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A boy


Question Posted Tuesday August 8 2006, 10:30 pm

I really like this boy...and when ever i talk to him i dont know what to talk about it always ends up in an akward silence. i need help on things to talk about cause i really like this guy. thankss a lot.

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BitsandPieces answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 3:42 pm:
It sounds like you like someone you don't really know, so maybe you should get to know him better before you decide you really like him. The best way to do this is ask questions to get to know his interests and thoughts. He will think you are more interesting if you are easy to talk with. Can it be that you could be friends first? Don't let the fact that he is cute keep you from treating him like any other person. You may find out you like him more or do not like him when you really get to talking.

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iheartyoussx3 answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 1:28 pm:
hey, talk about things he likes too. treat him like hes your friend and you wont get as stuck on a subject to talk about. try going to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

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xoMarisox answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 12:00 pm:
Find out things he is interested in and ask questions. Or, if you know that he is playing soccer ask him, so when is your next game or something like that. Talk to him about music, other sports, food, whatever.

Be yourself and you will be fine! Just don't stress it too much! :]

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abercrombie.LvR answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 11:25 am:
Talk about your same interests! Music, sports, etc. Guys love talking about sports! If this guy was really "it" you would instantly have something to talk about. Talk about people in the class.




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confusedbabii answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 12:34 am:
i'd say to talk about music first. because everyone loves music. and then ask him questions about him. such as if he's into sports and if he has a favorite team. then remember these things so that he knows that you're actually listening to what he's saying. and maybe if a relationship develops, you can remember these ideas and they will help you with gift ideas if the time comes.

hope i helped!!

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ductape_n_roses answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 10:59 pm:
Just talk to him as if it was one of your friends. Don't get nervous. (just don't mention girly stuff like tampons and such) What does he like> Music? Talk to him about the new CD. Just make sure you be yourself around him. If you change yourself to fit his wants, it won't ever work.

Here are the rules:
1)Never get too friendly and become one of his buddies. It'll be tough to advance onto being his girlfriend.
2)Be yourself. Don't change yourself to be his wants


If he doesn't want to be your bf, resepect that. Instead just focus on being his friend. Friendship is much more valuable then a relationship

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ChosenSummerGirl answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 10:59 pm:
ask him questions about himself. Everyone loves to talk about themselves.

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dpry11805 answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 10:56 pm:
well the most i can say is that you should be your self and talk about stuff that you like, but dont make it all about you and you will probably find stuff in common and just talk about that

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