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hey everyone! im caitt♥ yes, im only 13, but trust me ive been through alot. from parents getting divorced, to bad relationships, to losing friends, to people from my family passing away, to my whole family being on a hitlist. so yeah you can pretty much ask me anything. i usually get a chance to get on this site at least once a day. dont hesitate to ask me questions. send me something in my inbox and your question will be answered the same day! also if you add me as a favorite columnist, i automatically add you because you added me =]. thanks for reading. byee♥

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Hi, I have this best friend that told me he was gay when I was 10. It like really freaked me out. But it's been 4 years and I'm cool with it then all of a sudden just out of the blue he tries to kiss me while we are riding the ferris wheel. I really need advice on what to tell him. I like him but I like him only as a brother and I just found out that he had got into a fight with my boyfriend just the other day. I really really need some help. I'm desperate. I want him as a friend but I don't want to hurt his feelings of being let down. Please.

hey, maybe hes bisexual and not gay. explain to him that you dont have anything agaisnt him beign bisexual but you just dont feel that way about him. that you like him only as a best friend.

-caitt♥

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MY mom is like super emotional and my dad is horrible to her. He yells and screams at me and her. I have nightmares about him and I'm like really scared of him. please give me some advice, he is very mean to us. One time I ate an apple that he told my mom not to touch and I didn't know it was his but he like screamed at my mom and all. Then he went to slap her so I told him it was me. I got a big beaten. Help!

hey, well i would have a talk with your mom and maybe call dss and get a restraining order on your dad.

-caitt♥

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can you hurt yourself if you crack your neck everyday? i went on a missions trip and got into a habit of doing it and i wanted to know if its a bad thing to do.

hey, well its not going to like kill you but it isnt good for you.

-caitt♥

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I've been writing songs for a while, but never have really came up with anything I like. I was wondering if any of you have tips on how to make a good song. Also once the lyrics are created any ideas on how to come up with a neat tune to go along with it to complete the final song?

hey, well when your writting your song you want something catchy that people will like to sing. so think of that when your writting.

-caitt♥

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I really like this boy...and when ever i talk to him i dont know what to talk about it always ends up in an akward silence. i need help on things to talk about cause i really like this guy. thankss a lot.

hey, talk about things he likes too. treat him like hes your friend and you wont get as stuck on a subject to talk about. try going to http://www.links2love.com

-caitt♥

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where can i buy two nice rings for me and my boyfriend. I only have 80 bucks

hey, go to filenes.

-caitt♥

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ok so ya kno tha lil cosmetic sponge thingies you put on liquid foundation with ?? ya so like how often should you use one before you throw it out & use a new one ?? thx.

hey, you should replace them every 1-2 months.

-caitt♥

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i have a friend and she had sex with her bf and then everyone found out that she did that and know i barley have any friends cause they thought that i was the one telling everyone witch i wasnt! it was someone else now im kinda scared to go to highskool cuz i think everyone going to talk shiznit that im the "RUMERER" and i had allot of friends know i only have about 4 so cana help a sissta out pizzz??

hey, well you should have a little meeting with eveyrone that was involved. let everyone including you explain there side of the story. then from there see what happens. if you want further advice like if that didnt work just send soemthing in my inbox and ill continue helping you.

-caitt♥

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hi i hope someone can help me. i always see these girls carring around "the northface bags, and they are like on their backs or in front of them. i'm not sure what they are called can you help me? i tried looking at sports authority but they dont have them i dont really want to buy online but if i have to i will... also do you know any other stores that might have them and how much they will be?

hope you can help... anything is great
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hey, well where i live they have them at dicks sporting goods.

-caitt♥

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okay, basically, i have a hickey on my neck, and its big and purple

ita hot, so no turtle necks, and i dont wear collars
the cover i have isnt working at all

anyways to make it go away faster
or any other ideas on how to hide it?

hey, well i thinky uos should but some cover-up on it. also wear a scarf like not one for the winter but just for like fashion purposes. you can also wear your hood on a sweatshirt.

-caitt♥

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i got lice from a friend (who didnt tell mee) we used this stuff called rid- it worked but i had so much that i thik its still kinda there...any home remedies? should i use rid again? please help! anything will do :'(

hey, yes continue using rid until its gone. but i also think you should go to your doctor and see if theres any products or medicines that he/she suggests using.

-caitt♥

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Alright, This is really gross. but the last 3 days,i've had like, diarrhea, but its reddish, like, blood. but i'm not on my period for another 2 weeks, somebody please tell me whats wrong with me??

hey, tell a trusted adult and see a doctor about it.

-caitt♥

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what is morning breath how did i get it and how do i get rid of it

hey, its just bad breath. as soon as you wake up just brush your teeth and use some mouth wash.

-caitt♥

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Hey iam a 17 female and I just found out that one of my friends that i've been best friends since 2nd grade is bisexual and I don't know what to do is it ok for me to still be friends with her or what?my mom's very prejedice against people who are gay and bi and she told me not to associate with them,but she's my best friend and I don't think I can stop being friends with her all at once what should I do?

hey, well no you shouldnt stop being friends with her. just dont tell your mom that shes bi and everything will be fine. my cousin is best friends with a girl thats bi. there usually nicer if you ask me.

-caitt♥

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This is going to sound crazy, but I get so grossed out when I'm on my period. I can't take looking at all the blood. It makes me gag and stuff. What should I do?

hey, well theres no real way of avoiding it completly. if you use pads switch to tampons cause you see more blood when you use pads. also dont let your pad or tampon over flow cause then obv. your going to see more blood.

-caitt♥

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Im 14/female and Im 106 pounds. I just wanted to know the average weight for teens. Also I was woondering when you are supposed to weigh yourself.... morning, afternoon,night... when? Thank you! :)

hey, well there is no average weight for teens. it all depends on your height. the doctor said if your 5`0 the average weight is 100 pounds. then you add 5 pounds to every inch. like 5`1 = 105 pounds 5`2 = 110 5`3 = 115 5`4 = 120 5`5 = 125 5`6 = 130. so yeah your way under weight so you have nothing to worry about. but so am i like im 5`0 and i weigh like 88-90 pounds. your suppose to weigh yourself int he morning because you didnt eat anything so theres not going to be an extra weight from food.

-caitt♥

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how do you make a myspace layout yourself? because i already know how to make xanga layouts. on xanga there is just a code that you can edit is microsoft word or something like that, is there the same thing for myspace? i know you can go to sites that you just have to fill in the background color and pictures and stuff and it will make the code for you, but i was just wondering if there is a basic code for it that you can edit like you can with xanga?

thanks

hey, heres the link where you can edit/make your own background!

http://www.strikefile.com/myspace/reborn_3_5.htm

-caitt♥

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ok. my brother keeps watching porne. i was making mac and chesse and i needed to go on the computer and i saw this one girl liek showin her boobs and naked and stuff. it seems so weird becuz my brother is so nice and smart you would never suspect it and everybody loves him. he got introuble with my mom and dad before and i dont want to tell them again. im worried because i dont want him to grow up and turn into this like rapist or whatever when he grows up. i dont know if i should have my 18 year old sister then again im not comfortable telling her. i dont know what to do. he watches all this stuff.please help me.

hey, well watching porn is a big part of a guys life. 9 out of 10 guys watch porn. its just a thing that they do. dont worry about it, hes not going to turn into a rapist. its complelty normal to watch porn.

-caitt♥

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My best freind tyler has been there for me but since shes been hanging out with this other girl she hasnt spent much time with me. What should i do?

hey, talk to her about how you feel. explain to her that like you miss hanging out with her and that you know she has other friends but you just want to hang out with her sometiems. also communication is important so wheny our not hanging out make sure you call her or something.

-caitt♥

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ok, me and my girlfriend have decided we want to have sex, the only probleam is i am not sure how i am going to get my hands on a condom, i am 13, and don't give me stuff saying im too young or anything cause we have made up are mind, im just not sure how i can get my hand on some condoms. can i just buy them? what? and also what kind should i get?

hey, you could ask a older sibling or cousin. if they dont have any you can just ask them to buy them for you because im not sure if they can sell them to you.

-caitt♥

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