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i've been through alot, because i'm the youngest of three and only girl. i'm a real tomboy and i've been through multiple funerals, a brother in the marines, and him getting sent to africa for a year. ( i thank God each day he's back) a brother almost running away,the marine brother in jail twice. (just for speeding tickets) catching boys numerous times with their girlfriends home alone at my house.. (you know what that means) an aunt thinking i'm depressed and goth.. a grandma thinking i'm fat.. and much much much much more..
my motto is " dont judge a book by its cover, because it could end up being one of the greatest love stories of all time", a really good friend of mine says that to me all the time.

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ok,

well i havent warn a tampon yet and i want 2 try but im afarid that it may hurt or i may get it stuck. so what should and shouldnt i be afarid of??

thanks (link)
you have nothing to be afraid of, just make sure you get one that will fit... meaning: if you are skinny,dont get a jumbo tampon, get a small tampon.. if you are big, dont get a small tampon.


Can someone give me a cute little saying about missing someone you're in love with, and knowing you don't have a chance. Either one will do! I want to put one in my AIM profile. (link)
i have a couple that are in mine..

-your lips are like vodka and i wanna get wasted.
-how are you so wonderful, and not know it, how are you everything that i want, and everything i need, but your the smallest little distance out of my reach?
-i'm the girl with the broken smile, and wants every little piece of you.


Yesterday we had basketball tryouts at our school and as a sophmore i made jv again and 5 of my friends moved up to varsity. Mainly because one of the varsity didnt want me to make the team..soo she tried to do nething in her power to make me look bad. I am torn up about this..my heart feels like its in my throat. That was my goal this year.and i failed at it. I feel like theres no positives. Do you think there is ne positives about this? (link)
well think about it this way,
yeah you didnt make the team. but what if, you made the team, and the first game you hurt your leg. then for the entire season there you'd be with a cast, sitting on the bench.
yeah you didnt make the team, but you still have friends dont you? you still have food to eat, you still have cloths to wear, you still have cars you can drive and a school to go to.
just be thankful for what you have and you'll be happy



how do u get rid of razon burn? without just applying lotion...anything that will work faster? thanks (link)
yeah lotion should work, but dont put on tooo much.. just enough to keep it soft.


Hey, I'm a fourteen year old female, and I have been smoking for around eight months. I'm sure that there are a huge quantity of smokers here, or people who know about smoking, and I have a few questions I would like answered, please.

1. Which is worse for you, cigars or cigarrettes?
2. [for the smokers] How old were you when you started?
3. Does smoking have a major impact on your voice, or is it only slight?
4. Recently, I tried to stop, and I threw a bitch fit at my friends.. I just went crazy! Was that an impact of the cigs? Am I addicted?

thanks... I'll rate, I promise! (link)
cigars, dont smoke, major, yes it mightve been the cigs and you dont sound addicted, but if you dont stop soon you will become addicted.


i tend to pop my pimples so i ended up with these nasty dark scars. what is something i can do so these scars wont show up or either go lighter so they arent much more noticeable? (link)
i pop mine too, i just use a foundation that matches my natural skin color as close as possible and just put a little dab on.

hope it helps..

but you probly already do that...


We have a school dance this week and i want to sneak my boyfriend in that goes to another school. But i dont know if he wants to go or if i will get into trouble. So should i try to sneak him in and risk going home or not even try?
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you shouldnt get in trouble. i mean, unless neither of you go to the school thats having the dance, its your choice to decide who you want as a date.
~hope this helpd a lil..~


hey does anyone know what the AIM virus does? I got it and I know it sends im's to everyone else on your buddy list, but is that it? please answer a.s.a.p NeLLiE x0x

P.S. Is it also true that you have to uninstall and then reinstall AIM? thats what my friend told me... (link)
i got that virus over the summer... after two months we had to have someone come and completely gut everything out my computer and only add on the nessasary things.. i dont think uninstalling and reinstalling aim would help at all..
because the virus will still be on your computer. make sure that you either (1)dont have anything important on your computer or (2)everytime you start your computer you have to put in your username and password. that way the people that gave you the virus can't get to any important information.


kay so i have a xanga and i see on everyone's they have the music playlists. well i think i know the code (might be handy ..thanks) ..but what i dont get is what you put for VALUE and all that. like what exactly do you do? 5s for really good answers !! thanks x3 (link)
i have a xanga and i change my music all the time on there.. this... >> http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music_galore is a link for a musis site thats actually someones xanga.. they have alot alot of stuff to choose from..if you'd like, you can send me your xanga screen name and i'll send you a comment!


I was wondering if anyone can help me make a plan of when to change "supplies" during my school schedule. I'm only in middle school, so no one uses purses yet. There's also this one girl who ALWAYS searches my pencil case to find gum and whatnot so I can't use my pencil case! I go to my locker before lunch time, and in past situations I have picked up a purse in which I put a pad in. But, I hate using purses because its SO obvious that when you carry a purse to the bathroom, you have your period!! I don't know any other ways! I don't want to buy anything at school because the dispncers have the worst brands. My tampon can not last ALL day and I'm a little scared to use jumbo because im sure they're hard to insert and other stuff. If anyone wants to contradict this idea please do so! I need some ideas! (link)
do what i do, no matter where you are, take your purse. everytime i go to the bathroom, my purse goes with me, wether or not i have my period.

you could wear something with alot of pockets.. cargo pants and put a tampon in there.

or..you could wear a pad... they can last longer than a tampon.



i'm 14/f and i've had chicken pox already when i was in gr5. but iunno wuts happening theres all these red thingies appearing all over my body. what could this be? (link)
yeah its possible to get chicken pox more than once...but if i were you i'd go to my mom or the school nurse and ask them if they know what it is


Ok so my bff is like my sister and i love her to death! So know she is bffs with my x and now she is turning into a brat saying yea I hate your hair like she cant keep her rude comments to her slef i wanna know is this normal or should i br conserned?? (link)
thats not really normal..i wouldnt be concerned... i would maybe..just start hanging out with some new friends...if i were you.


what are some halloween costumes i can wear this year?? that are def. hott but not too sluty

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you could be a princess... or a flapper... or cher if your tall... or...if you is a boy...prince charming...someone in a gang...


If you don't look at somebody in the eyes...do they get upset or something or feel like they did something wrong? Im really bad at eye contact. It makes me feel weird knowing somebodys eyes are staring right at me.. (link)
usually if i make eye contact its cause i like that person and i want to see if he likes me back... and in order to see if he likes me back i see how long he'd keep eye contact with me and if he looked away first or if he just kept looking back at me... but i wouldnt get upset if someone didnt make eye contact with me... i would just think they didnt have a crush on me...
hope it helpd.. at least a lil.


My English teacher once told me, 'Don't marry someone you love, marry someone who completes you.'

Does anyone have any idea what that could mean, in a way? Like, how can someone complete you? (link)
your english teacher just... repeated himself... the one you love would complete you...hope i helpd.


Well, I'm getting my Cell Phone in about 22 days.

Anyways, I was wondering:

1. Are camera phones good? I mean do they take good pictures?
2. Which is better: Flip-phone or hand-held?
3. How do you get ringtones? Like not the pre-set ones but ones that are actual songs that are like on the radio and stuff.

Thanks! (link)
yes camera phones take good pictures, flip phones are better and i dunno bout the ring tones... usually you can download them on your phone... using the internet... thats also on your phone...lol..


I'm going to a fancy dress party in November and really want a cool outfit. I'm 15 and petite, and want something that looks cute/hot but definately not slutty. You can wear anything (it's not a Halloween party) and I can afford to buy some pieces for it, but I don't want anything too difficult. If you make a suggestion, could you also please suggest how I could make it?
Ok, thanks, I'll rate for good advice,
FakeArms (link)
you can go online to a bunch of stores to get patterns or actual dresses. you could try www.davidsbridal.com www.jcpenny.com www.dillards.com all of those should work.. hope i helpd.


So i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.. i once broke up with him for two months and he cried.. ALOT.. then we got back together and now all he does is go out with his friends tell my i'm stupid, call me names, and forget about me. He tells me all the time how he doesn't care about me and that really hurts my feelings.. what should i do? (link)
break up with him definitly. then, what i would do, is spread nasty rumors about him... but see thats not nice so you might not want to do that.


13/m
There is this kid at my school who annoys me and I can hardly focus on my work in the classes we have in common. I told the adults about the sitiuation and they said I had to deal with it.
Im usualy a calm person but sometimes I get pissed. Can any1 help? fives go out to the best answers.Oh, and by the way, he's still 12. (link)
tell a teacher.. i would definitly do that.




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