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im 13 years old 4'11'' weigh exactly 60 pounds.
im freaked out !! please help me! am i extreamly underweight?
and i also am a pig i can eat 2 big macs in 1 hour!
You are underweight but if you can eat that much in an hour - you obviously just have a high metabolism so I dont think theres anything wrong with you. Get a check up at your doctor, and ask them what they think of your weight! They can put you on certain diets to help you gain weight, but they might tell you you're just fine. Some people are just naturally tiny.. you may just be one of those people blessed with high metabolism. =P Lucky you. You can eat all the yummy stuff you want and not have to worry. Dont fret so much. As long as youre getting all the vitamins and nutrients you need, youre fine.
i'm 16. i'm on birth control. my boyfriend of two years and i had sex the other night and he came inside me. i was just wondering if it is 100% positive that you do get pregnant if you get came inside of, and the whole birth control thing. thanks in advance for thoes who help. i'll rate good.
You need to speak with your doctor about things like this because if you do not already know the answer to the question you could quite possibly not be using your birth control method properly, or don't understand it.
You are 99% protected by the pill as LONG AS YOU ARE USING IT CORRECTLY. (Example: taking it at the same time everyday.) Do not fret, you should be fine, though. Honest. Have your boyfriend wrap it up next time - to prevent any worries. Thats going to be your biggest problem - is the worries. So just WRAP IT UP! Its a lot less scary that way.
how do u play "hard to get" to a guy you like..?
You play hard to get by:
Not answering him when he calls you - but returning his call at a later date/time.
If he asks you out for THAT day... you say you're busy but give him another day you could possibly hang out.
Make yourself seem unavailable, even if you're totally available.
Don't SHOW that youre excited to be around him or hear from him, even if your insides are jumping up and down with excitement - dont let your outside show it.
Basically, you act aloof and like you dont care much - no matter how much you really do care inside.
Hope I helped. =]
Okay so my gynocologist put me on seasonale and it gives you 1 period every 3 months. Well this is my first time on this medicine and im only on the second month around the time my period would normally be. So I've had this "period" for about a week and 5 days and my cramps arent even like period cramps, they are sharp pains not like aches. Is it possible that I'm pregnant, the lining of my uterus is cleaning out, or i had a miscarrage? I want to go to the doctor cause it hurts and the blood is brown not red... what's wrong with me? Please be honest... can I still bleed and be pregnant?
First, you CAN bleed and be pregnant. But the chances of that are very unlikely. On Seasonale, especially in the first six months, you get a lot of spotting. "Spotting" can be just a few drops, or a whole period worth of blood. It all depends on the person. Sharp pains can be your "cramps" in different areas and you're just not used to it. You should go to the gynocologist though, and get an internal exam so they can tell you EXACTLY whats wrong.
Same thing kinda....if you smoke weed, then doesn't it lead to like coke, and heroin? And all those club drugs? I've beenn partying a lot lately, and I've noticed afterwards, I was drunk or high, with out realzing it! I'm only 13.(going on 30...lol).. and I'm already in the world of sex and drugs! Wait, not sex...not yet at least. But if I keep this up, how will that affect me later on? I knew the answer, but I keep forgetting things!!! It's so frustrating. But I can't stop. It's like going to work without clothes on. You need clothes. I need drugs! But I wanna stop. But I can't! See what I mean? I'M A NUT JOB! And I've noticed I'm paranoid...so, yeah.. You can try and answer. but you don't have to.
Personally I think youre too young to be in that scene. Let yourself grow up before you get into that shit. Smoking and drinking and partying is a lot of fun ... if youre old enough to handle it. I agree with whoever said to wait a few years then do all the drugs and have all the sex you want.
my boyfriend wants to finger me and im okay with that but like what do i do while he's fingering me do i just sit there or what?
My boy and I always used to be sitting me in front of him between his legs. And I would grind into him and put my one arm around and rub his head/neck. And he could kiss my neck that way.
See my Grannie died and thats my mom's mom. My mom has been taking it pretty hard latley and she sometimes crys and gets mad and I just feel so bad for her cause its her mom and she loved her alot. Everytime I see her cry I want to confort her but I don't really know what to do or say. She has lost 7lbs in the last 2 weeks and she hasn't been eating right and she is all depressed and empty. She is really scering me and I don't know what to do.
Please Help Me. Thanks in Advance and No stupid answers.
Ask her to go for a drive. When I go driving with my mom we just sit and talk. Let her talk about whatever she wants with you - even if its not her mom. Maybe you can offer to cook dinner for her - her favorite meal. Write her little notes in places she'll find them when you're not around telling her how much you love her. Make her funny little pictures. If she doesnt want to talk about it, don't push it. Just be there for her incase she does.
I'm SO scared!! My Bat Mitzvah is in the second week of October! My hebrew school is very layed back and say that the hebrew is not the important part of becoming bat mitzvah. But, i don't want to make a fool of my self!! I have been practiciing very hard but when i go up in front of people to talk all my practiciing goes down the drain! Practicing in front of my parents won't help at all. How can I fell confident about my ceremony??
Get a whole bunch of friends together and do it in front of them. Or even see if one of your teachers at school that you like a lot will practice with you. Just keep practicing. I'm sure when it comes time, you'll be fine as long as you practice everyday.
in football today i broke a kids neck and he's parylized from the neck down. im fine with it, completly, really i am. i think i was just doing my job. but im not sure how i should act about it. should i just act like i feel bad or somethin?
If this isnt true - you're a jerk for posting this and saying things like this.
But if its true - then, you SHOULD feel bad. But in football - its a rough sport. Unless you got an unneccessary roughness penalty, you didnt do anything wrong. Chances are the way he fell and the way you hit him - he landed in a bad way and it was no ones fault - just the way the bell tolls. You should feel bad, but its not your fault. Things like this happen in football all the time. People get hurt. Everyone that plays football KNOWS the risks.
in one of my classes we got into groups of four (the teacher picked) and i got paired with two popular girls and this guy that i've KNOWN since last year, and i wouldn't call him one of my friends. he was being such a babe and dividing us into like do our own thing so we get more done. he does the first problem on the paper, and one of the girls goes, "omg... that is so wrong! you are so stupid" and she really hurts his feelings i felt so bad for him
Alright well that was kind of long and I didnt need that much of an explanation. But its his life. You cant go through your life sticking up for everyone. Maybe next time you can tell them to keep the fuckin gay ass remarks to themselves right when they say them.
my cramps have been so bad all day its horrible i cant focus on my homework. what can i do/take. i dont rlly have ne special stuff like midol. but like advil nd tylonal type of stuff ;).
thank you. i rate. bye
Alright well thats how I was. So I went to the gynocologist and got put on birth control and Ponstel. If those don't work you could have an ovarian cyst. Which, dont worry about those - I've had several. They just rupture and go away on their own. Its nothing serious. Its just a fluid build up. Birth control really works wonders, as does Ponstel. So check with your mom - tell her the problem, and ask her to get you an appointment. Heating pads work really well, also!
Two questions about pre-marriagal sex... first one, am I spelling it right? I just like to know how to spell things, sorry to waste your time. Second one, before Advicenators, I was always under the impression that pre-marriagal sex was just for the screwed-in-the-head potheads and the sluts/whores. But now I'm looking at these questions, and seriously folks, it's just insane how many people are saying "I've been with my b/f three months and we had sex last night, is that too little time?" or something like that. Are my thoughts on pre-marriagal sex wrong? Note: Smartasses get 1s and will be reported. Give me real advice.
It's Premarital Sex. And everyone has their own opinion on sex. Everyone will answer the second question differently. I feel that its up to the person. If they feel comfortable - then go for it. Its their body, they should do what they want with it.
how do you make-out..lol odd question..but..i've never done it before..
massage the other persons tongue with yours. move your tongue in circles around theirs. i add a little nibbling on the lips in there. lol. its easy, just relax and follow their lead. everyone adapts their kissing style to suit their partner.
ok so me and this guy are always "cuddling" so-to-speak, we always lay on the couch together and he always has his arm around me and in other words we're always like having our arms around eachother..but that's all we do and its only for a short period of a time. i don't know how to explain it but how do i like "lead him on" to going further like i want to kiss him or make out with him or something, but without just giving it away. i don't want to just say it or anything, how do i "lead him on" to doing something like that? i'll rate 5's for good answers! =) thank you!
What I do is talk to them, about anything but it has to be something kind of personal. Then you move your face close to theirs, not too close to where its weird, but close enough to be intimate. Then you give him a little smile, maybe lick your lip a little bit, or bite your bottom lip. He'll get the hint - and if he wants to kiss you, he DEFINITELY will after that!!
Can i burn a CD from limewire? and how do i go about that?
I don't have limewire. But I'm sure you can - although I dont know how to.
Hi I am a 17 year old boy and my girlfriend wants to have unprotected sex
with me, but i'm not sure i want to have unprotected sex.
We have had protected sex before. Please Help me?.
Sweetie if she wants to have unprotected sex - shes just pushing to trap you. If shes on birth control, go for it once or twice. Dont do it all the time because youre just asking to be one of the .1 percent that gets pregnant. But if shes not on birth control - she really wants to try to trap you into the relationship. Girls do things like that when they feel the relationship isnt really going too well. If you dont want kids - wrap it up or get her put on something.
ok, well me and some of my friends are bi. i just found out that one of my friends who i like likes me too. but we dont want anyone to know about us being bi. so we sorta wanna go out but if we were to go out we agreed we wouldnt tell anyone. so we also agreed that we wouldnt be jealous if the other person went out with a guy or got with another girl or something. so my question is should we go out and just keep quiet or shoudl we just stay being friends with benefits?
If you guys really like each other than you shouldn't be together. And if you think about it, that makes sense. Because either way you're going to keep it on the down low - you or your friend(with benefits) are going to end up messing with another girl or a guy and getting jealous and mad. It's too hard to be involved (even if its secret) and not get upset when the other messes with someone else, even if you've agreed not to get mad. Its just not possible if you really care about someone.
how old do kittens have to be to get fixed?
if i dont get my kitten fixed will she go through heat or will anything happen besides she can get pregnant?
what are some signs of heat?
will rate 5's for good answers!
My cat gets more rammy. She runs around more and scratches everything up. Plus when you rub or pat their behind they raise it up towards you.
okay i want to get my belly button pierced. and i hear it hurts so bad! like really bad. and i was just wondering if thats like really true and if someone could like give me hints on to make it not hurt like breathing techniques or something to make it hurt less.
I dont think it hurt at all. And I got it done twice. Don't hold your breath - that makes it worse. Breathe in and out slowly and count your breaths. Think about something other than the needle.
hey.
i have a question that has been burning in me for a while, well not really a question i just need a little help. theres this guy i reallly like and he likes me. he has been over here so much this summer, and sometimes up to 5 days in a row. we do stuff together and we really like each other. i feel so happy when im with him. i think of him as a boyfriend but it isnt official. the thing is, he is 3 years older then me. he is 17 and i am 14. but the age difference doesnt bother me because i am very mature for my age and am very comfortable around him. he is a senior this year and i am a freshman. i want him to be my boyfriend so bad, he calls me every night just to say goodnight. all my friends say to ask him out but i JUST CANT. and they tell me to talk to him about it but I JUST CANT. i dont know what to do i think im falling in love with him! please help me! he knows i like him a lot but i just want to officially be a couple! please help.
thank you.
Well, I'm 17. I'll be 18 in January. I'm in the same situation you are right now - with a 15 year old boy. Age really is just a number unless its a huge (10/20 year) difference. So don't worry about the age. A lot of senior guys date freshmen girls. Thats just how high school works. My thing is to leave well enough alone. You are happy right now with how you two are - so why push it by trying to be an official couple. Maybe he's not ready for that yet. Your best bet is to talk to him about it. Ask him why you guys act like a couple but aren't official. He'll either tell you why you guys aren't official yet, or he'll ask you out. If he tells you hes not ready, dont push the issue. You guys sound like youre happy even without being official. Just stick by him and when hes ready he'll come around.