Listen ask me abut anything and iw ill give you a response no matter what. Ilike music, play the keyboard. And if you expecially need help with things like socially or funny or things along that sort just ask.
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Gender: Male
Location: MI
Age: 16
AIM: lokatme321
Member Since: April 2, 2007
Answers: 38
Last Update: April 28, 2007
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Ok, well my name is Erin. And I need a new HOT AIM screen name. here is some stuff about me...
I have brown hair.
I play basketball and softball.
I love guys.
AND IM JUST UR AVERAGE GIRLY-GIRL, WITH A SPORTY SIDE.
Any ideas for a new screen name???
Thanks a bundle!
x0x0x0
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Misssnuggles lol not very good but its all i can think of
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A little background. I buy jewelry at the 99 cent store and the jewelry I buy looks like I could have brought them at Lord & Taylors, Bloomingdales, Nordstrums - I get a lot of compliments on my jewelry. However, my sister is such a snob so she will not buy anything UNLESS you pay a lot. STORY: Tonight I was wearing a fun ring and she commented on the ring and asked if I brought it at the 99 cent store. I told her no that this was just a fun ring. However, the jewelry I buy at the 99 cent store does not look 99 cent, but she laughed, but my Mom told her that last night when Anna was here for the first night of Passover, Anna loved the necklace that I (meaning me) wore. I called my sister a snob, and she got mad, and said; dont ever call me that I still wont buy anything at a ninety cent store;. My brother-in-law told my sister that she should not say things like that to me. Any way later on I showed her a necklace and she said it was pretty. MY QUESTION: WHY IS MY SISTER SUCH A SNOB AND REFUSES TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT ONE CAN BUY BEAUTIFUL JEWELRY AT THE 99 CENT STORE. I MEAN I DISCOVERED THIS MARCH 2006 BUT THEY HAVE BEEN SELLING THE JEWELRY FOR MANY YEARS. AS I SAID IF YOU SAW THE JEWELRY AND I TOLD YOU I BROUGHT THE JEWELRY AT BLOOMINGDALES, NORDSTRUMS, ETC YOU WOULD BELIEVE ME. (link)
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your sister isnt going for the looks she is going for the feeling of getting something worth more. Something worth more feels better< maybe not to you but to her probably. Plus think of this when someone ask you how much or where how do you feel. if you dont care then thats ok. But she probably feels better saying something that is worth more. Remember money doesnt buy happiness maybe you know that but she doesnt.
I hope this helped you.
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The hide and seek part makes a lot of sense! Wouldn't they just be even more mad if guys talked to them? And say I couldn't do it myself?
Should I stop saying mean things back to them?
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True True but can you say it your self? I mean there is only one of you and not just one of them? As for mean things yeah you should try but its not going to be easy.
I am editiing this part April 4 Tell me hw it went to today?
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Firstly, thanks for the advice. All year they have been saying stuff, like I'm a tramp, and I say things back to try to scare them off. This is the first time they have ever hit me, but I think it just fueled their anger. I see them everyday at school (when I'm alone, usually) and I am quite sure they will do it again. It's been going on since September 2006.
Should I try to avoid them? I don't want to spend my life hiding, but is it likely that they would just forget? I never thought it would elevate to this level.
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No dont try to avoid them because think of it this way. You know the game hide and seek well if the person hides the game is fun. If they dont well what fun is it. Now i am sure even if you dont avoid them they probably wont stop. Now If they have any guy friends that you know and they like then ask them to say something to these girls. From what it sounds like they propobly dont have any guy friends that arnt "cocks". i gotta think for a second
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Alright, so, I have a boyfriend. We've been talking for a year but technically only been together 4 months. It's a very...intense relationship and we've dealt with a lot. Both of us have some depression problems so i don't think it's the healthiest relationship in the world. I think we should break up, or at leat take a long break but I know if i tell him this he'll do something drastic. He has problems with cutting as did I and the last time something like this came up he almost killed himself. I guess part of me is tired of being around guys like this. Anyone have any advice on letting him go without him doing something horrible? (link)
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If he is not an angry person talk to him about cutting. You aid you got over it talk to him tell him. Sure its and addiction but talk to him about that first before talking to him about breaking up. After that you need to talk about your guys depression problems you have each other dont you? After that talk to him just talk to him but anything . Well after all that if nothing changes then you need well to talk to him again, and you probobly need to tlk to him about killing himeself, even if you have already need to again. I believe that you can get through to him but i dont know the whole story now do i so if im wrong im sorry. But after all that you guys can grow up or you can leave him without him doing anything.
Well good luck.
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15/f (16 this year)
So normally, I'm just a happy, straight-A, popular highschool student. I have lots of friends but some enemies because I don't back down when people talk behind my back or start fights with me.
There are 10+ grade eleven girls who all year have been calling me a slut/whore/tramp. Today afterschool I was walking with my best friend into town. 3 of the girls started yelling at me and saying mean stuff. So I said some stuff and kept walking, I just wanted them to not pick on me (thinking I'm weak). They ran up behind us and I said "I don't want trouble with you just leave me alone" and we had a bit of a staring contest and I kept walking. Next thing I knew I had a sick-to-my-stomach feeling and I had been punched in the back of the head.
They ran away, but as I walked through town a bunch of other older girls (friends with them) ran out of a store and yelled "whore!" once I had passed.
I don't want to be afraid of leaving my house. I have a great life.. a good family, friends, grades, looks, athletism, etc. They could easily screw that up. Anyone who has told teachers about them has been beaten up. They aren't afraid to use weapons, either.
What do I do..?
Thanks, help is greatly appreciated.
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First DO NOT SINK TO THERE LEVEL. you need help get it. Umm I have helped many people out of situations like this because im the "big guy" which i hate being by the way. Im 6'4 310 yeah i know what your thinking but anyway, guys are well protectors you could say guys help wether your age a little older or a lot older. plus you need to tell someone. Here is the thing i have found out this dont be afraid, dont, they will feed on that. I know i know its hard not to be. But dont tell them your not afraid because then they will be all over you. and if it gets to out of hand takle it to your parents, it sounds oike most people probobly dont like them so i am sure most people arnt going to get mad if somehow you get it so they leave. Dont tryt and make friends with them think about that that will screw your life up, im sure you dont want to do cocain. I know this paragrapgh cant help you the way you may want it to"not saying it can't but" obviously you have to do something. Like i said eaarlier DONT SINK TO THERE LEVEL
Keep me posted and i will try and help
good luck to you
Oh is this the first tiome they have done something? How long has it been going on? And do you know its going to happen again?
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I dont think this is under the right topic but,
Well lets just say i have no life, i like being involved in stuff but im just not. my mom is always saying go do somthing or stuff like that. does anyone have any ideas on stuff i can do or things i can get involved in instead of just sports.
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First communication is the way through life. Now if you have friends ask them to do something mostly invite them over. If you dont have friends make some. How you might say: communication you need to talk. even though sports is a good way its not for everyone, find people with your same hobbie, dont have one, get one. I want to say some more to you bust this is all for now, remember communication is the way through life.
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hey.
i like this guy, but the only reason i started is cause i thought he liked me.
question: can someone give me a few tests / quizzes of like, if he likes me? but really elaborate, & not from like quizilla cause i want a reliable one.
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I have heard many of these questions, but i will say this. The only way to know if someone likes you is for you to ask and them to tell. Oh and asking doesnt mean you have to ask him.
i hope this helped :)
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My boyfriend is moving to England in two months. So naturally I want to spend as much time with him as possible. I thought his parents were cool with this... Until yesterday. I was hanging out with my boyfriend in his den and walked up the stairs to get a coke. The cooler was on the landing, and from my postion I couldn't see the kitchen but I could hear what people were saying. I heard my bf's mom talking smack about stealing her little boy away. His Grandma was replying and agreeing with his mother. She was saying that we were too in love and spending too much time together. I was crushed. My boyfriend's family is very Catholic and strict. My family is very unconventional and easy going. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! (link)
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Listen my family is very catholic just like his. First you need to talk to your boyfriend, but think about it. He is moving to England right you dont need to ruin anything between you two and between him and is mother. So you could talk to him or the one i think is better you need to have a conversasion with his mother. But you cant be rude you have to sit done with her probably just you too and be as nice as you can and ask why she doesnt like you. I am sure we coud sit here and probably figuir out what she is going to say, but you have to be extremly nice, like to the point as not crying but close but not too close. Anyway remember communication is the way through life. Listen is you feel, because i dont now the entire situation, that this could ruin what you guys have, then you have to decide. Make sure if you talk to hi mother you might want to talk to your boyfriend first.
I hope i helped you i know i repeated, sorry about that. good luck.
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I have been having the No Sugar red bulls....it says one drink is only 10 cal and there is no sugar,carbs or anything eles in the drink....will this drink make me gain weight or is it a smart drink if i need energy and i need to cut back on my weight a bit? (link)
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With energy drinks making you gain weight isnt the thing you should be exactly worried about. Drinking an energy drink is like drinking a pot of coffee. It can destroy your liver. But think of it this way to much of anything is bad. And yes if you drink too much you can gain weight, butthere are other factors as your metabolism and other things.
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how can i build up my confidence to be more outgoing how i used to be.
i dont know how but over the couple of months i tottaly lost all my confidence.
ahh.
so what can i do other than join a sport, cuz its too late for that. and like dress comfortably?
ahh i just dont know but i always seem to put myself down and think like i dont belong i guess?
and thats not how i am.. why do i feel so left out sometimes?
also i sometimes feel ebarrassed to be seen with my best friends frineds... i dont know why.. its not like they are weird or anything. but i just am especially in front of my other friends.
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Im not sure how old you are like the last person but listen if you are a teenager which i believe you are its a natural occurance to have emotional problems whether male or femal. Im not saying your exacly having emotional problems, but i can tell you this i talk to everyone and i have some good friends that are on the total opposite side of he "spectrum" then the other friends and thats what think you are saying. Well ill tell you this that part of it is so hard. Hang out with both its all you can do. I can't exatly tell how to do it because i havnt quite figuired it out but i did find out one group i had way more in common then the other and the other its was more liked to talk to. If i figuir it out lol i will tell you. Remember this confidence doesnt come from things it comes from you. Take that line as you will. I hope everything turns out just fine.
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this guy i like keeps calling me hott. what else do i say besides thanks thanks thakns thanks. im 14 hes 16 (link)
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Tell him some compliments as a guy we dont tell yuo this but we like compliments too.
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I know it's hard to have one without the other, so that's why I'm aiming for both. I have high-self-esteem. I never try to blend or anything like that because what makes me feel so great about myself is knowing I'm not typical. I do lack confidence in some areas. I'm afraid that people will think I'm a snob or not sincere, so I'm very humble, but I'm convinced that people are taking that as a sign that I don't value myself. To have confidence in myself: what would you suggest? (link)
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you may not like this but the question is not what they think its what you feel. Confidence isnt bad but over confidence is just as bad. you need to figuir how much confidence you need to make yourslef happy and then maybe maybe maybe what makes it so people dont look at you like that. Minimum=you Maximum=them people are usually good at seeing people when they mess up but not when they do good. that last line take it as you will whether that will help you not. I hope this helped you.
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On my last visit, which was the second visit to my new therapist's office she said I was using histrionics and that what I needed to learn how to do in my relationships is be honest. I've been dramatizing and overexaggerating for so long, I'd not thought about the possibility of my not telling the complete truth to therapists. Anyway, I'm feeling like when I talk about it to my new boyfriend, I'm being dramatic or if I cry. I don't even want to emote at all anymore. I'm ashamed of my behavior, needing to manipulate men, needing to be the prettiest, the center of attention. But when I think about not doing that anymore, about talking to him in an unscripted sort of way, I become very anxious. I almost and sometimes will have a panic attack. Its as if this histrionic state of mind is just the way my mind is set up to work and communicate. I never seem to be living in the present moment because I'm constantly thinking about the next moment, or the current mind game I'd be playing. I miss out on feeling the real things because I'm such a fake ass. I feel like I'm in a hopeless situation because on these websites the doctors say there's no medication you can take for this- that therapy is difficult, there's not a whole lot a person can do for themselves. I don't want to be this way. Does anyone have any suggestions who knows anything about this disorder? I want so much to be mellow and laid back, happy with myself and independent. I don't want to be needy. My boyfriend knows of my manipulative and exaggerative ways, I'm afraid now that he will think everything I say is stretched. That I'm always trying to play him. I know there's no instant cure or even a cure at all really, but what CAN i do? Is it too late for my relationship? He said he trusted me, but can he now? I've never outright lied to him. Just over exaggerated. I feel so fake and ignorant and hopeless. (link)
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i cant totally help you but, think about it you know the problem you know what you feel you should be the problem is getting there. You look at it as you do your problem. If you want to lay back then lay back. You see i have the opposite problem im always laid back dont think the next step you know what i could not find a way out. Trust me there is. You say you need to be the prettiest the dont you know the problem dont. I know what your thinking its not that easy well duh its not that easy of it was then you would not have posted this. If he says he trust you then trust him sure people screw people all the time but we need to trust so we can find that trustworthy person. ps i always overexagerate learn when the irght time is for that.
if you need to talk i dont know how this site works my aim is lokatme321if you dont have aim i dont know if there is a way you can send me a message
but hey good luck
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I don't know if i'm super shy or if it's a medical problem but I can NOT present in the front of the class. I can't even stand up there and read one paragragh! My legs and voice automatically starts shaking, my face gets redder and redder, and if I stay long enough tears just come out of my eyes.
Sometimes if the teacher is undestanding, she'll let me present it to her alone during recess but this is for a big project that is about half of our report cards. 30% is going to be in our oral marks so I HAVE to present. There's going to be about 3-10 pages to read.
I can't even barely stand up there to read one paragrapgh so how am I going to read ten pages? I was so nervous that one time I fainted! Taking deep breathes and calming myself down does not work. Please help me..my life is literally on the line and my reputation in the school too (link)
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Ok heres the thing dont worry about it. those kids dont care. They dont. im sure none oof them is going to remember half of what you say or even a sentences for that matter. Its the same as doing it in front of your class. smile people like people that smile just dont worry about it its nothing to get nervouse about. i used to be nervouse but now i understand its nothing to get nervouse about. the worlds not going to end ima not going to die or anything like that. Oh most important walk up there with confidence . and present it with confidence.
I really dont know how this site works to good but heres my aim lokatme321
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ok i have a problem with being a little too much idependent. that i feel like im annoying if i talk to some poeple too much..
i guess its cuz all those people annoy me so much and i dont want to be like them. but i wish i was a little firnedlier.. well seemed liek a friendlier perosn. i dont know sometimes i feel like i come off not very friendly and i want to become more aprroachable and less independant. as in not spending so much time like along but trying to join in with other people..
how do i do that. (link)
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smile, doesnt seem like you smile. Its not if you talk to them to much its that are they talking to you too or are you just talking. You need to ask yourself that. Now i dont know how old or if your in school but im a junior in highschool and i as some would have called me a "jock" because i play football and was pretty good. But i dont talk and hang out with most of those people i actually like the musicans you know they kinda dress emoish but not really. Who would have though. I blonde and dress preppy and they have black hair and dont. Join a group that they are like you so your not getting along.
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k, well i kinda guess i need someone whos already been in middle school to answer this..
when you were in middle school, were all the major slutty kids the most popular? like girl wise? & does that mostly change in highschool? because, i mean some of them are my friends & are actually cool, but some are just annoying & guys tottaly use them. but like, i once joined into that, & then for the most part regretted it. but like you always will here these stories about who made out with who & who did what. & then i dont know it makes me feel out of the group. but like i dont know..
im just wondering does it get better? (link)
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listen just like a the other people said there are always going to be those girls, but i do need to say this not all of them are bad. There are some really nice slut. Doesnt really make sense but it does. don't worry about it popular means people know you not what they know you for. I am popular at my highschool but im the nice funny guy.
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22/f
Ok just a little over a month ago I asked a question about being envious of my friend and i got a couple of responses. If you want to know the whole story my question was under "envious of friend" dated February 28th in the love life category.
My friend Sabrina and went back to the club last night for the club's 29th birthday. We took a good friend of our with us. He is like our brother and is very protective of us. We don’t mind it because it keeps the creeps away from us( trust me you don’t want to get a glare from this guy... but he is harmless) and he gets to relax and watch us dance and shake our butts. we told him he had to behave and not get jealous of the way Sabrina and Brett danced. He said he would and he did behave. Didn’t really make conversation but he behaved, I think he was distracted by all the club show dancers. well I did discuss how I felt with Sabrina how I felt and she totally understood. sure for a few songs they got really into it ( I looked away during this) but she backed off more for the most part. Acted like her knee was really hurting after while. which actually it was but she made it seem worse then it was. So I hung out with Brett a bit more. My shoe broke so I had to go get my spare out of the car. When I came back electric slide was on and I knew so I had no chance to go put my keys away. It was quiet funny. Then he even asked me to dance at the next one which happen to be a slow song. Really surprised me. And with my luck they played 2 in a row and Brett had no problem continuing dancing. You would not believe how content i was. I was so comfortable. I have not slow dancing like that for over 4 yrs. Even with the car keys STILL in my hands. Sabrina thought it was funny. We all were kicking back talking about anything like we have all been friends for years. Also I have been assertive and even offered him a back massage when he said his neck was hurting (which he accepted.. And later D.W said that made him jealous) Well towards the end Sabrina wasn’t dancing with us anymore so it was up to me to keep things going. Sure he left the floor when there was some funky crap going on but I wanted to keep dancing. Sabrina told me later all 3 of them were watching and thought it was hilarious because when I wasn’t facing them I was shaking my butt like a bunny. I had absolutely no intensions with that at all and glad she told me after we left. I would have turned beet red. I was just getting into the music and had my eyes closed. At the end they always play a fast song then 2 slow songs. (been there enough to know) well the fast one started out slow and we both knew the song so we were just having a little fun being close and then when it picked up he started twirling me around and I loved it. I messed up couple times but he thought it was funny and kept dancing. Sabrina said she was surprised I came out my shell that much. The last 2 were SO relaxing. Eyes closed, It was total cheek to cheek dancing. Bliss. Afterwards I kinda felt that I was annoying Sabrina and DW because they wanted to leave and even had to tap me on the shoulder saying they were going to wait outside o DW could have a smoke. The song ended and the next started and I asked if he wanted to go catch up with others or dance again and he said dance which really surprised me again. So we danced again like the last one never ended and I didn’t want it to. Afterwards we caught up with the others and were going to get our traditional after dancing doughnuts but surprised it was closed for once. So we exchanged myspaces and headed home. Now I am not sure about all this. When I write to him, what are some good icebreakers? I already wrote one saying I had fun and hope we didn’t wear him out dancing. So what would be some good suggestions ???? Any of you answered my last one feel free to chime in too. Oh and my friends I found out weren’t annoyed at all, they said we looked really cute on the floor and to let us have as much fun as we wanted, also since they couldn’t go anywhere since I was the driver and we had an hour drive ahead of us.. So anything would help me out I would appreciate it a lot. I need lots of answers to this long story but I figure everyone should know all the facts before wondering about little stuff. Thank you all!!! (link)
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just talk to him and ask how he is and about him, because its easier to talk to someone after you know them. Most guys arnt not going to look down upon you for just tryin to talk so just talk.
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