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i have been cutting myself for about 4 months now, i dont know how to stop, but i dont want to do it anymore. how do i stop and deal with my emotions in other ways? (link)
put a rubber band on your wriste and when you get mad snape it


my sister wears really slulty outfits, and i dont like it. i find it emberrsing and dont want her wearing that stuff. and everytime i tell her, she gets upset. how do i tell my sister to cover herself with out her getting mad at me. (link)
just tell her that like you dont like the stuff she wears and tell her that you think it is slutty and tell her just wear stuff and make sher she covers


I'm tired of my super straight hair and since it's nasty outside it doesn't come out straight anyways so I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on what kind of scrunching gel or whatever works best and keeps the "wet" look even when you're hairs dry? And eliminates frizzyness too? I've heard of Pantene has one but i'm not sure. Thanks for all your help. I rate high. (link)
i think you should use hair spy


ok...so i`m 13/f...i like 2guys! nd i have a problem with both of em! One of them...he lives closer to me nd could ride his bike down to see me nd stuff nd he likes me bacc! but he barely ever iMs me on aim i always have to give him hints nd sumtimes those dont even work nd he wont go out with me until we hang out nd stuff but when i`m free hes not nd when hes free i`m not!its suxxx!! nd the other guy....well mi best friend has a boyfriend but she also likes the guy i like whom likes me nd likes her! but the other nite we were on the fone nd he wus getting HIGH!!! i hate smokers druggies nd drinkers but i dont mind them as long as they dont do it around me er while i`m on the fone! nd he told me that the next day he wus goin to get drunk! but i like him a lot!but hes a jerk sumtimes too! sumone please help me

i`ll rate high!! (link)
ok well i think you should like set a date with the boy you never get to hang out with and stuff you should try to make a date with him or something and then when you meet him i think he will go out with you then dont go out with the boy who does drugs


hey, um.. I have a boyfriend but this boy who i met through my bff online, i think i might like him.. he keeps asking me to hang out and i wanna.. but he likes my best friend so idk wat to do? (link)
well i think if he asked you to hang out i think you should hang out with him just go to meet him and stuff dont do anything else but if he makes the move thyen i thinkyou should do it haha but just go to meet him if you need anymore advise just talk to me


Yahoo launch, and MTV.com music videos aren't working for me. Are there any more music video sites that are similar to launch? Like It keeps playing videos without picking certain ones? if that makes any sense...
but i really need help, this is driving me nuts! (link)
yea you can go to www.aolmusic.com


ok.. here we go.. I am totally in LOVE with my ex boyfriend.. the only reason we broke up is because he went back home (to minnasota from newjersey) he's comming back durring the winter varation. I miss him so much! but i like this other guy who's about to ask me out.. but the thing is idk if i'm ready to stop thinking about my ex right now. but i don't wanna ruin my chances with this new guys.. wat do i do? PLEASE help! (link)
ok i think that you should just like if you really like the boy who likes you now you should go out with him because the kid who moved you prob wont have another chance with him because he moves alot so i think you should just go out with that boy


alright well heres my deal, i'm 14/f and my best friend well i LOVE her brother i went out with him secretley but then she found outt and she was pissed..so then we had to break up bcus his parents were always yellin @ him and she wuld always cry about it i dnt see wat the big deal was but anyways we got back together and we got sexually active, agen she found outt and we had to break it off except this time it was BIGG. I still love him and he still lvoes me we arent reallyy dating but together my mom says i can do better but i def. think hes it. wat shuld i do? end the relationship or just go for it and forget about his sister. (link)
i think you should go out with him again i mean if you care about him alot you should just do it and forget about his sister because love is love and you cant change your feelings


I feel so ugly.. no matter what I do, I'm always comparing myself to girls that are prettier than me, and putting myself down... I always feel like I'm not worth anything because I feel ugly.. What can I do to raise my self-esteem or make myself prettier??? (link)
well you should not say that al lthe time because im a guy and most guys will think thats a turn off so just think you are pretty i bet you are just feel good about your self dont let me controle you


hey. i babysit this cute lil boy who is four. he is very good and i want to have a nice way to reward him for helping me alot. he helps clean the table and goes potty by himself. does anybody know anything i could give him or treat him to when he is good? (link)
you should when you go over his house and stuff just give him alot of candy and or by him stuff he will be good for you and he will like you alot


i feel like my friends never want to hang out with me unless i call them. they never call me and always hang out but not with me. i feel like i don't have any friends right now and that nobody likes me. i want to tell them that i'm feeling left out and stuff but i'm not sure how to tell them without them getting pissed off or sumthing. idk... so can anyone help?? thnx. (link)
well i think you should just talk to them and stuff and the tell how you feel i mean say it nice and dont tel them how you feel just talk to them really nice and stuff


I wanted to get Emancipated because I live with my dad and he constantly give me put downs, and so does his wife, linda my step mom. My moms an alcholic, and was abusive too me when I was a child now we have a realationship but I can't live with her. I need to get out, because this faily is driving me nuts, I feel so horrable at home I drive myself crazy... I have two jobs, enoguh money, live in VA, and have another place to live, with my retired boss, who's 61. She'd watch over me, and take care of me, untill im 21..
I work really hard im a great student and am well rounded. But I'm 15..Is there anyway I could get emanciapated? If so how, and etc. Thanks ! (link)
well i think you should go live with your boss because if she makes you happy and stuff then i think you should live there i no your parents have so problems but did you talk to her about it say it makes you sad when she does all of this but do what makes you happy and talk to me later write to me my name is hockeybob3166


m a virgin and its like im supposed to lose my virginity to my boyfriend back home... everything is so perfect and we haved talked about it having sex. before i left for vacations we talked about it and agreed that if it would happen, it had to be after i went back home ... i couldnt be happier with him but now ive been gone a month and i have been dating a guy here.. im with my friends and he even came to have diner with my parents. i already met his and his friends; everyone is so happy that we are together and we see each other everyday. his friends tell me and my friends that they havent seen his so happy with anyone and the truth is that im happy with him. here is the dilema, do i sleep with him or not? i want to but i have a bf back home and if i dont tell him that im not a virgin, can he find out physically? like what other ways can i break my hymen? advise plis ..
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well just talk to him tell him that you kinda ment someone when you went away and tell him you want to be with him but you like the other guy to just be strait with him tell him how you feel he will understand


I do not shave yet... but i want to... what is a creative way i can ask my mom i want to shave? (link)
i think you should sit your mom down and be like mom my hair is getting bigger and bigger and its starting to ich so do you think i can shave it just talk to her she is a girl she will understand


ok all i think about is sex and i cant get it off my mind and i really need help its all i talk about its all i do and i feel like such a whore...and like i dont know what to do like i really want to stop but its like temptations i get to just like ahh.i really wanna suck a dick or like eat some one out! are you a guy whats your # i WANT you!!! eat me bite me LICK ME!!! i really want you if your a guy oh my gosh i have such a craving i havent did someone in 5 hrs!! i wanna lick you from your head to your toes over and over again baby! call me sexii!! i want you soo bad DO ME !! DO ME HARD!!!!

signed
DESPRITE SEX
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well i think you like it because it feels good to you but i think you should just like stop thinking about it because like someone might rape you or something so i think you should just stop


-My mother's a whore who doesn't care to sleep wit several guys within days, married or not
-My father used to serial cheat on her, ever since the first 3 days of their marriage, and now she's gettin revenge
-No one could give a shit about me, so their shipping me off to another country
-Their pretendin to care, and sayin they want me to stay, though i'm not stupid, they both want to make me suffer(if i live wit my mom, i live wit her 2 BF's, and if i live wit my dad, i live wit his GF
-I don't know anyone in the Dominican Republic, what the hell am i supposed to do there, where the hell am i supposed to go to high school, and where the hell am i supposed to live, my own family members can't decide were to put me, since none of them want me there
-There's SOOO much more pain in my life write now, there wouldn't be any space to write it
-I have a serious addiction to cutting myself, and i think i may even be developing an addiction to pills, i mean, why wouldn't i be depressed
-And i know it's not a sex question, but it's a popular topic, and i just want to know, is there anyone who cares, anyone who can help me, anyone who can tell me, why haven't i killed myself, what the hell do i have left to care for, and what in the world am i supposed to do with my piece-of-crap-for-a-life
-I've tried proffesional help and advice, it seriously doesn't work
P.S.:plz, no wiseasses, i really don't want to deal wit that right now, cuz ur not gonna get a pleasant reaction

Sincerely,
Life Falling Apart(13/f) (link)
well i think that it is really messed up i think you should take them both and you should talk to them about it i no it might be hard just talk to them about it


Alright well a little while ago I found out that this girl I know gave head to my now boyfriend 5 days before we started going out (we have been going out for about 8 days now) even though it was before we were going out for some reason its still bothering me. Any suggestions on how I could make it not bother me?
x0 love maddie (link)
just not think about it like i no it would bother you alot and stuff just dont think about it and talk to who ever you need to talk to if you talk to the girl who did it she will say its not that big of deal but if it really bothers you then just like dont think about it or take some time to think of what you want because you dont wanna feel like they are cheating on you with your friend so take sometime to think about it


Soo I told this boy I liked him and he said he liked me. But then he said he doesnt want to be gf/bf he just wanted to be "together" but if I wanted to go out with him then he would. I'm confused whether or not he REALLY likes me.Also I was supposed to hang out with him tomorrow and he said he asked his mom and she said no..he's like "I asked if we could do anything tomorrow and she said no ask her if you want" but just the way he is it sorta leads me to believe he doesnt want to hang out.His mom usually lets him do anything.But he also lives 45 minutes away so I dont know. I don't know if I'm just really paranoid that he really doesn;t like me or what. He said he really wanted to hang out though.Can you tell me if he really likes me or he's just sorta taking advantage of me and wants to see other girls while hes with me? please help me! :'( (link)
yea umm just talk to him when you hang out tell him how you feel like tell him be like do you really like me because if you dont and if you are just leading me on and stuff just talk be like we need to talk about this do you really like me and did your mom really say no becasue if his mom lets him do alot and she says no i think he just dont wanna chill with you just talk to him tell him how you feel


OK there's a real problem in our school and it's sorta weird. If you get called a whore, people in my school take it as a compliment. Does anyone think this is very disturbing? Oh yea, and the people in our school who are popular are the sluts and the girls and guys who drink in school. I sorta wanna know how to stop this. Thanks! (link)
yea well when you get called a whore or something or when you hear someone call them it be like y would you call then a whore like that is messed up when you hear something like that just saying something be like dont say that if you really dont no them and stuff talk to you later bye


I am supposed to be hanging out with a kid I like and that likes me. I went out with him 3 times before but he's changed a little since that. We're supposed to hang out at my cousins house with her boyfriend too. What I wanna know is what if he asks to do anything with me (I want to by the way) but i'd feel a little uncomfortable infront of my cousin :-/..and it's at her house..what do I do?? (link)
well i think its is going to be weird but like you should just be like do you wanna take a walk or something and say you want to talk to him alone or something and then go somewhere and if you want to do something with him you can do it why you are alone but i no it will feel weird about it if you did it in front of your cuz but you will get used to it and stuff once you go out and stuff




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