My boyfriend is moving to England in two months. So naturally I want to spend as much time with him as possible. I thought his parents were cool with this... Until yesterday. I was hanging out with my boyfriend in his den and walked up the stairs to get a coke. The cooler was on the landing, and from my postion I couldn't see the kitchen but I could hear what people were saying. I heard my bf's mom talking smack about stealing her little boy away. His Grandma was replying and agreeing with his mother. She was saying that we were too in love and spending too much time together. I was crushed. My boyfriend's family is very Catholic and strict. My family is very unconventional and easy going. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? justaguy01 answered Tuesday April 3 2007, 8:04 pm: Listen my family is very catholic just like his. First you need to talk to your boyfriend, but think about it. He is moving to England right you dont need to ruin anything between you two and between him and is mother. So you could talk to him or the one i think is better you need to have a conversasion with his mother. But you cant be rude you have to sit done with her probably just you too and be as nice as you can and ask why she doesnt like you. I am sure we coud sit here and probably figuir out what she is going to say, but you have to be extremly nice, like to the point as not crying but close but not too close. Anyway remember communication is the way through life. Listen is you feel, because i dont now the entire situation, that this could ruin what you guys have, then you have to decide. Make sure if you talk to hi mother you might want to talk to your boyfriend first.
christina answered Tuesday April 3 2007, 8:03 pm: Talk to her about it. You can confront your boyfriend or ask him about it, but he might be close with his mom so he might offended. Naturally, you should take it up with her. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
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