hey.
i have a question that has been burning in me for a while, well not really a question i just need a little help. theres this guy i reallly like and he likes me. he has been over here so much this summer, and sometimes up to 5 days in a row. we do stuff together and we really like each other. i feel so happy when im with him. i think of him as a boyfriend but it isnt official. the thing is, he is 3 years older then me. he is 17 and i am 14. but the age difference doesnt bother me because i am very mature for my age and am very comfortable around him. he is a senior this year and i am a freshman. i want him to be my boyfriend so bad, he calls me every night just to say goodnight. all my friends say to ask him out but i JUST CANT. and they tell me to talk to him about it but I JUST CANT. i dont know what to do i think im falling in love with him! please help me! he knows i like him a lot but i just want to officially be a couple! please help.
thank you.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? falliingxagain answered Wednesday August 24 2005, 12:08 pm: Well, I'm 17. I'll be 18 in January. I'm in the same situation you are right now - with a 15 year old boy. Age really is just a number unless its a huge (10/20 year) difference. So don't worry about the age. A lot of senior guys date freshmen girls. Thats just how high school works. My thing is to leave well enough alone. You are happy right now with how you two are - so why push it by trying to be an official couple. Maybe he's not ready for that yet. Your best bet is to talk to him about it. Ask him why you guys act like a couple but aren't official. He'll either tell you why you guys aren't official yet, or he'll ask you out. If he tells you hes not ready, dont push the issue. You guys sound like youre happy even without being official. Just stick by him and when hes ready he'll come around. [ falliingxagain's advice column | Ask falliingxagain A Question ]
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