Question Posted Wednesday September 14 2005, 4:10 pm
in one of my classes we got into groups of four (the teacher picked) and i got paired with two popular girls and this guy that i've KNOWN since last year, and i wouldn't call him one of my friends. he was being such a babe and dividing us into like do our own thing so we get more done. he does the first problem on the paper, and one of the girls goes, "omg... that is so wrong! you are so stupid" and she really hurts his feelings i felt so bad for him <3 she kept persisting on calling him stupid until it was his turn to do the problem and she calls him stupid again and he totally ignores her. he doesn't fight, doesnt say ANYTHING back, and just ignores her. she says to him, "omg you are so lazy! wake up jeez" and he does the next problem and barely speaks. it's his turn again, and he says, "i'm so stupid. you do it, you know everything. i don't know anything" and the other popular girl makes a face and they both laugh and that kid doesn't give a shit. i say, "(his name here) we can't do this thing without you. you gotta help us." and he sighs and does it, and says that the answer was like 21 or something and the popular girl goes, "no it's 22" and he says, "whatever" and when the teacher goes over the answers, guess what the answer was? it was 21. and he smiles at me and then i look at the popular girl and she says, "ugh i told him it was 21! he's so stupid" and i felt so bad, you don't even understand. he is one of those people that like can never be mean and you can never hate him no matter what he does. oh my god he is such a sweetheart i am crying now. how coould someone be that mean? i would almost cry. he got so hurt. please, i want to do something about it. i know he won't care that much, but he got so hurt i just can't believe she would do that to him. should i go up to her and say that she was being really mean to him yesterday or tell him that they were being such losers yesterday (even though it may remind him of that, and he may not want to be reminded of it) please i am literally crying. i felt so bad for him. he's such a sweetheart <3 i rate high for good advice.
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