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Please dont be offended by this, it's something i have been wondering about, it sounds discusting (and it is) but i think it must have happend.
Did God only create Adam and Eve or did he make other humans too?
I ask, because if it was only up to them to populate the earth hen surely incest must have taken place :-s
Adam and eve could have lots of children but then when they died there would have just been brothers and sisters left so that means that they wuld have had to make babies with eachother to make more people.
Is that what happend? i know it wasnt illegal back then but it's just so icky.
i know its a wierd question to ask but no one else ever talks about how people were made. (link)
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According to religion, I guess that must have happened. But logicaly, there must have been more people because when "family breeding" takes place, genetics can get messed up and a lot of people would have been retards (or have something wrong with them). lol I don't know.
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I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how. I also think that her mom is to blame, because her mom calls her ugly and fat. But my friend isn't, shes really pretty, and weights only 102, and her weight is dropping. So i can't tell her mom, because her mom won't help....and her parents are divorced, so her dad isn't there to help.... (link)
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I think you should try talking to a school counselor, and talk to your family about it. Hopefully they'll know what to do, and at least they'll know about this and how it is affecting you. She's going to need a life change. Don't rest until you have tried all the help there is from school and family. I suggest that you should post this question not just to me because I haven't had much experience with what exactly to do in this situation. I hope everything works out.
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13/m
ok so i've been trying to ask this one girl out at school, but i just can't work up the courage to ask her. . . . i thought about aim or email, but she doesn't have either, so i have to ask her in person, and i'm kind of a coward when it comes to this stuff. . .
thnx (link)
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Just think that she may be shy too. If you don't do anything, you could miss a good chance of a relationship with her. Just pick out a time when she's alone and pretend that you are a robot (that you won't care what happens, and later you can think about embarassment and all that).
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ok im 17 female....I have a really good friend Bianca and we met through this guy Rey who played us at the same time...anyways i broke up with him and she stayed with him...the thing is me and him have been doing things behind her back because he is really in love with me and i amm still sooo very in love with him...He told me he would brake up with her just to be with me...Question WHAT THE HELL DO I DO?? I mean she loves him soo much and she would never talk to me again if i went out with him and he broke up with her for me...But i dont know who to pick over who he makes me so happy and he is like the love of my life.. What do i doo??She asks me every day if i have talked to him and i have to lie t her every day soo i dont know NEED ADVICE thnx i will rate high is answers are decent and i will give u my feedback wel thanx whoever wants to help please be atleast 15 or older thnx buh bye
Dominican Grl~ (link)
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You and your friend should not be involved with him. How can you love him when he is cheating all the time? Think about it, he keeps switching between you 2. I don't want to explain it any further because it's complicated. You should be able to know how much trust in involved in love. You aren't a bad friend, he's a bad boyfriend.
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hey i dont wanna be anorexic but i wanna be smaller than i am i want to wiegh 105 pds and i wiegh currently wirgh 116 pounds tell me every thing you know like
* what i should eat
* When i should check the wieght
* And how much should i expect to lose a week ,Month day. ect.
* WHat exersizes should i do
I already run around a mile track and do 100 crunches a day and is doesnt work maybe its all the stuff i eat. IM 5'1 and 116 punds im 13 yrs old and im from jersey. (link)
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Don't do anything more. If you continue being obsessed with this, you are going to be anorexic.
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how do u put music on an ipod
i will give 5's to everyone (link)
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IPods come with an instruction manual.
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okay so about two weeks ago my cat starting having diheria. i got medicine for him and its not helping! he has horrible diheria and is vomiting. he doesn't hold his food at all! and whatever he does digest he gets diheria. he use to be very heavy now he is soo light. i need help, what could be possible wrong with him? he is turning 10 years old in august. he acts like a kittin and is obsessed with string. he doesnt act or look his age.
i need help with this. (link)
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He is probably very sensitive to foods. My last cat was, so we had to give her a special diet. There are simplier foods for sensitive cats that your vet can recommend. But your cat may have something serious going on that only a vet can find out about.
I hope he gets better!
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well i have another budgy question. one budgy will eat lots of the food, but the other white budy wont eat anything. even if you put the food around it, it'll be like theres nothing there. is it because i just bought it today? please can you answer, i really need the advice (link)
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I know what a budgie is! Who-hoo! Haha
Most likely he/she is not eating because of stress. Let it get used to its new surroundings and don't handle it or its friend for a few days. Keep it in a quieter/less active part of your house.
He might also be sick, so look for other clear signs (you'll know because he won't look normal or be acting normal).
If he shows possible signs of sickness, or he still continues to not eat, see a vet.
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does crying make you loose weight ? (link)
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That would count as loosing only body fluids, not anything else.
...Maybe on an extended definition, crying=sadness and depression, which leads to loss of apetite. But we all know that that isn't healthy if you are not eating much, right?
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14/f
im looking for furniture that has to do with surfing or the ocean or beach, etc. and i don't know where to look im redecorating my whole room i already looked at pbteen online but is there any furniture stores/stuff online or anything that i am looking for
ps. please don't tell me to go to google and type in ocean theme room or w/e
THANKS!!
pps i rate 5s easily ;) (link)
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You can get beach themed posters or canvases to decorate the walls... http://www.allposters.com/
I was thinking, if you have old surfboards or any other beach apparel, you could get creative and make furniture or wall murals with them. Take a piece of driftwood and make a coathanger or shelf.. haha
As for just plain furniture etc, I like this place called Ikea. It has great simple designs for a teen room. Just browse around, they have great stuff: http://www.ikea.com/ms/en_US/
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i'm moving into a new house and I don't know what
color to paint my room!!!!!! Please Help. All the color quizzes I've taken say different things like I'm purple, gray, green and blue. Is there any true color test where it will really tell you what color you should paint your walls so you won't get annoyed etc. of it. Please I really need help (link)
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I don't know about any tests, but since you are unsure of what color you like or what would be best for your room, you sound like a cool color person. Cool colors make a peaceful atmosphere.
Warm or bright colors, especially in a bedroom, could make you get annoyed and restless. It depends on your personality though. Decide your favorite color, then see if it would be apropriate for a bedroom. After that, create a color scheme that compliments your wall color. http://www.sheriftariq.org/design/color/
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I'm 15/f
I have a relatively small room. How can I make it seem bigger [i.e. mirrors]? I want to make the most out of it too. Thank you (link)
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One of the best ways to lighten up is to put light colors on the walls. If you are going to put in mirrors, don't have too many and don't put them everywhere. You can place a few small mirrors next to eachother or spread across a wall for an artistic look. You can also just get 1 big mirror.
Lighting plays an important role too. Make sure there is a good source of light in your room.
Lastly, make everything simpler. Everything from furniture to bedding will make the room look better if you use simple shapes and colors. Get organized if you already aren't (haha) because mess is not inviting (ovbiously).
Ikea not only has simple, stylish products but they offer a lot of decorating info. Click on a category, (like "lighting" for example) and there is information at the top of the page. http://www.ikea.com/ms/en_US/index.html
:)
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what can happen if u suck helium out of a balloon? (link)
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The gas is much less dense than air, so vocal cords vibrate a lot faster as the gas is released, causing a voice to be higher for a short amount of time.
[Helium gas is not poisonous. It is being used by the divers in deep-sea diving, mixed with oxygen. Breathing with pure helium will make a person pass out because of lack of oxygen. So, when someone breathes oxygen they will easily recover. There are no chemical reactions which occur in the body, and as soon as the helium has escaped, normal respiration begins again. Inhaling helium gas isn't a danger. It's just when people forget that they need oxygen to live that the problems occur.]
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ok to start out with i never had alot of freinds. but now i have like 2. all of my old freinds never hang out with me and they always say stuff about me thats not ture. first they say that they will always be my freind and the next they say that they hateme. i've tried to talk to them but them wont say anything and when they do say something its usely somehting hurtful like your to fat or to ugly. now none of that is ture but htey wont stop and all i want to do is see why they hate me so bad so that i might try to fix that in the weeks to come. i even tryed to leave them alone but then they get even madder and say even worse stuff about me. now i dont want to lose the freinds i already have by changing but if i dont then i get hurt. so what do i do?
-->mandy (link)
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Those aren't friends, those are bullies. Get away from them, even if they talk bad about you afterwards. Would you rather stay with a group of bullies that put you down all the time, or find a different group of friends? You might have a small amount of friends for a while, but that's fine. And even if your old friends talk bad about you, only bad people will believe them anyway, people who you won't want to hang out with. (Most likely, once other people see that you aren't friends with that group of people, they'll think of you better and want to be your friend.)
Show the old friends that you are not affected by their insults, and they'll most likely stop all the bullying. Otherwise, if they bother you too much, let your parents or a school counselor know.
You said that you don't want to loose friends.. but they aren't friends, at least not very good friends. Ask yourself, can these people really be trusted? Do they care about you as a friend? Not really. It's time for some change!
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ok my dad wasnt home so i snuck a reeses peanut butter cup, even though i wasnt supposed to have one and i dropped it and my dog ate it...is he going to die? please help me i am so scared right now...hes a wire fox terrior, 1 year old and weighs about 18-20 pounds if that helps...please help me danielle (link)
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No he won't die. He probably won't even get sick. But look for signs, just in case-the first signs of poisoning are vomiting and diarrhea, increased urination, lethargy and depression, and muscle tremors.
So just watch him just in case. But after all, a peanut butter cup consists mostly of..peanut butter.
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i like this guy and i told my best guy friend and hes on the same soccer team as him and yesterday he told him and he asked him if he liked me and he said idk and he said yes or no and he said idk mabey.....do i have a good chance? (link)
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Well if the guy says "maybe", it's not like he would never want to be with you. But he's not crazy about you. So just get to know him more, show him your personality, and later on he'll know for sure if he likes you or not.
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hii!
well tomorrow me and my friend are hangin out with these two guys. my friend goes to school with both of them so she talks to them..but ive never talked to them in my life..ive seen one of them in person and he is sooo cute :] and he is single! the other one isnt...but when i meet this kid tomorrow wat are some things i could do for him to get my attention..or what are some flirty/cute/sexy ways i could like do it without seeming so overwhelming at first..since it will be the first time i meet him. i dont want him to think im coming on too strong you know. but im scared that if i dont like flirt with him then he wont do anything first. soo wat is your suggestions on this?? and please dont say "be yourself" yeah i know i will be myself..because why would i want him to think anything different than me but i just need some tips!
thanks. i will rate 5 for anyone who answers!
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Maybe instead of flirting, you could get to know him more first. Be his friend, then show him you like him. This also allows you to get to know his personality, because some guy's books are different from their covers!
Haah that was cheesy.
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well you see..its my springbreak right now! yupyup. and my friend that i havent talked to in about a half of year alla sudden called me and was like ohh we really need to hangout this week! and so i was like okay how bout tuesday or whatever..so she said she would call me when she is done with her fastpitch. the only problem is im scared its gonna be awkward since i havent talked to her in forever..and we just all of a sudden stopped talking. i really dont know what to do? im scared she is going to want to come over to my house and there is absolutely nothing to do! i dont want to watch movies..thats boring but we dont have a ride anywhere so we cant go to like the movies or mall or anything and i am not going to take some city bus. i just dont know what to do! she gets kinda bored easily and so i just dont want her to come over and us just sittin here bein like so what do you want to do? i dont know its up to you. like that kinda stuff..any suggestions? since neither of us can drive and both our parents are at work. blahh.. thanks guys! i will rate high! :] (link)
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Sounds like she invited herself! Haha.
Well, you probably will have more to talk about than usual because you have not talked for so long. And maybe if she gets that easily bored, you shoulda warned her about the boredom factor over the phone. Haha!
Maybe you could invite another friend.. Or even call her and ask her what she wants to do so ahead of time so you can get ideas. It will be awkward the first few minutes, but just relax and make good conversation. If you are in a bad state of boredom, just put on a funny movie (laughing and commenting is at least doing something, right?). Not the best thing to do, but it's the emergency plan. Haha!
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Lately, Ive realy wanted ot become balimic or anterexic.. the thing is i cant. i love my boyfriend to death and he would flip if he found out.. also i would loose all trust in my parents.... soo what do i do?? is cutting back food a badd thing???
--thx-- (link)
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Anorexia and bulimia are full-blown horrible, damaging disorders. If you took the time to research these, you'd see! I dare you to type in "anorexia" on google, and just look at the photos.
Food=life, it doesn't=fat.
If you want to go on a "diet", keep eating! Just eat healthy and exercise. And never exercise too much.
You have people who really care about you (if they didn't care about you, they would not flip if they found out you had a eating disorder). Talk to them about all this before you might go and damage yourself; they'll really help you.
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okay you know how you get your period every 28 days?? do you start counting from the day you get it, er the day you end??
i gotten my period the first of march & it lasted till around the 5th er 6th. i didn't get it yet soo should i expect it around the same time??
thanks!! (link)
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You can never expect it to be in an exact number of days. It's never that perfectly regular, especially during the first few years.
Later on over the months, if it's quite regular you can estimate around the week you'll have it.
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