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background:im 16/f
bf is 15/m
been dating 1 week short of 6 months.
live 30 mins away, and see each other once on the weekends.
do u think its weird that i told my bf i love him on april 27 and he didnt say it back because he said he wasnt ready.and he still hasnt said anything?
its fine that hes not saying it because i take sayin " i love you" seriously and all.but i just think its weird he hasnt said it.i dont want to push him. but i'd like another guys opinion.
thank you (link)
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so hun im not a guy sorry but i said i love you to my boyfriend for 2 yrs ago now and it was after the first or second week we started dating, we saw each other very little as well, i thought i was stupid bc i had to say it first and it seemed too quick to me but after 2 yrs of being together it doesnt seem like the wrong thing at all. sometimes true love surprises you when you lest expect it.
so i dont think its weird you told him because if you mean it and you know its serious then dont worry you said how you felt and thats good thats very good you can express yourself.
and yes you dont want to rush him but just give him some time and if he says it then go from there and if not he might be not to sure but you just dont want to push him to say it because sweetie youd rather have him say it and mean it then just say it to make you feel better bc that hurts so much more then him just not saying it.
sorry i couldnt give you a guys opinion but i hope i helped you out and just give it some time hun and see what happens!
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When is the right time to have sex?? (link)
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hey hun you cant really answer that bc sweetie you should have it when your ready how will you know your ready, some people know and some dont some ppl miss up and regret it but whenever you do dont dont regret doing it because you wont get anywhere and according to everyone its at different points in your life to do it but you cant tell someone to do it at this time or this. that all depends on your choice you make try to make the right one if you cant then just try to not regret it. hope i helped hun and do what you feel is right sweetie!!! good luck...
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I love the movie the notebook and i want to know of other movies like it! thanks so much (link)
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i dont know but i just wanted to add that i love that movie so much i will never get bored of it and i reccommand it to everyone if they like love stories or not i just love it and want everyone else to :) sorry i didnt answer your question i just made a statement sorry hun but i love the movie...
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13/f
I've had a few boyfriends , but mostly we just hung out & stuff , no real dates.Today , I went on a date with the guy I've been with for like a couple weeks.I was just wonder how anyone else's first or first few dates were ?
Oh and we went to the movies. (link)
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my first date was at the movies as well with me, my date my best friend and his best friend. it was fun we stayed together for almost a yr and then broke up damn i wish it wasnt like that bc i wanted my first date to be with that prince charming and thats it but anyways hopefully you guys stay together for a while and have more awesome dates!!!
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Me & my boyfriend has been having sex, well over 3 months now. I love teasing him, but not prick teasing.
I do like to have sex afterwards.
Such as teasing for a while, getting him real aroused, then having sex.
I love this, it makes me enjoy it so much more.
I need some tricks though, to teasing.
I dont do strip teasing, or blow jobs, or none of that, its disguisting.
Tips please? (link)
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do what he likes the most my boyfriend likes it when i kiss his ear, he gets aroused so try that and try to wear sexy cloths like a short skirt. and let him think hes going to get some and just start like pushing him away and so on...i hope that helped hun its easier when u actually have the guy there and u can do all that with him :) so good luck sry if i wasnt any help...
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I am going to the beach and need to go shopping!!!! Where is a good place to go shopping to get some cute sundresses and shorts and cute summer tops. I don't want anything expensive or name brand like hollister, or aeropostale. (link)
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ross have the most cutest and cheap cloths their tops are like 6-12 dollars and dresses are like 11 and up and the 11dollar ones are cute :) so try that also mervyns but mervyns gets a bit expensive unless your having a blowout sale there like here :) they have cute outfits as well also shirts at target and walmart are usually pretty just not my style but they are cute and cheap good luck hun!!! enjoy your summer!
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alright i gave my bf head yesterday for the first time. we did it multiple times actually. but, i thought when he'd cum, i'd be able to feel/taste it..but i didn't. he said he cummed at least a couple times. is there a reason why i had no idea he did? (link)
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umm you'd know hun especailly if he said "a couple times" umm i dont know what you could say to him now??? but you'd for sure know...
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13/f
***soon to be freshman***
so there is this guy i like. his name is tyler. he flirts a lot. we dont realyl hang out much. but he flirts a lot and i think i do to. we have like 2 weeks of school and i dont know if he likes me or not. and i am really old fashioned and i dont think that girls should ask out guys... what should i do? (link)
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o.k hun lets see i think you guys should keep talking and if you dont feel right asking him out then dont plus at the end of the year most schools have yearbooks and sign his and he'll do the same make sure u give him your number even if he doesnt give you yours. dont think that you have to ask this guy out. if he really likes you he'll do it...unless hes really shy but he cant be if he flirting with you but then again you never know but keep talking and hanging out and so on and just make sure you sign his yearbook :) sounds pretty easy huh but i guess you could say it is and enjoy your summer love!!! good luck...
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15/f.
me and my bf have been dating almost 6 months. and i wanna get him something for our anv.im hoping he'll remember,lol.
anyways. he LOVES music, hes in a band and he never stops listening to it. i thought about making him a CD. but he already has so many and stuff. any other ideas?
thank you! (link)
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How about you just make him that cd because he should like anything you give him first off :) but us girls want everything to be special hehe so think about other things he likes...other music get him that or try to go out to his favorite restaurant and celebrate your anniversary there. if you guys are having good weather go out somewhere like the park and have a pinic with his favorite food not just like sandwichs :) think about things he likes and his favorite hobbies and go with that. Plus you dont
have to get him a gift you guys could just do something special or try to go to where you first met...my 2 yr anniversary is coming and im going to ask for advice on the same thing :) except its been 2 yrs so you'll see my question soon :) but i just need ideas...so good luck and happy anniversary to you both hun!!!
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well today i told my boyfriend that i had sex with another guy back in december when i cheated on him and he called me a slut but then he was the one who had like 25 girlfriends and slept with all of them i feel really bad for sleeping with the person i cheated with. am i a slut or did he make a bad judgement (link)
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hun i think the problem in this relationship is that you guys call and think each other are sluts :) but seriously i dont think you should feel that way about each other but maybe im wrong and also why be in a relationship if you will cheat on the guy your with but maybe that will be a long story so nevermind lets just say no your not a slut because you sleep with one guy, i dont know why people believe that.
[SLUT] a woman considered sexually promiscuous, (having casual sexual relations frequently with [different partners]) and/or a woman prostitute.
Key word right there DIFFERENT not ONE so no hun your not a slut dont let it get to you...
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where can i get semi-slutty clothing for less than 20 bucks? not SUPER slutty, just tops that i can wear this summer when i go out?
also, where could i find a good push-up bra that doesn't have three inches of padding for less than 20 bucks? (link)
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if you go to the mall obviously you'll have to pay a lot so try any store out of the mall. to be honest with you their are some nice shirts not to slutty but summer wearable at walmart, target and ross. they usually have cheap shirts especially ross and they are very CUTE. Also try mervyns but it may be expensive. good luck hun enjoy your summer!!!
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What's the title of the song?
main lyrics:
apple - bottom jeans
and
boots with the fur
the whole club was lookin' at her (link)
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The names called [Low] by [Flo Rida ft. T-Pain] i thats one of my songs i like too :)!!!
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17/m
I get complimented on my eyes pretty often, and I just want to know what to say to the complimenter when this happens. I feel like a jackass just saying thank you.
Any advice is appreciated. (link)
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:D we are on the same boat :) i say thanks and yeah thats it. then i think about it and think should i say something else? but i guess like everyone else says just smile and say thanks and compliment them on something you like that they might be wearing or like a good feature they have. i think maybe they say that bc u probably do have nice eyes and because they want to start like a conversation with you like even if its just you saying that you like their shirt :) so try to compliment them back im going to do the same :)
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An ex-boyfriend who I dated for 2 months when I was 15 is STILL trying to contact me.
It wasn't even a real relationship. There were a few kisses, but nothing sexual and no "I Love You's". But I WAS his first girlfriend so I can kind of see why, but we all kind of know he is still in love with me.
He has tried a few times to contact me through my friend online, saying that he just wants to be friends again. Truth is, I always forget that I ever went out with him and that he even exists. It was such a long time ago (about four years) and never a big deal to me.
I have no interest in speaking to him again. That was YEARS ago and we're not the same people. I don't hold anything against him, we didn't even have anything in common!, but he really creeps me out.
What should I write back to him to set him straight? I don't want to sound like a bitch but I want to make my point. I kind of want him to know that he didn't really mean anything to me and that he should quit being so heartbroken about it and just drop it.
Also, is this something I should tell my boyfriend about?
I probably never mentioned this guy to him, but my boyfriend might be pissed about it. Nevermind, I probably won't tell him if it's not that big of a deal.
Thank you in advance!! (link)
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If you and your boyfriend have been dating for a while now then first off tell him about it. if he can be an understanding boyfriend he will. with your other guy problem hes probably so "attached" to you because you were his first girlfriend and be honest with him and just tell him how you feel wheather you sound like a bitch or not because if you were in his shoes would u want some guy making you wonder how you felt about him. try to tell him i have a boyfriend i like him or love (whichever way you feel) and be nice about it and just tell him the truth and if that still doesnt work just dont do anything sooner or later he will and i promise you this that he will move on. good luck hun, hope it helped!
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how do i know the phone number of the people who call me in private? (link)
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...you cant...if its a house phone thn you can go to your phone company and tell them to set up the phone to where you only take calls with caller ids or the person has to say their name to get a hold of you...if its a cell...ahhh i hate those damn private callers, just dont bother!!! sry i know that didnt help...
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why do i never get asked out?
im not bragging or anythng, but whenever i go out guys always stare at me or smile at me or stuff like that, but they never approach me or talk to me except on rare occasion.
why is this? (link)
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well how about you say screw it and you be the outgoing one (not to outgoing) :) and start up the conversation and see where it goes from their, because a lot of guys are just i wouldnt say dumb but clueless...is that the right word? but hey at least they can smile and stare at you but try talking to them bc by waiting around nothing will happen and just maybe thats what the guys waiting for is an outgoing girl that will come talk to him??? Good luck hun!!!
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what is Holiday Inn's food policty? because after prom, we are hiring a hotel room. If we want pizza or something, do we need to sneak it up because i know some hotels have restrictions. Thanks.
its a UK hotel by the way. and i cant find it anywhere. (link)
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The one that I stayed at in the UK (london) had a restaurant in it like a lot of hotels do. I wouldnt take the chance of sneaking it in. Ask the front desk i guess would be a much better idea. Our room costed about 63GBP's. so happy prom enjoy it hun!!!
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16/f. I'm normally a person who is never really depressed or sad (even on my period), but for the last two weeks at least I have just been feeling like crap all around for no reason. Even when I'm with my friends, I can't seem to have fun like I used to. I'm artistic/perceptive and I've just been in a zombie state for two weeks. It's like all I can listen to is Nirvana, which is not normal for me. I'm a good kid and I get good grades but I have also been incredibly stressed out lately. Do you think my stress is causing this temporary depression? This is really not normal for me at all, and usually I handle stress well. Does anyone have any insight or advice for me? Thank you all so much. (link)
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Ive gone through that stage and my advice hun is to go out and do something for yourself! make yourself feel better about yourself. get out of that staying in my room in the dark stage and go outside with some friends and have a good time. plan something that you guys like to do, for that matter dont even plan it just see where the day takes you. just make sure you dress hott and you feel good about yourself :) seems easy but trust me it should help because being in this stage doesnt do good for people and go out and have fun (not like a movie or something either) good luck hun since memorial weekend is coming go enjoy it!!!
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17/f and he's 17/m. i broke up with my first bf cause i really felt nothing for the 4 months we've dated. it was mostly lust. i felt no love. it was more of a status thing. i did like him though. thus, i didnt feel bad when i broke it off.
well, first, he acted all cool like..whatever, man. i could get 10 chicks better than you in a day. so i'm like..ehh who cares..?
and so now...he's beginning to act like a begging dog. he stares at me with these puppy eyes..and gives me looks and weird gestures..and when he hugs me..he hugs me unusually tight and touches me like when we were in a relationship...its not a friendly hug. which is exactly what we are right now. friends. yet he doesnt understand this...
well, today..he told me that im perfect..and asked me to reconsider my decision..i didnt say anything. and then he told me to tell him whether or not i love him anymore.
honestly, i don't know what to do about him. i like him...but i wouldn't wanna go back. how do i let him down easily? cause i'm not too sure he's being serious either.
thank you! (link)
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so try telling him that their are many fish in the sea and its a great big ocean :) jk how about telling him sorry be kind about it obviously but if you dont like him at all and see this relationship going anywhere tell him you want to stay friends because you werent happy in a relationship with him and you beleive that being friends is what you need to be right now and if later down the road for some reason you even consider dating him again tell him that just for now you want to stay friends and leave it at that. either you'll find someone else or he will but dont make him tag alone for a ride that you dont want him to be on because if he did that to you you would hate it so just be sincere about you wanting to stay friends and good luck...why cant we just find that right guy right away without all the little ex's :) good luck sweetie
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My sweet sixteen is coming up and i need ideas. For games, food, and stuff like that. anything you can say for some help! thank you so much!!
btw im a girl. =]] (link)
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it all depends where you have your sweet 16 for games and food hun mine was in a hotel/casino had all the games their :).
-food try obviously cake or cupcakes, pizza, if bbq or by the pool kinda party try bbq stuff (hotdogs, hamburgers, etc) drinks chips snacks like cookies candy dont forget a vegatable tray umm but hey try calling up one of your close friends and asking her or him to help they are their for a reason hope i could help sorry if i couldnt...and HAPPY SWEET 16!!!
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