tinkerbell4321's advice column

this might be an odd question but when did some of you girls like what age where you when you stared to wear a thong? i know this is wired but i just need to know.
ill rate high if you answer

when I was 13

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bladder infetion sympthoms and what causes it?

some sympthoms are when you pee it stings, or it comes out i little at a time and im not sure what causes it sorry

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I have a bunch of friends at school, but none of them have called me over this summer! I've invited a few over and we'll have a blast but they never invite me anywhere. I feel so left out, what do I do ?

talk to your friends and tell them how you feel and if they still dont talk to you or invite you over then they arent very good friends, and you should make new ones!(i had the same problem) hope i helped

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I want to really straighten my hair, I have a vidal Sassoon, and a black revlon straightener. I also have the Got2Be straightenin serum but I still cant get it all that straight.
Can some one please give me some step-by-step instructions on how to really straighten my hair?
I'll Rate BunChezZ!

chi works good, or you could go get it professinaly straightened, and my best friend got her hair straightened and she said it was japenize hair straightening, that looks really good! hope i helped rate me please

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ok i woke up this moring and i felt wet so i wipe myself off with a towle and it was yellow now im thinkin 2 my self what is this! could it be from me havin sex becuz me and my b/f had sex about 2 days b4 this happened? or could it be from me grttin off my period!! i dont have ne answers i only had 1 sexual partner and i keep myself very clean! so ne way i put on o pad just in case there would be more and i didnt want it 2 get in my panties and i keep chackin my pad and its nothin there at all and i dont feel wet! is this normal ? help me please.

its just probaly discharge its normal

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Is it true that not eating can make you GAIN weight rather than lose it?

(it's not that I'm planning on not eating, it's just a question)

when you stop eating you dont gain weight, but it messes up your metabolisum and makes you gain weight!

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can u really get breast cancer if u sleep with a bra on? please answer quick.

No, but it does mess up your circulation and makes it hard for you to breathe

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I was wondering which whitening system would be best, Crest or Rembrant? Thanks!

crest whitening strips

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How do you do "smokey eyes"? I put the eyeliner on but is there a certain way you have to smear it? Thanks! =]

Well you have to get black onyx eyeliner that's called "Cover girl- perfect point plus" and it has a little smudger thing at the end of it that helps smudge the eyeliner and makes smokey eyes!
hope i help
~~~Becka~~~

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My friends all turned on me and now im alone. It's cool sometimes but when something big happens or when Friday nite comes I'm lonely. I have a boyfriend to talk to and I still have a few friends that im not close with. What should I do?

I was in this position also at one time in my life. What I would do is make new friends and make your old ones jealous... eventially your old ones will be unhappy with you having a good time that they'll try to come back to you and you're gonna say "Well... I don't know". Get close to all your other friends that you're not close to. Call the and talk to them and finally ask to come over and eventially, you'll get close and your old ones will wish you were bored doing nothing because they think you're lonely!!!
Don't let them see you cry or don't let them see you be lonely or they won't leave you alone about it! LOL.
Hope I helped!!!
~~~Becka~~~

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how can i brake a bone a mean break it not sprain it ireally want to know and plese only comment back if you are going to help me i rate high for advice that is useful dont give me advice like why would you want to do it i need something that is garenteed to work.

i appreticate it

it could be any bone but fingers

You can try falling off the roof. My cousin did that and he broke his leg. Or you could run and slip on a run in the kitchen and fall on your arm it should break!

~~~Becka~~~

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are there any home remedies that can get rid, or help treat pimples. I have some of that perscription stuff...but I'd like to try something new. I rate high. Thanks!

proactive works really well, and so does biore`

~~~becka~~~

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I was just putting a tampon in for the first time. I was supposed to go swimming today but I just got it. It's light for now. I followed the directions on the box but it hurt sooooo bad!! I did it a second time and it was the same. It even hurt to pull it out. The directions said if it feels uncomfortable it's not in far enough. It was in far as it could go though. I relaxed when I did it but it still hurt really really bad. It hurts awhile after I take it out. I want to go swimming but I don't think I can. I used the Lites/Junior if you're wondering. Is there something wrong with me?? =(

Its okay it hurts everybody. There is nothing wrong with you, i remember the first time i put one in it hurt but after a while it will stop hurting!!!

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ohk well im 13 and colombian (spic) woot woot yeah i know lol. anyways my mom and my dad asked me what i want to have a sweet 15 or a sweet 16.. its kinda early but they wanna start saving up since they wanna have my party at the hilton ... but the thing is that most if my friends that im going to invite are white or black and like 6 are spanish ... and i think that they will enjoy a sweet 16 better , but i mean its a tradition for a spanish girl to have a sweet 15 ? im confused help me out

I think that you should have which ever one that you want the most, because if they are your true friends then they wont get mad at you for a party!

~~~Becka~~~

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