My friends all turned on me and now im alone. It's cool sometimes but when something big happens or when Friday nite comes I'm lonely. I have a boyfriend to talk to and I still have a few friends that im not close with. What should I do?
tinkerbell4321 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 6:16 pm: I was in this position also at one time in my life. What I would do is make new friends and make your old ones jealous... eventially your old ones will be unhappy with you having a good time that they'll try to come back to you and you're gonna say "Well... I don't know". Get close to all your other friends that you're not close to. Call the and talk to them and finally ask to come over and eventially, you'll get close and your old ones will wish you were bored doing nothing because they think you're lonely!!!
Don't let them see you cry or don't let them see you be lonely or they won't leave you alone about it! LOL.
Hope I helped!!!
~~~Becka~~~ [ tinkerbell4321's advice column | Ask tinkerbell4321 A Question ]
*ashlee* answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 5:17 pm: find new friends. because your old ones suck. get yourself 'out there' and do things. join a club, become a life guard, volenteer at a homeless shelter. those are always the best kinds of places to meet new people. good experiences and life lessons too. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
little_lightning_bug answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 4:17 pm: hey i know it can't be fun having no one really there, i know how it is most of my friends are at my church and my grandmother refuses to let me go anymore. this is really time for you to get new friends and to be diffrent, maybe you should try something diffrent like getting your bf and like going out to a cafe or something like that, you can meet a lot of new and interesting ppl!
Mackenzie answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 3:45 pm: Well obviously the ones that you claim "tuRned on you [me]" you need to just foRget about entiRely; obviously they'Re not fRiends at all!! But the fRiends you DO have... you should make shoRe to upkeep those those Relationships. You can NEVER have too many fRiends. Why don't you tRy extending moRe invitations moRe fReuqently; hopefully once you begin to, they'll do the same. And of couRse spend whateveR time you can with youR man. Hope things woRk out! :) [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
shake answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 2:58 pm: Super glue pennies to your fingers. Then walk around and yell "im the penny monster"" Gimme some pennies" [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
SWANKiFiED answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 2:53 pm: I'm sorry you're going through this. I reccomend trying to get close with the friends that you have. Invite them over or to the movies. If you show them what a great person you are & be yourself then maybe you guys will start hanging out more. Also, try to spend alot of time with your boyfriend & show the friends that turned on you that you don't need them. Good luck hon! ♥ [ SWANKiFiED's advice column | Ask SWANKiFiED A Question ]
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