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[additude]! But i love helpin people... thats mostly all i do. I feel so speacial when people ask me for help. Cuz i love makin people feel better about yourself. AND I SPEAK THE TRUTH. SOMETIMES TRUTH HURTS. buts its all good. Im really good at giving advice you should hit me up.


I dont care what people say youre the one that brings me so much joy when I look at your smiling eyes my heart wants to dance theres only you on my mind and I never want to leave your side it feels right so lets stay together Ill never feel alone again boy cause your love makes me feel so secure. 01-07-04


There will never come a day. You will ever hear me say, that I want or need to be without you. I want to give my all. Baby just hold me simply control me. Because your arms they keep away the lonelies. When I look into your eyes, then I realize, all I need is you in my life. Cuz I never felt this way about lovin. No. Never felt so good, baby Never felt this way about lovin
...It feels so good 01-07-04


E v e r y b o d y wants to know w h e r e Ive been, cause l i v i n g life the way I do seems to be a s i n . Oh but that stuff f o l l o w s me e v e r y w h e r e I go. Get out of here cause shit is out of c o n t r o l and dont come too close to cause; you n e v e r know what I would do if you d i s r e s p e c t me.

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I'm friends with this one guy and I like him alot. I've heard that he used to like me too, but I'm not exactly sure if it's true. he is the only guy I've ever felt this way about, and I know it sounds stupid of me to say that because we are only 14. In the past, he has hurt me bad emotionally and once physically. But now, everything between us it great we talk all the time I just don't know if I should tell him how I feel, just forget about him, or keep it a secret. Please help.


hey im sorry to say .. but if he once hurt you .. whats there makin him not do it again. i bet your really preety and you could do alot better then him. but i cant tell you what to do. but for all the people that i help i dont want to see any of them hurt. i think you should move on.. but its all up to you if you think hes the one for you then go for it. just be careful. because an abusive relationship is horrible - you dont need that. just take care of your self and i hope i helped.

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WHAT IS IT WITH ALL THESE GIRLS CONCERD OF BEING FAT!!! ....103....120!!! those are all really good for your height and age!!! soo stop worrying were still kids!! live it up!! eat icecream for breakfeast!!!! make milkshakes for dinner!!! Dance the night away!! have a fun time and be a kid!!! heheeh ( im not saying DONT watch your weight b/c you should..just dont let it worry you sooo much!!!)AM I right Ladies?



mwa


LExy

thank you - atleast some one sees where im commin from!
yeah gurll you are sooo right!!!
- nicicole

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i have a serious relationship with my boyfriend, but lately things have been changing. When we are online, we say one word to eachother. I havent seen him for over a month.no phone at all either. When i ask him to do something he says "maybe or no" and when i ask him if his feelings for me have changed he says he doesnt know...? i dont want to keep bothering him about it so.. what should i do?


hunny - im sorry to annocunce but you need to break up with him. If its been a month that you havn't talked to ya man no - thats a BIG no no... you need to either find out whats up with ya man - or find out why he actin out! Cuz you neva he could cheatin or whorin around. but that what i would - but you should follow your gut instinct - and talk to him- i hope i helped - nicicole

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when u get a new username, do u have to work up to where you were, or can u somehow transfer>

what do you mean transfer buddy list.cause if your talkin about transferin your buddy list then if you hit MY AIM that on your buddy list on that theres goin to be something that says save buddy list so you click thatand everything is savedand so then when you have a new sreen name you go up to MY AIM again on it thers something thats goin say load buddy list so you click that and your buddy list and everything is saved

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Im think im soooo fat and no matter what I do nothing seems to work. Im 105 pounds 5'1 and 13 years old. isn't that really really over weight?? any ideas what i can do to loose weight before school starts?!

you are no where near fat. you shouldnt be soo body consious cuz that leads into alot of drama. but your not fat im 5'3 and i way 116 and im 15 your not fat. your the perfect body weight. but if you really do wanna loose weight then you should go to the gym. or do those tebo types they work really good. and go on a fruit deit. - nicicole

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This guy likes me, and I kinda like him, but he isn't the cutest guy (if you know what I mean) I want to see if things will work out between us but I scared of what other people will think/say. What should I do?

hey babygirl listen to me! - you shouldnt care about what pther people have to say because then you never know what kinda guy your giving up. he could be the guy of your dreams and you would never find out if you thought about what other pepole had to say. have you ever the they saying " its not just about the looks it abut there personality as well " you should give him a change and then if anyone has a problem with you together tell them to fuc* off and don't worry about cuz it not about them its about you and the kid you like. i hope i helped - nicicole

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I'm 14 and going into the 9th grade. Guys pressure girls to have sex and I might be ready but I dont want to be called a slut. What should I do?

well then every you only do it with guys that you are comfortable with not with everyone. anf if you called a slut then you should tell them to lay off ya dic*. but its all your desion.
-nicicole

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anyOne knOw any depressinq lOve sOnqs? Or b/f,,g/f lOve sOnqs?like anythinq hip*hOp Or pOp.nO cOuntry :-)
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mariah carey - you the one - [ she has ALOT ]
Ashanti - she has alot
- nicicole

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my boyfriend and my best friend have been fightin alot latly and now there r not friends n im stuck in tha middle wut should i do?? i dont wanna loose either 1 of them

you should tell her how you feel and that you dont like them fighting and that you dont want to loose them and that they need to put away there differences. - nicicole

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Does anyone know how or even if u can delete your sn on AIM?

you where it says screen name you put the scareen name that you want deleted in the box and you hit the delete button.
-nicicole

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i really like this one guy. but for some reason he is always mad at me. like the other day i apoligized for whatever i did (i dont even know what i did). and he apoligized too.. but then the next day he blocked me. and i didnt even talk to him at all that day. then that night he just calls me to talk. and doesnt really talk on the phone and just says yeah to w.e i say. is there something going on with him or what? what should i do? i think there might be something wrong with him bczu he sounded like depressed but idk. what do you think i should do?

you should talk to him. the next time he calls ; and try to find out why hes acting like that and if he okay. tell him that your gettin a little worried because you dont know whats happening. And tell him how you feel.
-nicicole

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My boyfriend said that on the first date he wanted to have sex with me but I don't think I'm ready to. I told him I wanted to wait and he said okay we'll wait but now everytime I talk to him he still brings up the subject of "doing it" on the first date. What do I say to him to tell him that I don't want to go that far on the first date?

well if you really do love your boyfriend; then go ahead and tell him that your not ready for sex. But if i was you i would break up with him because if thats the only thing he thinkin about then its not worth. cuz to me it just sounds like he wants to have sex and then be done.
- nicicole

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i dont know what to do... i still like my ex .. like alot.. the second time we went out i broke up with him for someone else but i really didnt like thisother guy.. and so i regret it but he said he has to build up my trust again... but see hes moving to another town and not going to my high school and i really miss him now what should i do? should i call him and try to talk to him ?

You deffenetly need to call him. Tell him exactly how you feel. And how you changed. And wanna make it last. Tell him how you regreat what you did ; and you wont do it again. - nicicole

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I love my dog a ton!!! How can i make it so she lives as long as possible. What can i do to help her?


put your dog on a good diet. play with her. feed her the right and nutrient. dont feed her stuff like chicken - dog food

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I'm only 13, but i need to save up some money 4 my Bestfriends birthday. But what i want 2 give her is really expensive. It's like 70 bucks! But i know it's wut she wants more than anything else. So, does anyone have any ideas for how to raise that much money??? thanx


you could go around your neighbor asking people if you could mo there lawn. you could pass out flyers for babysitting. do yard sale. tell your parents you want a raise in your allowence. i hope i helped

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hi, i have a neighbor and i like him alot and i think he knew before i called him and really told him what i felt and i asked him what he thought and he asked me if he could get back to me...do you think he WILL get back to me? :-/ i wana know i cant stop thinkin about it!!!

well first of all when it comes to guys and there emotions they fail. Sometimes expressing yours feeling could scared them; because they dont know exactly how they feel yet. But i thnk that he will say something to you. hes not just gunna let you sit there and rot. But i think that was very brave of you to go ahead and express your self to him.. cuz not everybody can do that. i hope i helped you out.

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i have told my cousin how i felt she is the type of person who only thinks of herself and when i say something to her about it she gets definsive and starts arguing with me then throws it in my face that he likes her and not me so im really confused on what to do. the way she treats people is not right but she is my cousin and i would feel wrong to just stop talking to her. the guy also would not care i know this for sure and i really don't have feelings for him it is hard to explain but i am just jealous that she got him even though now i don't want him. Do you understand???


yes i understand . well i would tell her that she inst exactly actin mature. and that if she was a true cuzin then she wouldnt be all over your ex guy and understand your feelings. you shouldnt stop talkin to her shes your blood.jealousy is really bad but try not to let it get to you.just look at the greater things in life. i hope i helped.

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Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv*


hey i know exactly how you feel. i went threw that with my boyfriend. But it seems like you still have alot of feelings for him. I would say go ahead and go over his house. Just dont do anything that youll feel sorry for in the morning. Just follow your heart and it will tell you what to do. Talk to him and tell you how you feel. Cuz that can make you feel a hole lot better. Tell him how much you love him. And tell him how you feel when your not with him. Tell him that oyu want to be with him but not just for sex. and see how it goes. i hope i helped you alot. but ive been threw that and ive been with my boyfriend now for 8 months and everything is smooth. i really hoped i help! I/m [aim] miSSxundaxzt00d -

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i ahve this problem i just moved to a new stae and met a rly cool guy and we were talkin but stuff happened and we stopped talkin and were jsut freinds but it seems like whenever i am round him i kiss him and stuff but i dont want a relatioship so should i keep doin this i feel like i am leadin him on or just stop...if you could tell em anything it would be great i am so comfused!!
--CoNfUsLeD--


well if you feel like its leading him on then you should stop. Since you don't exactly have feelings for him. And he might be gaining feelings for you. But you should follow your instincs. And see what happends.

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I am pretty actively involved in musical theater and have an audition coming up soon! For my audition, I need 2 sing a song, but the problem is, I am having trouble finding a good song 4 my voice. Does any1 have any song suggestions for an alto girl? (Broadway or Disney songs are preferred most by the directors, but I'm willing 4 other suggestions 2!) Thanks all!!


Hey im a singer to. And i know stuff like that if your and alto i think a good song for you might be . Brandy sittin' up in my room. i hope i helped.

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