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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."
i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
i'm an upcoming sophomore at uva-wise, where i want to pursue a career as a college professor.
i am a manager at little caesar's & it takes up a good percentage of my time, but i love where i work.
i tend to read a lot.
actually i read too many books at a time.
& once i start writing i don't know when to stop. i'm head-over-heels for this one specific guy that i've been with for heck & ever[jonathan mark gibson] he's my world & i love him.
i'm not a fan of profanity, especially when girls do it. it's not impressive & it's not attractive. there are better words in this world dear.
& good grammar = thumbs up :]
i'm insanely girly, slightly high maintenance. but i'm easy to please. my nails are always done, but mainly because i'm almost a licensed nail technician :)
i think laughter is the cure for everything. i'm loving life. & i'm living my senior year up ;) oh and by the way, i'm honored by your hatred.
:)
i'm an honest person. i give the best advice that i possibly can, & if i don't feel as if i can answer your question properly, then i will forward you to someone who i feel is more qualified to answer.
feel free to ask me anything. i'm up for any sort of question :]
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me and my boyfriend have had sex about 15 times maybe?
and he still can't last longer than a minute.
why is this? and is it normal?
i'd really like us to be able to do it longer so do you have any advice on how to? (link)
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some guys have a lot less stamina than others.
sometimes my boyfriend & i will have sex & he'll be done in like 5 minutes & other times he won't be done for 2 hours.
- the best way to fix this problem is to do less foreplay with him & more with you (foreplay = fooling around before the sex) if you fool around with him he's going to be really aroused & ready, which can cause him to not last as long. but if you are really aroused then the sex will be great no matter how short it is.
- another tip is to use a condom, they give less penetration & makes it more difficult for him to enjoy because it's a barrier.
- try different positions. positions that don't stimulate him as much. such as you being on top or even doggy style.
- & of course the best way to stop him from finishing so quickly is to have him masterbate earlier that day. way before you guys have sex. or even before you have sex, because then it's more hard for him to finish again.
i hope i helped
:)
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i had unprotected sex on the 16th. i'm due for my period on the 5th. we pulled out before he was even close to cumming. but i think precum might have gotten in there. do you think i might be pregnant? so far the symptoms i have are sore breats, headaches, tired. (which could be from my period, but its not due for ten days) but i also have like a runny/stuffy nose and achey too. what's your opinion? (link)
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i've answered questions like this one soooo many times, and i'll tell you exactly what i tell everyone else.
- don't stress about being pregnant, UNTIL you miss your period. when you're worried about pregnancy you are going to notice way more aches & pains than you normally would. & stressing too much can cause a false pregnancy, which means you basically convince your body that you are pregnant, and you'll miss your period, your boobs will grow, your stomach will swell & your boobs will even lactate (produce milk).
- every period runs about 20-27 days, some people have theirs later & some earlier. within those days, the first 2 weeks before your period, you are more fertile. so if you had sex 2 weeks before your period, there is a chance you could get pregnant.
but if it was 2 weeks after your last period, then you are less fertile & less likely to get pregnant. but that theory isn't always guaranteed. you still had unprotected sex & you still could get pregnant no matter what actions were taken.
your runny nose & such doesn't have anything to do with pregnancy symptoms, don't even worry about that.
but if you miss your period by 2 weeks, then you should take a pregnancy test.
don't freak out if it's been 2 days & your period hasn't started, because you'll worry yourself sick.
just breathe, relax(even though it's hard - i know, i've been there) & next time please, please, pleaaaaaase use a condom
:) hope i helped.
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i just broke up with my boyfriend and i realized how pathetic i was, i devoted my whole life to him and became so codependent. now im deciding to grow from this and become more independent. what are some songs that have to do with being independent and finding myself? music helps keep me inspired =]
ps. i already have independent by webbie, so no need to write that
thanks in advance! (link)
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miss independent by kelly clarkson
stronger by christina aguilera
hypnotized by pillar
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anybody got any good bands that are a technoish, along with some heavy metal. electronica
along the lines of dr. acula, sky eats airplane, and HORSE the band. (link)
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- drop dead gorgeous
- eyes set to kill
- the medic droid
- looks that kill
those are just off the top of my head.
i have more if you need them.
:)
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what is an orgasm? when guys are fingering girls, what does the girl's orgasm look or feel or sound like? and same for a guy's orgasm?
do guys think its attractive for girls to have an orgasm? (link)
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an orgasm is the physical and emotional sensation experienced at the peak of sexual excitation, usually resulting from stimulation of the sexual organ and usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.
or in another terms, it's something that happens when you're being sexually stimulated & a peak is reached.
a girls orgasm isn't very noticeable other than the fact that her vagina repeatedly tightens very rapidly.
a guys is more obvious, because once he reaches his peak, he ejaculates (white cum comes out of his penis)
of course boys like it when girls have an orgasm because they feel as if they accomplished that for the girl.
orgasms, of course, are very enjoyable.
for girls they are almost impossible to explain how they feel. but when you get one, you know.
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ok i need to know the song name and artist
i know most of the lyrics
and i know its a girls voice
so this is as much as i know:
and girls with the fake eyelashes
give it up give it up if you wanna pay up
dance with the red light distance.
flash (or splash) lash lash lash..........
mk well thanks
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Porcelain And The Tramps - Redlight District
maybe?
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well i was wondering if anyone could make me into a cartoon or anime if i gave you a picture of me
i dont really care how but yeah
thanks in advance
:] (link)
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on photofiltre i can turn pictures into cartoons. they're more like 3D cartoons, but if you would like for me to try, i can :)
i can't promise that it's what you want or anything.
you can email me at miss_suzii15@yahoo.com
or just send me the link to your photo in a question
:)
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i have this new boyfriend and our relationship is going quite well...my only problem is that we both love to make-out, but sometimes, he's not so great at it.
how do i tell him without it being an awkward situation or hurting his feelings? (link)
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compliment him on the things he does that you like, therefore he's going to do that more often.
try to take control more. if you take control, he's going to have to follow your lead.
most first few kisses are always awkward, and eventually you grow to like the way that person kisses.
but sometimes there isn't anything you can do about the way someone kisses, and you just have to get used to it really.
& if worse comes to worse, you might have to ask him if you can give him tips or teach him. but hopefully it won't come down to that.
good luck
:)
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what are some moves i can make to get my bf to kiss me? (link)
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i've answered a question sort of along the same lines as this one, so i'll use that same answer:
"when you & your boyfriend are alone, maybe watching tv or sitting on the couch or anything, casually lay your head on his shoulder or his chest. if he's any form of a boyfriend, he's more than 90% likely to put his arm around you.
whenever he does that, he's basically giving you permission for anything.
with your head on his shoulder or chest, wrap your arms around his waist & look up at him. if he's not looking back at you, just kiss his cheek. but if he's looking at you, give him a small peck on the lips. & then smile, and then kiss again. & this time, make it longer.
making out may seem hard when you think about it, but once you're in the moment, everything comes naturally to you.
people say you can base your entire relationship with a person by your first kiss together.
i hope i helped
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is there anything i can do to get my boobs bigger (link)
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i heard or read, i can't remember, that if you rub your boobs a lot they will start growing.
or of course you can get breast enlargement.
or even some medication can help.
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I really want to write a book. I'm creative, and have a bunch of ideas. Even though I want this bad, I never feel motivated enough to just sit down and get it done.
Where can I find this motivation and organization to finish it? And if it does happen, how do I go about getting it published?
Thank you. (link)
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i started writing a book once, and i've been working on it for over a year now & it's still not even close to being finished.
i wrote it on an incident that happened in my life (sort of along the lines of a heartbreak). but i didn't use my name, or anyone else's & i changed some of the situations around.
if you know something interesting that you've heard about in someone's life, or even in your own life, or got an idea from somewhere, maybe you should write your book about that subject :)
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haha this is weird but when you get fingered do you like stand up or lay down? (link)
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i'm sure you can be fingered while standing up, but that seems a bit awkward for both of you.
in my opinion, it'll be more enjoyable for you & easier for him if you're laying or sitting down.
:)
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what should a girl do while being fingered so she doesn't end up just laying there and making the situation akward. (link)
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kiss him. (neck, ears, chest, etc.)
play with his hair.
rub on his arms or back.
make noises.
let him know you're enoying it.
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my friend is starting to get really obsessed with this one guy and quite frankly i don't think he is going to like her in that way. she is nice and all but i don't think he wants a girlfriend. and plus he doesn't really know she exists. so how do i make her like him less, i don't want her to get hurt =[. (link)
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you can't make someone stop liking someone.
they best you can do is support her.
give her your opinion on the situation, and tell her you don't think she needs to get so attached because nothing is guaranteed.
& there is a chance, of course, that she isn't going to listen to you. but be a good friend, if she likes him, she likes him, there's nothing you can do about it.
but if she gets hurt, then help her through it all. let her know that you are there for her & she always has you to lean on.
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i just got photofilter and i need help with it help me i need to no how to use it and make a really good sign (link)
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i LOVELOVELOVE photofiltre.
i could never survive without it. & i taught myself how to use it, therefore you can too =)
all you have to do is fiddle around with it. that's really all i did.
here's my way of explaining how to use the simple little buttons:
http://i29.tinypic.com/2uf6i5v.jpg
orrr you can just use the tutorials on their website;
http://photofiltre.free.fr/frames_en.htm
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i never tried this ask a random columnist thing before but oh well. Im 15 years old, female, from a small small town and like every teenager i have issues. sometimes i just feel so alone and i have friends and they are the best and i have family who are great as well but still i cant help but feel alones sometimes, also i cant help but feel like im not doing what im supposed to be doing like somehow im living a different life than what i was supposed to. i just need someone to talk to and maybe someone who can relate you dont need to answer this but u if do thats great too (link)
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well i'm really sorry that you feel this way sometimes, it sounds to me as if you are just depressed. and depression can happen for no reason at all. i've been depressed before, so i know what it feels like to feel as if you are doing everything wrong & that nothing is going to go right. i'm not sure what i can tell you that's going to help you feel better. but you need to meet people, talk to others about feeling this way, your guidance couselour is a perfect example.
i wish i could help you out more, but i'm not even sure what i could do.
if you need someone to talk to, feel free to email me anytime at all miss_suzii15@yahoo.com, i always check my email & i'll always reply.
good luck
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ok so this one guy who stoped talking to me for like 2 months, started talking to me again. and he wants to chill this summer.
he told me that he still likes me more than a friend and all that, but the thing is, he still has a girlfriend.
he said he would never cheat--but i think if i made a move on him, he wouldnt make me stop.
i kind of want to tease him some, so should i be all flirty and like kiss him just to see what happens? thanks! (link)
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okay, typical boy - number one.
if he likes you as more than a friend, than why is he still with his girlfriend? & why wouldn't he cheat? it seems to me that if a guy likes a girl, yet is dating another girl he would do something to get the girl to break up with him (i.e. cheating) therefore his logics just aren't matching up.
aaaand, you're right, if you were to put a move on him, he wouldn't stop you. but that doesn't mean you need to do so. he wouldn't stop you mainly because you're a girl, making a move on him. no guy would stop that from happening.
be friends with him all you want, but don't get attached. if he really liked you, then you wouldn't even have to be asking me this question, because he wouldn't have a girlfriend.
i don't think you should waste your time on someone who has a girlfriend. he really isn't worth it.
to be as honest as possible, i think he's just using you. he wants someone to be there once him & his girlfriend do break up (if they do) & he thinks you would be the type of person to wait for that. but i think you are better than that :)
good luck.
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help!
i am a freak i guess you could say. and i cant do the things i need to do because i have the nosiest parents ever. but when guys ask me to hang they wonna do stuff. like head and handjobs. and idk how to do it exactly. so could anyone give me a play by play or tips.
something?
andything, please! (link)
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i can't go into detail because last time i did, i got banned for a bit.
i can give you brief definitions, but if you want to know more you can email me at miss_suzii15@yahoo.com
fingering: when a guy inserts his fingers into your vagina.
hand job(hj) - you give a guy pleasure by doing an up & down motion, on his penis.
blow job(bj) - the same as a hand job except you use your mouth
=) hope i helped.
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So i'm having a "dance party" in about 2 weeks and i really need some good dancing music to put in a playlist for the party. i need like "grinding" songs almost.. sorry if you're against that "type" of dance or don't even consider it dancing, but thats the kind of music i'm looking for..
also if you have and love songs that would be really helpful too, seeing as i really like this guy but idk if it'll ever work out =/ (link)
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rap is your key, completely.
& r&b songs are perfect for slow dancing.
here are songs i hear at a lot of dances.
lollipop by lil wayne
low by flo rida & tpain
buy you a drink by tpain
cyclone by baby bash
don't stop by baby bash & keith sweat
get buck in here by felli fel
make love in this club by usher
what u got by akon & colbie o donis
1000 degreez by lil wayne
crying out for me by mario
bed by j holiday
until the end of time by justin timberlake
baby don't go by fabolous
pop bottles by birdman
hypnotized by plies & akon
take you there by sean kingston
those are just off the top of my head, if you need more let me know :)
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When you get your cherry popped, is it true that you can't feel it pop sometimes? Ex: Playing sports. (link)
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mine was broken while i was running & it didn't hurt or anything. i didn't even know it happened until i got home & realized it.
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