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confidence.
how can i build up my confidence to be more outgoing how i used to be.
i dont know how but over the couple of months i tottaly lost all my confidence.
ahh.
so what can i do other than join a sport, cuz its too late for that. and like dress comfortably?
ahh i just dont know but i always seem to put myself down and think like i dont belong i guess?
and thats not how i am.. why do i feel so left out sometimes?
also i sometimes feel ebarrassed to be seen with my best friends frineds... i dont know why.. its not like they are weird or anything. but i just am especially in front of my other friends.
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Im not sure how old you are like the last person but listen if you are a teenager which i believe you are its a natural occurance to have emotional problems whether male or femal. Im not saying your exacly having emotional problems, but i can tell you this i talk to everyone and i have some good friends that are on the total opposite side of he "spectrum" then the other friends and thats what think you are saying. Well ill tell you this that part of it is so hard. Hang out with both its all you can do. I can't exatly tell how to do it because i havnt quite figuired it out but i did find out one group i had way more in common then the other and the other its was more liked to talk to. If i figuir it out lol i will tell you. Remember this confidence doesnt come from things it comes from you. Take that line as you will. I hope everything turns out just fine.
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I was the same way because I compared myself to other girls that had stuff that I didnt. Stupid, I know. But, I started realizing that I am lucky for the things I do have and I cant have everything.
Dressing comfortably: Wear anything that makes you feel good and that looks good. It doesnt have to be amazing, comfortable clothes with style! Like, wear chunky jewelery that goes with your outfit.
Everyone feels left out at times. Maybe it was just a bad time and place. Or a bad day for you.
I dont know why you would feel embarassed by your best friends, it's not like a bad thing though, happens all the time. Good luck:)
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i found that i was comparing myself to those supermodels in magazines. after my subscription ran out, i didnt renew it and i have gained a little bit of confidence. try not to compare yourself to others. like "she has really pretty eyes. mine are ugly." instead, look in the mirror and be optimistic.
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I'm not the most confident person but I've somehow built up confidence since starting high school. I'm not sure how old you are, but classes can make a difference. I got involved with speech and yearbook and met a lot of great people that way. It's fun and you get more comfortable. I recommend trying to join a club like those two.
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