ok...so i`m 13/f...i like 2guys! nd i have a problem with both of em! One of them...he lives closer to me nd could ride his bike down to see me nd stuff nd he likes me bacc! but he barely ever iMs me on aim i always have to give him hints nd sumtimes those dont even work nd he wont go out with me until we hang out nd stuff but when i`m free hes not nd when hes free i`m not!its suxxx!! nd the other guy....well mi best friend has a boyfriend but she also likes the guy i like whom likes me nd likes her! but the other nite we were on the fone nd he wus getting HIGH!!! i hate smokers druggies nd drinkers but i dont mind them as long as they dont do it around me er while i`m on the fone! nd he told me that the next day he wus goin to get drunk! but i like him a lot!but hes a jerk sumtimes too! sumone please help me
o0xQTpiex0o answered Friday August 19 2005, 2:15 am: Ok well the guy who can ride his bike to your house is soo the one you should pick omg who would want there bf to get drunk and high that guy is mean to you too soo hes not very nice try to flirt more with the boy you can also try to be available ask him when he will be free and ask him to go to the mall or something he's the best choice so dont even give the day and time to that pot smokin JERK!!! hopefully it will work out if not IM me AmberxoxoMarie and ill try to give you more advice hopefully you and that good kid hit it off and become a couple well hope i helped you hun Amber<3
brunettecutie answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:55 am: i think yuo should NOT go out with nthe guy who smokes or drinks and stuff liek that if your not attracted to it. you know? it would not be fair to you. i think you should tell the other guy to meet you somewhere. make a time where he is free and where you are free (maybe you cant go bc you are going to a friedns house and you been there a million times) maybe you could not go there and see the guy if he is free that day. and when you guys do see each other and he still doesn't flirt with you them tell him it is kinda bugging you. he will understand.
hockeybob3166 answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:54 am: ok well i think you should like set a date with the boy you never get to hang out with and stuff you should try to make a date with him or something and then when you meet him i think he will go out with you then dont go out with the boy who does drugs [ hockeybob3166's advice column | Ask hockeybob3166 A Question ]
TRiSHx0xL0VE answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:50 am: I think the second guy would be wrong to go out with on so many levels lol. I would hate to go out with a dude that does drugs and drinks all the time. It could definately interfere with the relationship where if he got too high or too drunk he may cheat on you with another girl without even knowing. The other guy i think would be alrite. Just pick a day where your free and ask him ahead of time if you guys could hang out that day so if anything comes up he can say "I already have plans" that's what i do. Good luck!!<3 [ TRiSHx0xL0VE's advice column | Ask TRiSHx0xL0VE A Question ]
85PunkRocPrincess63 answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:49 am: i would say go fer the one that lives closer! give him better hints! tell him that yo0h want to talk to him more! be open with yer feelings! hope i helped!=)
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