Hey!! My name is Alana and im 13!! I love hanging with my frinds and playing and watching sports!!(mostly baseball and football) Im just hoping that i help you just a little bit if i answered your question, if i helped you more than that is totally kewl!! lol
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15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering. (link)
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I love it when guys wear axe but i guess it all just depends on the cologne you wear. But just about every girl I know loves the smell of axe. Hope I helped.
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well me and this boy were getting pretty close and i let him kiss me like with tongue. And so one of his friends told him i have a boyfriend and i dont but he wont tlk to me wat do i do (link)
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Well if you dont have a bf and he thinks you do then you need to tell him that you dont! So he really knows that your arent lying to him. And since he isnt talking to you right now you need to go up to him and straighten things out. I really hope i helped
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Once I was told by a guy that when he looked at me he saw stars in my eyes. What the hell is that supposed to mean?! Anyone have any ideas? I dunno why it occured to me today but now I can't stop wondering what it meant...he was my boyfriend at the time by the way so I doubt it was anything mean...maybe sarcastic, i don't know.
Thanks! (link)
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i think it means that when he looked into your eyes, he saw sparkles, like the light reflecting off of it and he said "you have stars in your eyes" it was pretty much a compliment saying that your eyes are very pretty. Hope i helped
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well my b/f and i have been going out for a week or two and all we have done is hugged. i want it to move a little faster. what should i do? (link)
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ok i think this is gonna help because i made a horrible mistake of dating a guy and then dumping him because it wasnt moving faster. Now i just think you should kiss him yourself. If you want him to move faster you gotta make that move yourself, you cant completely expect the guy to do all the work. I really hope that helped.
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Hello. I am 14. I need help, because I just started a relationship with this kid that I really liked last weekend, and I am really confused. We've been going out for a week and a half now..and I really like him. The thing is, I liked to be single. But I don't wnat to break his heart..or mine...and I don't wnat anything to be different between us either. I just liked being single. What should I do?
Sincerely,
Boy Troubles (link)
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ok since you were single it is going to take a while to get use to having a bf. That is what happened with me, i was single for forever and i liked it because i could flirt with anyone i wanted but then i started going out with my friend Dylan and i really liked him and after awhile i got use to having him with me and flirting with him all the time. See the thing is if you really like him it will just take a while to adjust to having a bf but after awhile it will all be kewl. Hope i helped
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k, so i don't know how long this will be but oh well. i'm 16/f. i was dating the same guy for 2 years. he broke up with me because he thinks i'm never happy. he's never serious and he thinks i'm too serious. i've been getting over it, and now i like another guy (and i don't think he likes me back) but yeah, this past week,my ex has been telling me how much he wants me back and he loves me, then last night he came to my house and told me he's seeing a girl he cheated on me with last year. my ex told me he would go back out with me if i were "happy". idk why i'm not happy with him. i was with him a lot of the time we were dating.. like we saw eachother almost every day, but he wants to be w/ his friends all of the time. what could i do to be happy? or should i just forget about my ex and try to go for the guy that i have a crush on and i'm too nervous to talk to him because i haven't really flirted in 2 years. what should i do? any answer is good. =] (link)
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first of all if you werent happy with your ex then i think you should just forget about him. If he didnt make you happy before he probably wont make you happy now. And the same thing kinda happened to me, i was in a really long relationship and he dumped me and i slowly was able to flirt with guys again. Since you were will your ex bf for 2 years it will take awhile for you to get into the dating pool again, i know that sounds kinda gay,but oh well. Anyway i hope i helped, and if i didnt then im sorry
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I was wondering what peoples opinions are on telling a guy you like him. If you like a guy that you're fairly close to, do you tell him or not? (link)
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Well if you really like the guy than go for it!! The worst he could do would be to say no, so i say go for it!!
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I have been hurt by a few boys previously in the past.
I have been in love once, but hurt by other boys i liked. I am 14/f btw.
So there's this one guy that i have liked for a while, and after a long time and him blowing me off, i decided i needed to move on.
So this other guy friend of mine (we've been aqantienses for about 2 years. got close a few months ago)
we went on a date. and it was so much fun. and he likes me and i do like him.
i just dont want to be hurt again
my parents are recently divorced, and every relationship i have ever seen has failed.
i am afriad of him getting bored with me just like the rest of them
so here's my question,
Give him a chance, or move on with my life? (link)
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i really think you should give him a chance if you really like him, he may be the perfect guy for you, and just remember everytime you get hurt as you move on you get stronger, trust me i know i have had tons of guys hurt me, but i really hope i helped
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Should i stay with my kids dad even though I am unhappy? My kids would be crushed if I left him and I just want them to be happy too. Its been 12 years that we are together. Female, 32 (link)
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ok i know that when my parents got divorced, i was sad but then i realized that i really helped my parents, they are both really happy now, and they are both remarried, so i guess what im trying to tell you is if your not happy then your kids will understand and you need to do whatever will make you happy. And i am very sure that your kids will see that this was done for the best. And if your happy then your kids will see that and that will make them even happier. I really hope i helped
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Hey well my parents are gettin a divorce and sense then i have had to put alot of things aside for myself. Like i love playin sports i have played basketball, soccer, v-ball, track, cross country i meen alot of sports and sense my parents are getting a divorce i have to watch my brother an sister alllll the time!! So i wasn't able to do stuff "sports" that i wanted to do and sense then i never get to do anything 4 me what should i do?? My parents don't even let me go out on weekends i feel like cinderella i work all day and night and never get thanked and my parents won't let me go out with my prince Charming!! (link)
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Trust me, my parents got a divorce too. Its hard but you really just have to tell them what is bothering you because if you don't they don't know why your upset or mad. But if you tell them than maybe they could fix the problem so you can have more time to do the things that you wanna do.
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ok this is a stupid thing to say but yeah, i've been under alot of stress here lately for the past year or so now.I've been starting to think about cutting I have once before but dont know if I want to again last time I did my parents found out and said they were going to put me in a hospital if i ever did it again.But I can't think of any other ways to relieve my feelings in a way only I can control. (link)
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just write down all the feeling and get them out in a journal or diary. Whatever you do don't become a cutter.
hope i helped :)
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We recentley got rid of my beloved pet, Mac. He was a yellow lab, 6months old and like 154 pounds. i loved hime so much and whenever i think about him or ee pics of him i start to cry. How can i get over this? (link)
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Well what is good is that you know that you loved him very much but one thing that you can do becausei had the same happen to me is that you realize all the good times you had with you dog and they become good/great memories. You can also just spend time keeping busy with friends and stuff like that. Hope i helped
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my friend katie has a horrible reputation. she is 15 years old, and has been sleeping with MEN since she was 12. she has slept with over 10 people. last year, i had a boyfriend of 11 months. we broke up because my bf cheated on me with katie, and lied to me about it. i was mad at her forever, and i even got suspended because of her. i forgived her, and she promised me she'd never do it again... so she broke her promise. i'm going out with this guy.. we've been off and on for almost 6 months. katie has somewhat of an idea that me and him are together. my bf called her to apologize for a fight they got into a few weeks ago. she was like "ohh well im going to be home alone tonight if you want to hang out" and ryne (boyfriend) said okay and flashed back to me (i was on the other line). he said hes going to go along with it, and he called her back. she told him that she likes him and everything, and she doesn't want me to find out. ryne is going along with everything and he wants me to go along with him and stuff. us three are in the same algebra class and if i see her flirting with him, i will go crazy. what am i supposed to do? go along with it or go nuts ? i can't hold my feelings in very long.. and she has no idea i know anything..
i rate high for anything.. even an effort
sorry for the length.. and if it's confusing
PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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ithink you should just go along withit it seems like your bf has a pla
hope i helped
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An hour ago I burnt my hand with hot water and it feels really hot and hurts how can I fix it>? (link)
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just put some ice on it and some burn cream i think that should help stop the pain
hope i helped
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I just got braces a few weeks ago and I have to get them tightened for the first time on February 1.. I was just wondering.. When you get them tightened, does it hurt as much as it does when you first get your braces on? Do you have to like eat soup and stuff again for a few days after you get them tightened? Another question.. My ortho showed me this special way to floss, but it's such a hassle. It takes forever to floss, and it's really complicated. Do most people floss when they have braces? Or is it okay if I don't floss.. and just brush my teeth really well? Thanks.. I'll rate HiGh! (link)
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i dioesnt hurt mire it hurts a little less but after an hour or less it wont hurt at all
hope i helped
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i've known my best friend,kelly, for 4 years now. and since we started high school she has changed, she doesn't tell me anything anymore. we still talk and hang out together and she gives me ride to school and i drop her off at her house after school. there is another girl ,jill, and she stays over her house all the time. and she tells jill everything. but jill says that some other girl,chris, is her best friend not kelly. so i don't know what to do. i feel so left out. kelly doesn't talk to online or on the phone she doesn't tell me personal stuff or anything. oh also kelly talks s**t about jill when she isn't there so i don't know whats up with her! (link)
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well just tell kelly that you are feeling left our and you should tell jill what kelly saysabout her she need to know the truth to.
hope i helped
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What can you do with a 7 yr old boy when your babysitting him? Thanx in advance! (link)
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really you need to act like your into what he is into and just play his games and stuff like that
hope i helped
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ok so a couple years ago, i realllly liked this one guy, and it sucked cause he didnt like me back..
well i got over him & everything and two years later (now) i realized that im starting to like him all over again.. and i havent even really talked to him very much, but its like dejavu and im feeling all that stuff all over again
should i go with my heart and like him again or just try to avoid this?
thank you! (link)
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i think you should follow your heart it will lead you to happiness
*happychick*
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I have been with my boyfriend for three years n still havent got pregant n it is really scaring me because I want a baby now.What shounld I do. (link)
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just hope and pray and god will answer your wants
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My friend just spread a rumor saying i wanted to have sex with my cousin who everyone knows b/c he's my age. I want to just beat my "friend" up or cuss her out, but i know that's not the right thing to do. Anyone have any suggestions? and DONT tell me to just talk to her. I want to say something that'll make her wish she never messed with me! (link)
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just say that she underestimated you and that the rumor was just plain mean and nasty and full of crap that wasnt true so hope i helped
*happychicka*
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