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in football today i broke a kids neck and he's parylized from the neck down. im fine with it, completly, really i am. i think i was just doing my job. but im not sure how i should act about it. should i just act like i feel bad or somethin?
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If this isnt true - you're a jerk for posting this and saying things like this.
But if its true - then, you SHOULD feel bad. But in football - its a rough sport. Unless you got an unneccessary roughness penalty, you didnt do anything wrong. Chances are the way he fell and the way you hit him - he landed in a bad way and it was no ones fault - just the way the bell tolls. You should feel bad, but its not your fault. Things like this happen in football all the time. People get hurt. Everyone that plays football KNOWS the risks.
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Well, I don't really think that by breaking a kid's neck and making him paralized is just "doing your job"... Put yourself in his shoes how would you feel if a kid broke your neck and YOU were paralized from the neck down. This kid might have wanted a carreer in football... Not to make you feel guilty, but you RUINED his life by doing this. Honestly, making someone paralized from THE NECK DOWN, you pretty much ruined their life.
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Are you serious? Somehow I doubt it, but if you are, then wow!
I mean I guess you don't have to be sorry, I'd be freaking sorry though. The parents aren't going to like press charges or anything?! You'd be getting of pretty easily. I guess if you don't feel sorry, well then, you don't feel sorry, I don't like the bit about you pretending to care, you ruin somebodys life and you have no feelings on it?! Well just think how you would feel if you were parylized. Anyway, I think you should apologize or at least visit him if he's still in the hostpital or whatever. I, personally, would feel horrible, obviously you don't, but you should do something to show you're sorry or that you care whether you do or you don't.
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Talk about your troll trying to disrupt this place by getting millions of answers to the above stipid question. If this one is for real this person is more cracked than many I have met or read advice questions from. Again, if this was real this guy is a loser outright and a bit of a dumbass (sorry if that breaks rules) to say How should I act about it? If you do not know do not ask--we cannot help your cold heart.
The whole I was just doing my job even is so or fake in the question shows he doesn't get it. A person is paralyzed how even as a football player is that your job nimrod? As a football player the idea is to win a game and not severely injure someone or destroy a life.
This proves the question is a fraud: Should I feel or just act bad or something? If you are ansking in reality how to act give me a break and look up the word remorse in the dictionary, find your soul, and remorse, merge the two and try and make this person's life better because guess what?
Accident or not or even if this all BS A person is in some way responsible for making sure this kind of event does not happen again to another kid and to make this kid has a decent enough life. This whole thing will teach you to become a man and not an jerk asking should I be remorseful how should I behave and or feel? Think about it--you should know by now.
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You should probably be uppercutted. Did you say sorry at least? I mean, he's paralyzed now. Think about how much you've jacked the rest of his life up. Just take time to think about what you can do when you're unable to move.
You're probably gunna think about it for a while cuz you can't to jack-shit with a broken neck.
Good job.
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