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heyy guys! my name is miriam. i have way too many nicknames to list.. i have a big family with mostly sisters. i live in new york and go to camp in MA. i love music. all kinds of music is great for me (except country.. yuckk)! so anyways, i'm always known as the one you can always count on for advice and definitely the truth from my friends. i hope you write soon so i can get started on some answerss!!
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can you please give me some more thigns i can say that are cute and mayb even like a turn on to..lol.. thanks so mcuh

of course!!
maybe something like having quiet music playing in the background thats kind of sexy and then saying in a slight whisper "hey baby, its me, so pick up.. love ya" *kiss*
remember without this whisper its nothing, use your sexiest voice.
or try something like "hey babe its me lets go have fun.." *kiss* also with the music playing.
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so my boyfriend who is really afectionate never calls. he used to call, but ever since we started going out he has stoped. i no he stil likes me but i feel liek i dont ahve a boyfriend because he never makes much of an effort to contact me. so anyadvice on what i shoudl do or why he is doing this.
and yes i no hes buisy, but it doesnt take much time to quickly check p on someone if u really care for them

you definitely need to find a time to invite him to a romantic dinner or something and talk to him about how you feel. he'll change if he really loves and cares for you! good luck!
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my grandpa has alzheimers and he fell down the stairs last night. apparently his head was gushing blood and he wasn't responding to anyone and now he is in a coma. I don't think i fully understand what a coma is, and i really want to know if it's possible for him to live or what? what does this all mean? please help

when your in a coma its like your asleep but without thoughts or anything. it is possible to come out of a coma but its all based on luck. all you can do is hope for the best at this point. i know its hard to hear this and deal with it but try and keep your chin up and hope he comes out of this. good luck and i really hope he gets better. i know what its like to lose a grandfather.
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I want my hair to be less frizzy and big..what can I do?
I have to get a hair cut and get more layers since parts of my hair are dead. I've tried using gel and hairspray but it makes my hair curly.. And that just makes it more frizzier than it was before. I dont know what to use. Is there some product or hair treatment that I can do? It seems like if I try to straighten my hair..it'll poof up. >__

try using a product called Redken. get the smooth down one and use it daily after you shower, before you blowdry you hair, anything. its a great product. also you might want to think about getting a really good straightener like Chi. its really excellent. a bunch of my friends have the same crazy hair and its worked for them. hope this works and good luck!
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I've got some fat on my stomach and inner thighs. What are some specific exercises that I can do to get rid of the fat? Thanks! I rate high!

definitely crunches. those really help the abs and crunches where you put one elbow to the opposite knee and vise versa. also, you could try going to a gym to use their abdominal machines. i belong to new york sports club and go 3 times a week! goo luck!
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Is it weird that I love my daddy more than my mom?

No smartass comments!

definitely not. sometimes you just have more of a connetion with one parent then another! i know i do..
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Could anyone give me ideas as far as hobbies go? And places I could sign up for some? I've been terribly bored on the weekends. Thanks - Jacki

try getting a job like babysitting. or maybe try something you like doing.. art? self defense? music? (instruments, singing) dance? (hiphop, jazz, folk..way moree) fashion? (you can design your own clothes and jewelry, for clothes try using old ones that dont fit anymore) reading? writing? (poetry, stories, novels) helping out? (nursing homes, assistance)
if you need anymore suggestions contact me again.. good luck!
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ok so i hav this guy friend and hes usually so nice to me and he teases me a lot but i know he jus kiddding but today he was really bein mean to me and i dont know why!! he wasnt jokin i could tell he had like no expression on his face and his voice was all serious. everythin i said he was jus like "i dont care" and stuff like that it hurt my feeling so bad i dont wanna be friends w/ him. and by the way i like him a lot he doesnt know and i dont understand why hes actin all weird. he was fine yesterday and i dont want him coming to my party if he doesnt want to be friends w/ me anymore, could i just uninvite him? im so confused.. .

it seems like maybe he was having a bad day. i know its always easier to let your feelings out on someone your really close with or even love. hang in there and see what happens! dont do any rash decisions just yet. good luck!
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Okay, I'm remodeling my room and I kinda want a beach theme... but i'm not entirely sure what to do... either that or sumthing like "night on the town" like a new york theme or sumthing... but if i did that i want the colors to be dark... but if i did the beach theme i would want them to be bright and like just totally out there... does anyone have any suggestions???

try a mix. something like a boardwalk with ocean and sand but buildings behind it and just put it on a different walls. i know it sounds like a big project, but its definitely not impossible. good luck!
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When i shave uh "down there" why does it get really itchy and bumpy. it sometimes hurts really bad, is there something that i am doing wrong?

well, using a raizor to shave "downstairs" could result in itchiness and bumps. its just raizorburn. it would probably be a good idea to use shaving cream and moisturize if youre not already. also, a better choice would be to wax instead. good luck!
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me and my best guy friend have been friends for a long long time. he let me know that he has cared about me for a while. i like him too and told him that. we are going out now. but i dont want anyone to know right now. only because i broke up with my ex a lil while ago because i was apparently all over my new bf. so it would be bad to have this get out right now. my question is... is this a bad sign already if i dont want to know about my blossoming love.

i dont think its a bad sign at all. just let him know how you feel and make sure hes not telling all his guy friends cause believe it or not, guys talk about their loves too. i think its important to respect your ex, and not hurt his feelings too much. when youre ready you can start to let people know. good luck!
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okay i gots a boyfriend I got 4 days ago. We kissed on new years eve and that was my first kiss ever but i felt nothing. No spark or anything. I find myself wishing hed break up with me sometimes. I dont know why though its like I stopped liking him. There is just no chemistry. Please tell me what I should do
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thanks

i think you need to give it a little bit longer cause it really hasnt been that long. its always nice to be given a second shot! if in lets say a week, you still dont feel anything, id tell him how you feel in a nice way, like i just dont feel that way about you or something. then, break it off.. good luck! hope it turns out well.
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For school I need to read 25 personal books over the entire year. So, I chose to read series that I'll actually enjoy. I'm onto the third book of "The A-List Series", & I just started "The It Girl" I enjoy those really overly dramatic, girly, set-in-Beverly-Hills type books. Can anyone recomend another type of series like those two (besides Gossip Girl) that might catch my interest? I'll rate, thanks.

theres actually a series that comes off of gossil girls. its something about jenny. im not sure what its called but try to look into that. ive heard its really great. good luck with youre reading!
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i am an 18 year old female. i have been on and off with this guy for three years and have had very good and some bad times...right now we are not going out, but we act like it. we are not seeing others and spend tons of time together. i love him and he used to love me but now he says he is confused about what love is. he doesnt want to go out and i dont understand how the title and how we are now are different. he might be going away for the summer. he is not seeing other people so i am wondering if anyone could explain maybe where he is coming from and if there is something i am not realizing or anything...thanks

sometimes you need a little time in your life to figure things out. the best thing you can do is just be his friends and he told you how he felt, theres no reason why you cant converse how you feel.
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Yesterday on New Years I made a painful decision. I decided that the relationship with a guy that I had been in love who decided to move away for a job had to be cut dead. I decided this needed to be done because he wasnt even making an effort to contact me and he never even got me a xmas gift. It's complicated and he can never commit to me because of his work- and I honestly think money is more important to him than me.
While anyways, I havent actually TOLD him this yet. But I've gotten asked out by a really nice guy who lives in town. He owns his own company and is closer in age then the other guy.
Should I just start dating this other guy or should I let my long distance bf know that I want to see other people? I think what drove me to this decision was that the jerk never bothered to even phone me on xmas or new years. What kind of bf DOES that? And should I feel really guilty for wanting to date the other guy? Because I don't.

well, sounds like your boyfriend is a real pain in the ass. you deserve someone who loves you and cares for you. tell your boyfriend how you feel and maybe he'll change. it would always be nice to give him a second chance. if it doesnt go anywhere after that, then break it off and go for this other guy! maybe he'll be your new boyfriend ;)
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heyy i was just wondering if www.limewire.com and the program is illegal
thanks
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it is illegal if youre not paying for it, but if you are, then youre set!
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Every time after I eat I feel like I am going to puke, and I dont eat a lot but I start to feel really gross and sometimes almost want to make myself puke so i'll feel better, so is this normal? well thanks i'll rate 5's Happy New Year

sweetie, this is not a good sign. this could lead to anorexia or bulemia. i would tell your parents or go to a doctor very soon. your health is more important than anything so hurry up and help your body out!! happy new year!!
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ok my boyfriend wants to record me sayin somethin on his cellphone so when i call him it says what i say. so can someone tell me something sweet so say? thanks.. i will rate..

"you know you love me so pick upp babee!"
"hey sweetie, its mee" (giggle)
"hey love, (kiss) its me"

those are some options but if you dont like them just tell me and ill send some more your way..
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when answering a question why does age play such a big factor. like for instance that 16/f that wanted a baby. i saw that everyone was like your too young,but who says that she wont make a great mother. and know one knows her living situation or money or anything.. it really doesnt say people just assume they know. it tells her to wait till shes 18. i bet there are 18 year olds out there that are much worse off than she is or wont be as good as of mother as she is. so maybe she is 16.. do you think we should just make assumptions about people like that? or would it better to know more about the person before answering?

those are great questions. honestly, im only 13 and i dont want children until ive found the right guy that i know i want to be with for the rest of my life. i definitely think assuming is the wrong thing to do but maybe theyre just concerned that shes in a little over her head and she might not be as ready as she thinks. also, its much better when you have someone to share something so amazing with, dont you think?
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If some guy says you're both dating, but not officially going out [boyfriend/girlfriend], then does that mean you're single or taken?

i think you need to talk to him about it. a friend of mine has the same problem. but theyve made it pretty clear theyre exclusively hooking up. i personally think they should just go out already because theyre adorable. just ask him some time whether you want to be exclusive or not. its important to know where your relationship is going.
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