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caught in the middle
alright i have 2 best friends ( girls )and i love them with all of my heart. now i am currently goin out with a guy but he isnt what i want i mean he is nice and all but i just dont feel the connection but anyway there is another guy i am crazy about but i have two problems with being with him #1. 7 months ago one of my bestfriends went out with him for 3 months and they broke up for a stupid reason she is still in love with him and a month ago she went " crazy " she cut her self and they were bad she went to a place to get help and she has been doin great but she is still deeply in love with him.. now problem #2. my other bestfriend is currently goin out with this guy and other bestfriend is okay about it but then she tells me constantly she hates it and she gets sooo upset over it now we have all been hanging out a lot together and the other day my one bestfriend that is goin out with this guy wasnt there it was just my other best friend my boyfriend this wonderful guy and another one of my friends.. we were at one of my friends house and me and the guy i am crazy about were upstairs alone and we were just hanging out and listening to music and all of a suddenn he kissed me i was like wow and my mind went blank now this was just a peck on the lips but it was the greatest thing in the whole entire world ahh im so confused i just wanna either be with him or just let it go like nothing happened but that would be hard because he is on my mind like all the time so please help me im stressing over this like crazy *sigh*
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Don't go out with the guy because you're BEST FRIEND is going out with him and friendships last way longer than relationships so... don't. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be but don't do anything because that's wrong to your best friend. I mean, this is her boyfriend who she probably cares a lot about and you can a little "crush" on him but don't go like that becaus for one thing, she could call you a slut for stealing other people's boyfriends, even if you're not a slut and you're NOT a slut but she could spread rumors while she's mad at you and that would not be good for you. For another thing, if your other best friend likes him too, and the one that's going out with the guy TALKS about her behind her back, you KNOW she'll do the same to you, even if she says, "Oh yeah! That's cool!" History will repeat itself. You don't want to get hurt and I think you should WAIT until maybe something between you and that guy happen, if it ever does. There are plenty of fish in the sea but don't EVER mess with your best friends guy! If you want to talk about something TOTALLY off topic or need more advice, email me in my advicenators inbox OR email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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If you think losing your two best friends is worth it, date this guy you're so crazy about. If you want to keep your friends, (and your boyfriend) don't let him kiss you, and don't date him.
If you don't like your boyfriend, break up with him, because that's not fair. As for this other dude, just stay away from him, unless you want to lose your best friends.
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Don't even touch it with a 10 foot pole. Going out with him, I mean.
If it's meant to happen, it will happen, but your best friend has a thing for him, and if you go after him, it will be like betraying her.
It also sounds like the situation is far more complicated than it needs to be, so the farther you stay away from it, the less confused and stressed you will be.
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keep it simple and stick to this : dont go out with someone your BEST FRIEND is still crazy about or isnt over yet. best friends dont do that to each other
i know feelings get in the way but put him off until after shes over him and moved on..and after you have a talk with her and you make sure she is 100% ok with you and him together
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