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Stressing over nothing?
Alright well a little while ago I found out that this girl I know gave head to my now boyfriend 5 days before we started going out (we have been going out for about 8 days now) even though it was before we were going out for some reason its still bothering me. Any suggestions on how I could make it not bother me?
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Well, I don't think your stressing over nothing... Were you and this guy talking those 5 days before you started dating? Because what if he is still messing with this girl, and you don't know about it. That would bother me too, because you know, you just started dating, and then you find out that he was messing with some other girl before you.. ? Ya know, that would piss me off... But you do what you have to do, you ask him if he has feelings for her, and see what he has to say. Look at his reaction, analyze what he says to you... See if he's real... He sounds like a dog to me girl...
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well if you talk to him about it he will probably say it meant nothing and was just a one time thing so i would talk to him about it!
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just not think about it like i no it would bother you alot and stuff just dont think about it and talk to who ever you need to talk to if you talk to the girl who did it she will say its not that big of deal but if it really bothers you then just like dont think about it or take some time to think of what you want because you dont wanna feel like they are cheating on you with your friend so take sometime to think about it
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i think you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him how this is bothering you. if he is a true boyfriend im sure he would understand. you know? so i would tell him, :" something is kinda bothering me, wwell i found out this girl gave you head a few days before we were going out. i think you should have told me. its really bothering me." im sure he will understand. what might be bothering you is you might think he might still have feelings for this girl. i think you should ask him. it is worth a try. if he gets mad at you for asking then he is not worth it, you know?
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What you should do is think that he wants you because he picked you and that she just was someone who's his past.Most importantly your his present that is what really counts so your stressing out for nothing relax I'm sure he has no feelings for her but you only.Be happy that you too have a nice relationship together.
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i understand that one my bf of one year got like 6 blow jobs before me but did nothing else.. i was his first kiss. *weird* but it still kinda bothers me.. i dont really wanna do it to him cuz i know hes had so many before but it had nothing to do wit me or you in your situation, talking about it really helps, him reasuring it was nothing, which it probably wasnt anything, helps alot.. but just saying its kinda odd to him will help alot, and just remember it really had nothin to do with you, unless you were really close before you went out like together but not kinda thing, then you should be pissed or really talk to him
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