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is it possible to fall in love for a woman, when i dont feel emotions?
im 20 yr old male. almost 21
i have some sort of personality disorder. i dont feel like myself. and im always tired... not to mention i dont feel emotions, like emotions dont exist. do you think it is possible for me to fall in love when i cant feel anything... like maybe she changes me. maybe she shows me soo much love that i cant help but to love back... ive been online dated many times and we end up going out for a month or two and then i give up cuz i dont feel anything.. and i end up breaking the girls heart... i dont want to break any my hearts... i dont want to hurt anyone... so what do you think?
u can email me osherman789 on gmail
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No one is going to fix you. And any relationship you enter where that's what you want out of it, you'll break more hearts. You make it their job to get a reaction out of you, and it's their failure when it doesn't happen.
Nothing good will ever come of that.
You need therapy. Self diagnosed personality disorders never turn out well. You're introverted, probably depressed. You don't sound emotionless you sound emotionally drained.
A trained therapist can help you figure out if you're depressed, if you're missing some brain chemicals, etc etc. Find a counselor, talk to someone. Opening up is a process that you have to begin, if you keep waiting for someone to light the fires you'll be sitting there alone for the rest of your life.
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Oh gosh, online realationships don't work out buddy! If you can't be with her than I'm 100% sure you're not in love TRUST ME!!! If you see her in real life that's a different story because that means clearly you do have emotions even if you think you don't everyone does. It doesn't make sense.
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I don't think anyone else can change you.
However, we can change ourselves.
So, if you think you've met someone whose love has 'saved you', I would say you've either saved yourself, or it wont last.
You are experiencing guilt about hurting others, which makes me suspect you aren't completely emotionless. Obviously I can't and won’t diagnose you at all, but it's very possible you are experiencing emotional deadening, and that’s a symptom of a lot of mental illness AND physical illnesses. Many of those can be treated and/or cured.
Please, get yourself checked out by a doctor, and referred to a mental health professional if need be. Although very little can be done for people who truly have no empathy or emotional experience in their brains, there are often ways to support and help people who are suffering from emotional deadening for some reason or another.
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