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i just met up with him and did what you said =] thanks for your help hes amazing (link)
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glad i could help! that's cool hope it works out with u too! :D
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hi i'm 17.i'm from Lebanon/Asia..i'm having a probleme with my boyfriend: i don't trust him and he doesn't trust me..i'm with him since 2006.we try a couple of times to breack up,but we can't becauze we love each other,he is so selfish.he wants me for him and no one else..he sheats on me onces and he told me that.he's so honest with me but i can't took this..plz help we love each other but we don't understand each other..thank u (link)
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Sounds like you should talk to him about this! Ask him why he doesn't trust you! You have every right now to trust him! He cheated but you didn't so it makes no sense. If he cheated clearly he's not good enough for you and you just break up and get over him. That's what I'd try to do, life would be much easier. :3 But talk to him first before you make any drastic decisions. Hope this helps!
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I recently found out a friend I have has genital warts. I have tried to look up information on it but the internet has so muc info that I cant find the answer I am looking for. All I want to know is how contagious is it? Like can you only get it if you have sex or can you get it from just touching? I am in NO way sexually active with this guy. I'm worried cuz I hug him a lot. Like what if he touched his dick and doesnt wash his hands then touches my hand or skin. I really dont want to get it so I'm just curious if its possible to get it from him even if I dont do anything sexual with him. (link)
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Ok buddy, I did anwser ur question, I don't think ur stupid or anything i don't think it's funny i think ur funny. Is that so horrible to think ur funny?
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After being chased for almost a year I finally allowed him to come over. Being both spontaneous Aquarians we have had sex both times that he visited. I know he likes me but I told him I thought he was too young for me (12 years younger) but over 35. How do I get the relationship to take a turn away from sex to more serious dating? (link)
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Tell him you don't want to be this intamite when you're not even dating - honesty is the best policy! :3 Tell him you want to start dating (if he likes you he will agree) and that you want to have sex in moderation.
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16/f
i have a problem. within the last 2 months, my armpits have been sweating like crazy. i live in the south so its already hot but not i have to wear a hoodie to school since i sweat a lot. i don't believe i smell, i carry perfume though but you can see the sweat stain. i have tried a lot, anit persperent, cotton clothes, special body wash. . .
please, i cant even raise my arm to answer a question without my hoodie.
from,
embarassed (link)
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Um deoderant? It helps stop sweating and if you're sweating alot especially since you live in a hot climate put it on several times a day!
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My BFF is dating this boy for the past 2 or like 3 weeks. We're both 14 but she's ALMOST 15. She told me today that the boy that is her boyfriend is in 7th grade. I'm think she's robbing the cradle, as they say, but who knows. She said he's so mature for a seventh grader. IDK. How old are 7th graders usually? I can't remember how old I was then for sure LOL (link)
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Umm 7th graders are 12 turning 13. o_o
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hi im 15/f and i have a boyfriend whos gay i know its strange but there a good reason why this happened. i met him a year ago as my other self. im pansexual and i crossdress i feel like im a boy inside and i act it out online not in a bad way i promise but i have an account i use for my boy side. well he messaged me one day and we started talking. we both fell for eachother and now a year later we still havent seen eathother its been a long distance relationship. he still doesnt know my real gender and i really want to tell him. one day i asked him if he would still love me if i was a girl and he said that he would still love me no matter what, he loves me for whats on the inside. even though he has said this to me i cant find the words to tell him. ive been trying to make him break up with me so i wouldnt hurt him anymore but he wont leave me. and when i break up with him my heart hurts,it beats an empty beat. i dont know whats wrong with me. i love him with all my heart and i dont want this lying anymore, all i want is for him to be happy. please help me. (link)
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Urgg, MEET UP WITH HIM ALREADY!!! Before you do tell him not to be mad, tell him you were scared and trust me- online relationships don't work!!! And I know you may think you're in love but it's not possible to be in love with someone you can't be with in real life. If you don't beleive me- meet him in real life and feel how much stronger it is. Also, be honest and tell him your problem. Also I think you may be a transgender, look it up! :3 It's when you were born you knew you were a boy but you were born inside a girl's body. :3
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15/m
I'm a freshmen this year at a new school. There is this girl in my English class i noticed today. This was the second day of school, and after lunch i noticed her while i was walking. I don't know her name or anything about her and i wanna get to know her, i wanna try being friends with her and see where that takes me. I have some friends that are girls i text them alot but in person i'm shy i've hung out with girls a couple times but i'm not really talkative with girls... im shy. So i was wondering if you guys have any ideas what i can do to help me out with this new girl and future girls and people.
Any help would be good!
Thanks! :) (link)
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You should just try to introduce yourself or while your next to her try to make a joke or something directed only to her. Then say oh btw my name is just be cool, stay optimistic, ask her if she wants to hang out sometime :3
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My girlfriend wants to take a step back from being a relationship with me to just dating me. She says we are going to fast and she wants to slow things down or whatnot. What do I do? Do I say yes to her even though I love her so much and what she wants I dont want and hurts me so much? Or do what we both dont want and break up with her? I want to continue being in a relationship with her but apprently she doesnt please help me ASAP I have had such a bad night I didnt even go to school. BTW im 18 shes 21. (link)
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Gah, age difference, well do what she says, be careful, give her space, and in time maybe it will evolve into a relationship again, don't break up it makes things worse, just take a step back, don't be too serious, show her you care but are not too serious, let her adjust it's bad when the relationship is out of balance as in one person wants more than the other, just go with the flow. Hope this helps.
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17/f
So this is going to make me seem like a 10 year old whiny little girl, but its really bothering me, so be as honest as you want to be, i need it.
In march, i dated this guy for THREE WEEKS. Not long at ALL. And it wasn't even like we were friends or anything for very long before that. I really liked him a lot. he was super attractive, really fun and i just loved his personality. Unfortunately, he ended things because we rushed into things and they weren't working out like we planned. When he did this (at the time), i agreed we should just be friends. Well for about two weeks after we broke up, i was kind of depressed and i cried all the time about it. But we said we could still be friends, so i was hopeful that we'd get back together. But then, for about a month after we broke up, we didn't speak at all and it was incredibly awkward. Over the summer, we talked online a few times and stuff, and i realized that i still have feelings for him. It's been MONTHS and im still not over a guy i barely knew. I feel SO pathetic. Why do i care so much? What the hell!?
thanks for anything :) (link)
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Try to talk to him more and actually be friends instead of aquaintances, maybe you'll get closer and get back together. If you care so much maybe it's because he's a really great guy. You're not pathetic, I'm in love with someone 2 years younger than me, and he's avoiding me and he's been playing me for a fool, I'm the pathetic one. :3 If you're meant to be, you will be together someday! :3
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ok so ive had this freind since freshman year lets call her L. L got a crush on a guy (calling him B) during that year. Its been two years and she still likes him. so i got this new friend whose a freshman (calling her D) so D was talking to B on facebook last night and asked if he had a date to the dance and she said she would have asked B to the dance if it weren't for someone else and B said i might have said yes. and now D is starting to fall for B. problem is L was gonna ask B to the same dance. They both really like
B so i do not know what to do. Should i tell D to back off of B or do i warn L to step her game up. i feel like i don't want to tell L this because this might crush her but i know if something happens between B and D it will hurt even worse and D is just a young girl and i don't want her to get hurt please help (link)
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I think you should tell L to get over him because you saw him flirting with another girl, and since he is flirting with D it's his choice and from what I know B probablly likes D not L who he hasn't flirted with, but he's flirted with D, so....his choice, find out who he likes and comfort the friend he doesn't like. Make sure D doesn't get hurt or blamed because she's younger tell L to be mature about it if it's not her and tell L to try to be nice to D if it's not her. And tell D she's a beautiful girl and will find someone better who will love her! if she's not the one B likes. Hope this helps! Get back to me!
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hey my boyfriend and I are thinking about throwing a halloween party and want to dress up together. Do you have any ideas we can do as a couple? Either to buy or make? thanks a lot! (link)
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You could be a princess, he could be a prince, one of you could be an animal the other can be the owner, you can be pikachu's!!! :D or one can be a pokemon, the other a pokemon trainer ;3
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ok so 14 female..
alright soo i have a friend well call her moneky anyways me and monkey have been friends for a long time ! and me and her "supposeably" enfasis on the " boyfriend go to the same school right? anyways me and him have a couple classes together she had the nerve to tell me that today in class that i was ALLL over her man and that she heard i was tryin to kiss him which i was def NOT!! like what the hell do i look like and plus i have a BOYFRIEND i dont need or WANT hers like get over yourself shaking my head then some other boy that i put her on with he's a college boy and she going to sit her and tell me that he goes to my school and i go out with him like are you kidding me???? he goes to college are you dumb !
anyways i guess what im asking is should i tlak to monkey about the situation or jus drop it and like change my number and stuff like that? and do you think by her starting this rumor do you think that my boyfriend might hear about it and think that its true? like she is so fake and i blieved all her bull crap just because i thought she needed a friend... (link)
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wow, that's rediculous tell her she's just being immature and she owes you an apology for putting you on the spot like that! If she won't then threaten to not be her friend anymore and if your boyfriend is true, trusts you and is a GOOD boyfriend he will stand by you, what you say, defend you, and believe you. If not, then he's stupid too.
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im 20 yr old male. almost 21
i have some sort of personality disorder. i dont feel like myself. and im always tired... not to mention i dont feel emotions, like emotions dont exist. do you think it is possible for me to fall in love when i cant feel anything... like maybe she changes me. maybe she shows me soo much love that i cant help but to love back... ive been online dated many times and we end up going out for a month or two and then i give up cuz i dont feel anything.. and i end up breaking the girls heart... i dont want to break any my hearts... i dont want to hurt anyone... so what do you think?
u can email me osherman789 on gmail (link)
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Oh gosh, online realationships don't work out buddy! If you can't be with her than I'm 100% sure you're not in love TRUST ME!!! If you see her in real life that's a different story because that means clearly you do have emotions even if you think you don't everyone does. It doesn't make sense.
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I just started my new school , and I've been seeing this boy when I'm in the hallways going to another class. I think he is really cute. How do i talk to him ? I never talked/introduce myself to a boy before. Any advice or help ! Please. BOYSS cann you answer to ! Thank-You ! You may say this is childish but to me its not . So can you not say that , cause I do have feelings , noo we never talked or sayed nothing to each other just looked into each other eyes. (link)
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Hm well, sounds like you guys have a connection already well, if you could make a joke or something and then say oh hey i'm by the way. Try to grab a hold of the conversation say we should hang out sometime. You could try to be friends with him and see how it goes! :3
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Ok well i had sex like monday and saturday and i wuz wondering if i wuz pregnant. My nipples and around my nipples are darker than they normally are and they have occasional hurting flashes. like it hurts for 3 seconds then doesnt hurt anymore. I wuz wonderingif it wuz normal for the boobs to switch color? Also if i could very well be pregnant. (link)
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Well some common side effects to pregnancy are sensativity to smells, breat tenderness, weight gain, etc. Did you use protection?
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im 15/m i have been cutting my wrists since age twleve. i really want to stop but i really need help i have been to therapy. but idk im just deprressed the therapy doesnt help. please some one help :/ (link)
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Gahh, I'm 14 and I've been cutting my arms since I was only 13 so since 2010 started actually, I remember I started in January. I tried to stop several times and I keep promising myself that I will stop, I cut my wrist a couple times but I don't like to that much, I usually do it on my arm but I don't like to do it n that side either so i try to do it on the side opposite my wrist I don't go to therapy, I have family issues and every once in a while it becomes too much and I need to let my anger out, as a child I had terrible anger issues up until I turned 13 and everything was going perfect in my life, then i don't know what triggered it but in 2010 everything just kind of crumbled down, maybe it was sympathy for my cousins, anyway gosh sorry to bring up my situation but I'm just letting u kno it's pretty hard and confusing, I cut and they heal and every few months I cut again, why are you depressed? and how often do you cut urself? It would help to get the source of the problem also cutting is often a result of certain emotions. Is it to let out anger? That's mine, anger and it used to be to stop the sadness but it's only when I get way too angry now. But you're a teenager and it's that time. Maybe finding a solution to the cause of this depression would help or talking about it with someone who can help you by stopping the cause. I hope this helps! :3 My problem is - I don't talk, nobody knows except another cutter herself, and even if they know, they don't know why :3 I bottle things up until it becomes so overwhelming that I yell at someone about something unimportant, :D sorry for boring you with my story, but I figured it would be a good reference for u. Hope this helped, get back to me!
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I'm 18 and a girl. I've been having irritation 'down there' for about 2 weeks now. At first I thought I just didn't rinse the soap off good enough in the shower, but now since all this time has gone by and it's still irritated, I have no idea what it is. It hurts and itches down there, but it doesn't burn when I pee. I'm a virgin also. Could I have an infection? Is it just an irritation that will go away with time? Any ideas what it could be and/or what I should do about this? Should I be seeing a doctor or gynecologist? Thanks. (link)
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It might be yeast infection but uh u can google it I don't really wanna type all the details
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What kinds of things would a guy say to flirt on aim? This is assuming you know this person in real life and are classmates. Thanks. (link)
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lots of people say things on aim because theyre afraid to say it in rl. everyone has different views on what flirting is, most guys it's giving yu a cute nickname, saying like ummmm, do yu think i'm cute? or whatever. asking oh what would you say if i asked yu out? that's aim flirting in my book, i've had plenty of flirty aim guys.....
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ohk well im 13 , and im a sexual person with both genders . i feel as if im a slut but i cant help not to do stuff with people . and i hate it when people call me a slut . like if they were sexually active they would prollly be the same way . sex feels great . it sucks tho that im only 13 and i already had sex . im moore mature than most girls in my grade . i have all older friends that are in 11th 10th grades and so on. can you guys help me thanks (: (link)
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you're not a slut you're just more matured and you blossomed faster, how many times have you had sex? Believe me, I almost had it once but my parents were home and there's no way we can be alone together without an adult around and I have never told anybody lol but you're not a slut, long as you know the truth. There just immature, probablly jealous, or it may go against there beliefs and they resent you for that. Is it really bad the first time? Like painful? and how many times does it take to get better? Curiosity killed the cat.....lol
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