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follow up on an old question of mine (This is long)
22/f
Ok just a little over a month ago I asked a question about being envious of my friend and i got a couple of responses. If you want to know the whole story my question was under "envious of friend" dated February 28th in the love life category.
My friend Sabrina and went back to the club last night for the club's 29th birthday. We took a good friend of our with us. He is like our brother and is very protective of us. We don’t mind it because it keeps the creeps away from us( trust me you don’t want to get a glare from this guy... but he is harmless) and he gets to relax and watch us dance and shake our butts. we told him he had to behave and not get jealous of the way Sabrina and Brett danced. He said he would and he did behave. Didn’t really make conversation but he behaved, I think he was distracted by all the club show dancers. well I did discuss how I felt with Sabrina how I felt and she totally understood. sure for a few songs they got really into it ( I looked away during this) but she backed off more for the most part. Acted like her knee was really hurting after while. which actually it was but she made it seem worse then it was. So I hung out with Brett a bit more. My shoe broke so I had to go get my spare out of the car. When I came back electric slide was on and I knew so I had no chance to go put my keys away. It was quiet funny. Then he even asked me to dance at the next one which happen to be a slow song. Really surprised me. And with my luck they played 2 in a row and Brett had no problem continuing dancing. You would not believe how content i was. I was so comfortable. I have not slow dancing like that for over 4 yrs. Even with the car keys STILL in my hands. Sabrina thought it was funny. We all were kicking back talking about anything like we have all been friends for years. Also I have been assertive and even offered him a back massage when he said his neck was hurting (which he accepted.. And later D.W said that made him jealous) Well towards the end Sabrina wasn’t dancing with us anymore so it was up to me to keep things going. Sure he left the floor when there was some funky crap going on but I wanted to keep dancing. Sabrina told me later all 3 of them were watching and thought it was hilarious because when I wasn’t facing them I was shaking my butt like a bunny. I had absolutely no intensions with that at all and glad she told me after we left. I would have turned beet red. I was just getting into the music and had my eyes closed. At the end they always play a fast song then 2 slow songs. (been there enough to know) well the fast one started out slow and we both knew the song so we were just having a little fun being close and then when it picked up he started twirling me around and I loved it. I messed up couple times but he thought it was funny and kept dancing. Sabrina said she was surprised I came out my shell that much. The last 2 were SO relaxing. Eyes closed, It was total cheek to cheek dancing. Bliss. Afterwards I kinda felt that I was annoying Sabrina and DW because they wanted to leave and even had to tap me on the shoulder saying they were going to wait outside o DW could have a smoke. The song ended and the next started and I asked if he wanted to go catch up with others or dance again and he said dance which really surprised me again. So we danced again like the last one never ended and I didn’t want it to. Afterwards we caught up with the others and were going to get our traditional after dancing doughnuts but surprised it was closed for once. So we exchanged myspaces and headed home. Now I am not sure about all this. When I write to him, what are some good icebreakers? I already wrote one saying I had fun and hope we didn’t wear him out dancing. So what would be some good suggestions ???? Any of you answered my last one feel free to chime in too. Oh and my friends I found out weren’t annoyed at all, they said we looked really cute on the floor and to let us have as much fun as we wanted, also since they couldn’t go anywhere since I was the driver and we had an hour drive ahead of us.. So anything would help me out I would appreciate it a lot. I need lots of answers to this long story but I figure everyone should know all the facts before wondering about little stuff. Thank you all!!!
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