriend. Middleschool relationships usually don't last forever...there are plenty of reasons why it won't work. People change over time. Highschool can have a big impact on relationships. There are countless reasons. It will hurt, but I'm sure you will find another guy for you.
Guys can become real jerks sometimes. I don't know...maybe it's a phase or something. Either way, you should talk to him about it and tell him you don't like it. And yes, sometimes guys can be the kings of sick and gross jokes. That's just their nature sometimes lol.
Whether you will stay with him or not is up to you. I think you should definitely talk to him. Tell him what you told us. If in time he still bugs you...you should break up with him. I hope things work out. =)
PS if you ever decide to break up with him, but just "can't", I suggest calling him or writing him a note saying you think the two of you should break up. Then mention somewhere to meet you at the park or at school or something to talk about it. That way, it might be a little easier for you. What you SHOULDN'T do is break up with him entirely through the phone or a note without talking to him in person. I think that's just sad...for you AND the other person.
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Well for 1 thing never be afraid to talk to your boyfriend because trust is the #1 thing in a relationship besides communication. And if this guy truly loves u i think he will listen. If he doesnt than u might consider taking charge of the situation and considering a break up. But dont jump to conclusions .. all guys are like this once in a while. With my boyfriend.. i just tell him to lighten up and he calls me back and says hes sry. So hun tell wuts on ur mind and i think things will go ok.
Xo HoTLiLShOrTiE oX
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Good luck!
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i totally agree with -mercy x me- ..cus guys will try to act like they have no idea wut you're talkin about nd be like "give me an example" and sometimes you cant think of tymes ryte off the top of your head so then they win the argument.. so ya shes ryte make sure u do it at the tyme hes doing something you dont like =] xOxO -des*
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okay if you cant do it to his face call him and tell him or write it in a letter and stick it in his pants pocket... say something like "we have been together for awhile now and i have fallen for you but lately you been acting a little jerkish and you have been making nasty jokes... and I want you to stop... because i love you and i dont want to have to break up with you... i have tried to tell you but whenever im with you i get all girly and blush when u smile at me... please stop... i love you..."
IDK something like that hope i helped... drop one in my box if you ever need some help...
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Well dont lecture him so to say. Wait till he makes one of those jokes and be like... hunny please cut the raunchy humor... i dont appreciate it. If hes acting like a jerk, be like stop it whats your problem. I wouldnt save it for one long talk, b/c he might say 'what are you talking about' now if you wait till the moment after he says something or acts a way you dont like, then you have total proof b/c he cant deny what he said 2 seconds ago. I hope i've helped. Good luck sweetheart xoxo
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