Question Posted Wednesday January 4 2006, 12:50 pm
ok so i hav this guy friend and hes usually so nice to me and he teases me a lot but i know he jus kiddding but today he was really bein mean to me and i dont know why!! he wasnt jokin i could tell he had like no expression on his face and his voice was all serious. everythin i said he was jus like "i dont care" and stuff like that it hurt my feeling so bad i dont wanna be friends w/ him. and by the way i like him a lot he doesnt know and i dont understand why hes actin all weird. he was fine yesterday and i dont want him coming to my party if he doesnt want to be friends w/ me anymore, could i just uninvite him? im so confused.. . <3thnx
Beloved_x_Eyes answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 5:35 pm: Guys can be REALLY confusing and not to mention moody! One minute their fine and funny, and the next they're mean and throw out rude comments. We dont really think of GUYS this way because they always criticize US (girls) for it, right? Plus, they dont have PMS and arent known to have the same chemical imbalances that girls have that make us sometimes moody. BUT, guys do get it. They just wont admit it. Sadly, the girl below me is wrong. I dont think you should talk to him about it, for the reason that he probably DOESNT want to talk things through and have drama (most guys dont.) I think maybe hes been having a lot of stress on his hands lately. Sometimes, thats how boys reacct to things - by being mean to other people to take out their frustration. And you probably (not offensively or anything) might have gotten in his path at a bad time and he lashed out at you for no reason.
I would invite him to your party - theres no reason he would be nice to you and then hate you one day. Maybe talk to one of his friends and see whats up with him lately. But, still he would probably be really bummed if you didnt invite him.
xomegaroni answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 4:44 pm: you juss have to talk to him about it. he could explain everything to you & if he doesn't then you know that something stupid is wrong. juss ask him about it & tell him how you feel.
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