Question Posted Thursday September 9 2010, 4:31 pm
ok so 14 female..
alright soo i have a friend well call her moneky anyways me and monkey have been friends for a long time ! and me and her "supposeably" enfasis on the " boyfriend go to the same school right? anyways me and him have a couple classes together she had the nerve to tell me that today in class that i was ALLL over her man and that she heard i was tryin to kiss him which i was def NOT!! like what the hell do i look like and plus i have a BOYFRIEND i dont need or WANT hers like get over yourself shaking my head then some other boy that i put her on with he's a college boy and she going to sit her and tell me that he goes to my school and i go out with him like are you kidding me???? he goes to college are you dumb !
anyways i guess what im asking is should i tlak to monkey about the situation or jus drop it and like change my number and stuff like that? and do you think by her starting this rumor do you think that my boyfriend might hear about it and think that its true? like she is so fake and i blieved all her bull crap just because i thought she needed a friend...
Jami answered Thursday September 9 2010, 8:55 pm: It sounds like this "friend" of yours has some insecurity issues. Tell her how you feel and then move forward. If she continues to act childish I would make some new friends. She sounds like a bunch of drama with all that delusion. Give her a chance to make things right and if she doesn't you can just consider her an associate rather than a friend. Someone who feels inferior to you or jealous will never be able to be a good friend to you. Give it a little time, but don't lose sleep if she decides to remain this way. [ Jami's advice column | Ask Jami A Question ]
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