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hii!
well tomorrow me and my friend are hangin out with these two guys. my friend goes to school with both of them so she talks to them..but ive never talked to them in my life..ive seen one of them in person and he is sooo cute :] and he is single! the other one isnt...but when i meet this kid tomorrow wat are some things i could do for him to get my attention..or what are some flirty/cute/sexy ways i could like do it without seeming so overwhelming at first..since it will be the first time i meet him. i dont want him to think im coming on too strong you know. but im scared that if i dont like flirt with him then he wont do anything first. soo wat is your suggestions on this?? and please dont say "be yourself" yeah i know i will be myself..because why would i want him to think anything different than me but i just need some tips!
thanks. i will rate 5 for anyone who answers!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Maybe instead of flirting, you could get to know him more first. Be his friend, then show him you like him. This also allows you to get to know his personality, because some guy's books are different from their covers!
Haah that was cheesy.
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Be interesting by being interested
Cut down the talk about yourself and ask him open ended questions. Find out about him – after all people generally enjoy talking about themselves and feel flattered when someone shows an interest in them. This also gives him the cue that you like to know a bit about someone before exchanging numbers or accepting a date.
Ask him what he enjoys doing
Women and men often tend to fall back on the line ‘What do you do’? To some men, this can smack of ‘checking for wallet-padding’. Alternatively Not everyone is doing the work they love, YET and the question may put them on the spot. Men are much more activity orientated whereas women like to talk about emotions. Asking them what they enjoy doing in their life will allow find out more about what makes them tick.
If you give out your number, give the genuine one
Carry a personal or business card to hand out. This way you know that when you give out your phone number you either give out the genuine one or not at all. Imagine what it must feel like plucking up the courage to dial a woman’s number only to find it is the local Chinese take-away.
Make the first move!
95% of men I talked to said they would love to be approached by a woman. If women are looking for equality then it is only fair that they do their share of the asking. It will also give you an opportunity to understand what men have to go through when making a first approach.
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