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Bullying
15/f (16 this year)
So normally, I'm just a happy, straight-A, popular highschool student. I have lots of friends but some enemies because I don't back down when people talk behind my back or start fights with me.
There are 10+ grade eleven girls who all year have been calling me a slut/whore/tramp. Today afterschool I was walking with my best friend into town. 3 of the girls started yelling at me and saying mean stuff. So I said some stuff and kept walking, I just wanted them to not pick on me (thinking I'm weak). They ran up behind us and I said "I don't want trouble with you just leave me alone" and we had a bit of a staring contest and I kept walking. Next thing I knew I had a sick-to-my-stomach feeling and I had been punched in the back of the head.
They ran away, but as I walked through town a bunch of other older girls (friends with them) ran out of a store and yelled "whore!" once I had passed.
I don't want to be afraid of leaving my house. I have a great life.. a good family, friends, grades, looks, athletism, etc. They could easily screw that up. Anyone who has told teachers about them has been beaten up. They aren't afraid to use weapons, either.
What do I do..?
Thanks, help is greatly appreciated.
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First of all, understand that all of this is fueled by jealousy and insecurity. These girls feel that they need to inflict pain and fear in others to feel good about themselves. But remember, they're feeding off of your reactions. They want to see you get mad.
It all depends on the severity of the situation. If they're physically threatening you, go to the police. They can actually do something about it, especially if drugs and violence are involved.
However, if they're only calling you names, that's a whole different story. The best thing you can do is to not fuel the fire. To do that, just ignore them. Don't look at them and don't say a word to them. They should eventually stop.
You know yourself better than anyone else does, and you know that you aren't a slut, a whore, or a tramp. Why let these girls get to you when their judgement is less than accurate?
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my advice would be not to sink to their level, like maybe they'll say some mean stuff to you and everyone will laugh, why dont you laugh too and be like good one!!
that might get you beat up though
just ignore them pretend like they are not even there, if you shout things back at them, that will give them more of a reason to beat you up
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First DO NOT SINK TO THERE LEVEL. you need help get it. Umm I have helped many people out of situations like this because im the "big guy" which i hate being by the way. Im 6'4 310 yeah i know what your thinking but anyway, guys are well protectors you could say guys help wether your age a little older or a lot older. plus you need to tell someone. Here is the thing i have found out this dont be afraid, dont, they will feed on that. I know i know its hard not to be. But dont tell them your not afraid because then they will be all over you. and if it gets to out of hand takle it to your parents, it sounds oike most people probobly dont like them so i am sure most people arnt going to get mad if somehow you get it so they leave. Dont tryt and make friends with them think about that that will screw your life up, im sure you dont want to do cocain. I know this paragrapgh cant help you the way you may want it to"not saying it can't but" obviously you have to do something. Like i said eaarlier DONT SINK TO THERE LEVEL
Keep me posted and i will try and help
good luck to you
Oh is this the first tiome they have done something? How long has it been going on? And do you know its going to happen again?
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