A real good dance song is "Me Against the Beat" or something like that but Madonna and Britney Spears sing it. I used to dance to that all the time, too.
LOL
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You're not a whore if you wear a thong. I used to wear a thong... they are really comfortable. As long as no one can see your thong sticking out of your pants, you should be O.K from embarassment. LOL. Trust me. It's O.K to wear a comfortable article of clothing.
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O.K. I'll email you!
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~~~Kayla~~~

Honey,
anyone can buy them. If a salesperson stops you, they can get fired from their job because that's like telling a teenager to go get pregnant. LOL.
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~~~Kayla~~~

Maddie,
you shouldn't need to CHANGE yourself for a guy. Seriously! It may seem like the world to have a boyfriend... but it's not. You're still young, you have plenty of time to find someone you love truly and sincerely. I know, I know... I sound like someones mother but I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 15 and I'm not 19... My mother told me that and I waited. I'm 19 and STILL a virgin. You know why? Because I want to get married before I do anything sexual with a guy, except kissing. But... if you want guys to notice you, you need to be yourself around them but if you want, have more attitude but not too much... a guy migiht think you're leading him onto sex and trust me... you DON'T want that. High school is tough! All the time, you're going to see girls exposing themselves in bad ways, showing their body more and making themselves look easy so guys will think she's easy and want to "do her". You don't want to have that kind of reputation. Girls like that are known as "whores", "sluts", and sometimes "prostitutes". These are not good names and you WILL be called them if you act sexual by showing your body or wearing visible thongss that guys can see. A guy wants you when you're like that, especially in high school. It's not worth it. Don't EVER do it. I've seen girls like that. Girls like that end up raped and killed by some pervert and you DON'T want that. You don't need to change. You're beautiful no matter what but like I said, add attitude on top of brand new clothes and maybe new make-up, just for attraction. As for your "un-see-able" beauty, act nice and sweet. Be cute with them and funny too. Flirt a lot and DON'T go for someone elses boyfriend. LOL. Wrong choice! His girlfriend will hunt you down like a dog and TRY to hurt you, and she could. I've seen that happen. I hope you take this as a tip, not a warning or lecture. I'm telling what happens in high school... I've been there and if you need more tips (about friends or boyfriends), ask me a question in my advicenators inbox or email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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~~~Kayla~~~

No... my computer is going through this really weird thing where it won't let me get into ANYTHING... not chatrooms, not instant messangers, NOTHING. I'm really sorry but do you have an email address? Because if you do, I'll definitly email you!
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~~~Kayla~~~

There are some products you can buy to get rid off them. I buy some spray that kills ants, cockroaches, and spiders. I don't know what it's called but there are many different kinds of sprays and stuff you can buy. Also, from raid, you can buy this stuff that kills the ants OUTSIDE so they can't even come IN your HOUSE. It's from Raid and it like.... poisons them so they die and they ever come in. You have to place them either in the ground outside or place them in the ant bed and it kills the ENTIRE colony. If you want to talk about something TOTALLY off topic or need more advice, email me in my advicenators inbox OR email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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Ummmm...
are you SERIOUSLY addicted to it? If you are, that's kinda perverted because you enojoy watching other people have sex. It's bad if all you doo all day is watch it. I mean, you can watch it EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE but not ALL DAY, EVERY DAY. It's not bad... just don't do it SO MUCH and you'll be O.K. I mean, nothing BAD can happen to you if you don't listen to the advice that people are giving you but serisouly, man. There is more to life than sex. Hang out with friends, go to the movies, go shopping, read a good book, that kinda thing~
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Well,
like I said in my profile, I don't care what people think or say about me because things that people say, I KNOW aren't true so why would it matter? Why would it matter if a few people call you a lesbian? It wouldn't matter to me. When they say something, play it cool. Don't act like it matters. Just do normal stuff and when they say something and see you don't care about what they're saying isn't effecting you, they'll leave you alone. The reason why they're saying these nasty things about you, is because they want it to get to you. They want to make you mad and they want you to cry and be all upset but once they see that what they are saying to/about you, they'll get bored. Then, once that happens, talk to your friend, and tell her that what you said about "Missing her" was not like that! You're rioght... that IS rediculous because I said that to my friend, who moved away, and she said she would miss me too and we weren't lesbians or anything like that! My best friend is moving in a year and I'm going to miss her and I tell her that every day and a lot of other people tell her that so tell her that you're friend, (me, Kayla) tells her to straighten up because she's wrong about you and she knows it. She just wants to p*** you off and it's NOT gonna happen! If you want to talk about something TOTALLY off topic or need more advice, email me in my advicenators inbox OR email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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There are many different beliefs. Some people belive in Jesus and not God, like your friend. You can't "turn someone on the right track" if they don't want to believe what you believe because you believe differently and there's no reason for you to tell him differently. There are many different beliefs and cultures and just because YOU believe in something and you think it's right, he may not think that. He has an opinion and if he doesn't believe in God, that should be O.K because he doesn't think God is a real person, which should be fine with you. Just let him believe what he wants to. His opinion matters to him and you can't get him to think any differently. He's stuck on "God isn't real" and probably nothing you say can change that. I'm really sorry that there is nothing you can do to get him to believe in something. That's like TRYING to get a 19 year old to believe in Santa Clause. Hahaha. It's O.K. Don't get mad at him. There is one thing you can TRY! You can try talking to him and ask him WHY he doesn't think Jesus is God's son. Ask him WHY he thinks God is fake and not real. Tell him your beliefs and if he disagrees, just leave him alone. I, personally, believe in God but some people have other God's that they worship or whatever. He can think differently. If you want to talk about something TOTALLY off topic or need more advice, email me in my advicenators inbox OR email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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Don't go out with the guy because you're BEST FRIEND is going out with him and friendships last way longer than relationships so... don't. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be but don't do anything because that's wrong to your best friend. I mean, this is her boyfriend who she probably cares a lot about and you can a little "crush" on him but don't go like that becaus for one thing, she could call you a slut for stealing other people's boyfriends, even if you're not a slut and you're NOT a slut but she could spread rumors while she's mad at you and that would not be good for you. For another thing, if your other best friend likes him too, and the one that's going out with the guy TALKS about her behind her back, you KNOW she'll do the same to you, even if she says, "Oh yeah! That's cool!" History will repeat itself. You don't want to get hurt and I think you should WAIT until maybe something between you and that guy happen, if it ever does. There are plenty of fish in the sea but don't EVER mess with your best friends guy! If you want to talk about something TOTALLY off topic or need more advice, email me in my advicenators inbox OR email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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Wow!
That's not right! The don't need to be promising you anything, if they're just going to break their promise. I would talk to them and say how you feel and see what they say. I know, probably a lot of people tell you this but it's the right thing to do. Either that or call them, or email them or whatever you want to do. Then, if they act insensitive about it, then, just get TWO peircings WITH SOMEONE ELSE that are better than theirs, and that'll make you look better than because you ARE better than them and I don't know you personally but I can tell YOU would never do what they did to one of YOUR best friends! They should take it the right way and understand you, if they really care about what you think and feel and they shouldn't act insensitive but IF THEY DO, than, GOD I HATE TO SAY THIS BUT... you can't be having friends like that because when you start hanging around peole like that for a while, you start to BECOME like them and you DO NOT want to become like them.
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I used to be in these situations all the time. There was this really hot guy and I liked him and he always acted like he liked me but he had a girlfriend and they would be all over each other and I would get jealous. Then, I had one of my friends tell him I like him and he smiled. The bad thing that happened to me is... the friend that I told to ask... started liking him too and she dresses... slutty and he likes that so now, they're going out. That's what happened to me. It probably won't happen to you but... you'd rather be safe than sorry and I would write a note saying you like him and don't be embarassed! It's going to be O.K. I'm pretty sure he likes you, from what you tell me and this guy seems really nice and he'll come out of his shell after he knows you already like him! He'll start being more... talkative with you and he might even ask you out. ;-) That's the best you can do in this situation. Notes always work. TRUST ME. If you want to talk about something TOTALLY off topic or need more advice, email me in my advicenators inbox OR email me seperatly at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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Honey,
I hate to have to say this but... if you really love/like this guy, you'll take one simple class for him to go see him whenever you want. That way, you can see him every (other) weekend and you'll get closer and closer. If you're not willing to do THAT, have your parents or a relative or a friend who can drive take you down there and pick you up when you call or something. I hope only the best to you. Call him and get an email address or something. Write a letter or something. Send a picture of you.
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Well,
honey. You can't MAKE a guy tell you he likes you. lol But you can try to let him know that YOU like him without actually telling him. Do something sexy or "hot" around him and act like you have no secrets. Don't be embarassed, or shy at all. Guys like it when you're up-front about things. Flirt with him and see how he reacts. If he kind of pulls away from you in a disgusted way, he probably doesn't like you but if he flirts back and is totally nice, he likes you and you have your answer! If you want to talk or need advice, you can send me a question in my advicenators inbox OR you can email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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Honey,
she may be pregnant but if she is, you'll support her and if she's not, you'll be relieved but you'll still support her. She probably isn't though because periods do that. They come and go like days. Sometimes, my period does that and I'm 19. It's O.K. Have her see a doctor or take those self-check pregnancy tests. Those work... sometimes. I think seeing a doctor. Some kinds of self-check pregnancy tests detect first signs of pregnancy but some don't so if you choose the self-check one, be sure you get the right kind. Like I said, I would see a doctor, just to be ABSOLUTELY sure. If you want to talk or need advice, you can send me a question in my advicenators inbox OR you can email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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Well,
wear a pad until you get there and then, go into a place where no one can see and take it off. This is O.K because the water stops the flow and you'll be O.K. If you want to talk or need advice, you can send me a question in my advicenators inbox OR you can email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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You could try turning it upside and shaking it really hard. Or you can take the cap off and shake it. It gets out that way. Hahaha. What's your email address? You're funny!!!
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Hahaha. Well,
not ALL boys are. Some (believe it or not!) are willing to do EVERYTHING they can to make a girls life wonderful. Some are actually READY for a relationship and are willing to make a commitment. I know, I know, probably EVERYONE tells you this but actually, guys are human beings, just like girls and girls break hearts. Girls ACTUALLY break MORE hearts than boys. So, don't worry about it. One day, you're going to meet the PERFECT guy and he's going to be ready for a relationship and he's going to make you the happiest woman alive and one day, you'll get married and have a husband that loves and respects you and someone that you love and respect. Guys are complicating, I know, but one day, you'll be more experienced and KNOW their games so NO MAN can make you cry! Hahaha. Well, if you need to talk about something off topic or need more advice, send me a question in my advicenators inbox or email me seperatly at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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Well,
you're kind of being stereo-type because not ALL guys look at ONLY your body. But you're right, MOST guys DO just look at your body. It's because teenage men and grown men always think about sex and they want it all the time and when they see a sexy body, BOOM! They want it, just like that. That really is a good question and even though I'm not a guy, I know how they think because my boyfriend was like that. Everytime a "hot girl" walked by, he wanted her. He didn't even know her! I broke up with him because I agree with you. I think men should focus more on the insides of us, not on the outsides! Looks matter to me, sure, but not so much that I'm going make someone feel bad about the way they look. If you want more advice or want to talk about something totally off topic, email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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