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Pathetic, i know


Question Posted Wednesday September 8 2010, 7:37 pm

17/f

So this is going to make me seem like a 10 year old whiny little girl, but its really bothering me, so be as honest as you want to be, i need it.

In march, i dated this guy for THREE WEEKS. Not long at ALL. And it wasn't even like we were friends or anything for very long before that. I really liked him a lot. he was super attractive, really fun and i just loved his personality. Unfortunately, he ended things because we rushed into things and they weren't working out like we planned. When he did this (at the time), i agreed we should just be friends. Well for about two weeks after we broke up, i was kind of depressed and i cried all the time about it. But we said we could still be friends, so i was hopeful that we'd get back together. But then, for about a month after we broke up, we didn't speak at all and it was incredibly awkward. Over the summer, we talked online a few times and stuff, and i realized that i still have feelings for him. It's been MONTHS and im still not over a guy i barely knew. I feel SO pathetic. Why do i care so much? What the hell!?

thanks for anything :)


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kibawolfe answered Saturday September 11 2010, 12:35 am:
Try to talk to him more and actually be friends instead of aquaintances, maybe you'll get closer and get back together. If you care so much maybe it's because he's a really great guy. You're not pathetic, I'm in love with someone 2 years younger than me, and he's avoiding me and he's been playing me for a fool, I'm the pathetic one. :3 If you're meant to be, you will be together someday! :3

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Sakura answered Thursday September 9 2010, 12:52 am:
the same thing happened to me. its probaly because you havent met anyone else yet to get your mind off of it so your stuck in the past. put yourself out there talk to somone new! hope this helped:)

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