ok, well me and some of my friends are bi. i just found out that one of my friends who i like likes me too. but we dont want anyone to know about us being bi. so we sorta wanna go out but if we were to go out we agreed we wouldnt tell anyone. so we also agreed that we wouldnt be jealous if the other person went out with a guy or got with another girl or something. so my question is should we go out and just keep quiet or shoudl we just stay being friends with benefits?
MELiixMARiiE answered Monday August 29 2005, 4:29 pm: I think you two should just be friends with benefits, because if you two went out and didn't tell anyone, in a way that's really not going out it's the same kinda relationship as friends with benefits. Because if you guys didn't care if anyone knew you guys were bi, then I'd just say go out.. anyways, just stay friends with benefits. I hope I helped!
dancesnrain answered Monday August 29 2005, 3:08 pm: If y'all go out and don't tell anyone... then it's just like being friends with benefits... it's the same relationship, just a different title. Do you get what I'm saying... I say just stick with what you have going on now... no need to change the title of it... seems to be working for both of you. [ dancesnrain's advice column | Ask dancesnrain A Question ]
orphans answered Monday August 29 2005, 2:15 am: well if you and her want to take the chance. do it! if you dont want to go through benifits. then thats a nother story. i would say go out with her if ur up to it! its a change for once! [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
falliingxagain answered Monday August 29 2005, 2:08 am: If you guys really like each other than you shouldn't be together. And if you think about it, that makes sense. Because either way you're going to keep it on the down low - you or your friend(with benefits) are going to end up messing with another girl or a guy and getting jealous and mad. It's too hard to be involved (even if its secret) and not get upset when the other messes with someone else, even if you've agreed not to get mad. Its just not possible if you really care about someone. [ falliingxagain's advice column | Ask falliingxagain A Question ]
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