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I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do? (link)
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Hey Sweety. Sup?? Well I think that you should tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way. Trust me if he kissed you before than that means he's def. still got feelings 4 you somewhere deep inside. I just think that he's scared to express himself. Good Luck! xo>
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ok so i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months... and last week i went over his house and then we went to the pool..my mom told my dad that he needed to pick me up at 5:30..my dad actually came kinda early at around 4:45!!! so i was out of the pool and me and jared(my bf) were laying on the lawn chair together.. my leg was in between his legs and when i saw my dad i totally freaked out!! 2 days later at nite my bf called and my dad picked up the fone and told me to get off the fone!!! now i can't even talk to my bf!! and my mom is saying things like how my dad doesnt want me to see jared nemore!! and my dad had a chat with me in the car on the way home and he sed i looked like a SLUT!!! i love jared soooo much and i dont think i can take wut my parents a pressuring me to do!! and i cant just not talk to jared!!!
please please please help me!!!!
thanks!! (link)
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Hey Sweety. Well it kind of seems like your parents are forcing you to stop talking to Jared which is complete and total BULLSHIT. If I were in your situation I would tell my dad exactly how I feel. I mean if you really love Jared than your dad should be able to understand and put w.e. grudge he has against Jared up his a**. lol. If your parents still try to break you two up than I would invite him to dinner to your house and during the whole dinner talk about all of Jared's good qualities and how much you love eachother. It depends how old you are but I would even through in a little kiss on the lips just for effect. The only reason I would invite him to dinner would be to show your parents that he's not going anywhere whether they like it or not. You should also consult your dad about the whole *Slut* thing because that can be taken to heart easily. I mean personally I don't believe that any 1 in your immediate family should be using those types of words, especially your own father. Tell him what the definition of a slut is and explain to him that your not 1, because you have 1 bf and you stick to him like glue. Don't be afraid to consult your parents about these things because once you get everything out in the open maybe they'll see your point of view on these matters. good luck. Xo. Rate me~~
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i wanna make my boyfriend know that i like him. like i dont want him to break up with me cuz i feel like i havent been the best. and two other girls like him and i personally think they're prettier than me =/.. and i just really dont wanna loose him..like i feel like telling him i love him isnt enough but i dont wanna sound corny if i say more..help! (link)
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Hey. Sup? Wow to be truthful w. you I don't think that you should say anything to your boyfriend. I think that he likes you 4 you or else take it from me he would have moved on a long time ago. Why should you convince some1 that they have to be w. you? If he really likes you he'll know that you like him and it'll be a mutual understanding between the 2 of you. Those other 2 girls you were talking about can go f*** themselves because **HE'S YOUR MAN** lol. You should never bum yourself out and say that you think some1 is prettier/ better than you. If you think that you are the best and prettiest and dress and act lke you are> your bf will think that your the sexiest and prettiest girl he's ever laid his horney eyes on. hehe. I think that you should have self confidence and than the world will be confident in you. Just when you wake up in the morning say to yourself "I'm the sexiest and most beautiful girl that my bf will ever find" and trust me you'll feel better just thinking about it. I hope that you and your bf stay together for a while. Gl. xo>
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I love this guy and he loves me but where not together anymore but I have to make a chosie its either I move away and go to another school or stay here untill I am done with high school and the only thing that is keeping me here is my ex and my chruch but I love him and I want to make it work with my ex please help me I don't no what to do help? (link)
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Hey. Sup? Well if you love him and he loves you than why aren't you 2 together? I think that you should def. confront him about how you feel and see if there's any chance that you 2 can get back together. If he tells you that he really wants to be w. you than I think you should stay in your home town and work through the hard times w. him. If he tells you that he doesn't want to be w. you or is uncertain if he wants to be w. you than you can go to the other school and start fresh. To be honest w. you I wouldn't base my life on what some guy thinks of me> I would make the decision depending on what I think is best for myself. Isn't there a reason that he's your ex -bf? You know the saying that goes something like "Never date your ex's more than once because there's a reason things didn't work out the first time around." Do you really want to be with someone that you've broken up w. before? Well thats 4 you 2 think about but I hope you make the right decision. Gl. xo>
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ok im 15 years old and my boyfrind is 17 we have been together since march 3 2004 and we are still together a week ago i went over to his house like i usually do around 9:00 and his mom was leaving to work we took his little brother swimming after we got out the pool his brother feel asleep on me so we went in his moms room to watch movies and then we started kissing one thing led to another and then we were having sex maybe an hour had past and someone started knocking on the door once i heard the knocking i jumped up grabbed my clothes and ran into the bathroom when chris(my boyfriend) opened the door he had already put on his trunks evnthough his mom hasnt told me anything i feel really uncomfortable when i go over or when we go and eat dinner with his family what should i do? what should i tell his mom?
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Hey. Sup? Well if I were in your situation I really wouldn't say/ do anything about what happened. I mean it's not like your boyfriend's mother literally caught you guys on the bed having sex, she just came home @ a bad time. For all you know she probably doesn't even suspect that you guys were doing anything inappropriate. She might just think that your boyfriend was taking a leek and the door bell rang so he pulled on his trunks and went to answer the door. lol. Don't stress yourself out about the situation, but if you still feel uncomfortable you should talk to your boyfriend about it and see what he says. I'm sure that his mom still respects and cares for you either way. Gl. Xo>
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What should i get my boyfriend for our 6 month anniversary & for his birthday? (different months)
hes turning 19 in september...our 6 month is in august 21st
i rate 5's no doubt about it (link)
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Hey.sup?? Well I think that 4 his birthday you should get him some cologne. I know that you might not think that cologne is the most unique choice but w. the cologne you should get/make him a card that says "This Scent turns me on" and a little kiss next to it to symbalize something.lol. For your anniversery I think you should get tickets 2 go somewhere together that way he can enjoy the present and spend time w. you @ the same time. Gl. Xo>
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what are some really good, smudge proof, long lasting black eyeliners?
and what is a good mascara that you can layer and it gets like clumpy and cakey? i like that look.
and what are some tips for putting eyeliner on tje upper eyelid? i've never done it before.
and one more question, is liquid eyeliner really worth the hassle, and if so could you give me some good ones?
thanks. i rate 5's (link)
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Hey sup?? For most of my make up I use "Clinique." I think that they have really good black eyeliners but there not water proof though. They also have a really good mascara called Dramatic Eyes.. it comes in a dark green case, it really does work wonders.lol. Now going to the application of eye liner.
Step 1. Focus on a certain spot on the mirror
Step 2. gently write on your eyelids focusing on the space closest to your lashes.
Step 3. Rewrite it a little darker once you've aprroved of the light copy.
Idk if that made sense but i hope so.lol.
I wouldn't even bother w. liquid eyeliner because its way too messy.
Good luck and I hope everything goes well. Xo.
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Ok, I've been going to private school for 9 years, and for the first time I will be going to public. I'm really freaked out. Is public school really as bad as everyone says? I mean do people like actually get beaten up and raped? and how do I protect myself? How do I know who to hang out with? Please help me. (link)
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Hey Swty. Well going from private to public school is really not as harsh as everyone makes it sound. Private school (depending on which 1 you went to) has it own rules and regulations and dress policy. Public Schools are a little more leniant on behavior and attitude adjustements. I can almost 100 % guarantee you that you won't get raped.lol. I've been going to public school 4 a while and 4 the most part people are pretty friendly. I would try to become friends w. the popular people in your school because than they can introduce you 2 more people> It's like skipping a step. Another really good way to meet new people is 2 join a team like track, cheerleading, softball...w.e. floats your boat. You can really become close to people through sports and enjoy and get good exercise from them too. It depends where your going to Public School but maybe there's a club near by that you can go to w. a couple of your old friends just to meet some ppl. You never know who you might meet tht might show up in your Public School. I hope I helped w. your dilemma. Xo. Rate me~~
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I really think my life is worthless. I'm nothing special and i feel like such a waste. The only person who i can talk to, who keeps me going, who i have spent 3 years of my life being dedicated to, and loving .. could care less about me. I
f i can't have him i don't want any body else. I feel no point in living. I truely love him and he's the only reason i get up in the morning. I feel like just ending my life now, but i could no way do it, and i would never. This sounds immature and child-ish. But it's not. My feelings will never change.
What can i do to make everything better? (link)
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Hey swty! Well I know from personal experiences how it feels like to not want to wake up in the morning because you don't want to face reality. Even though this person seems to mean a lot to you right now he's honestly not worth your time, effort, and especially your life. Every minute that goes by you probably think about how you guys used to be so happy together..but is he thinking about you?? It's not worth wasting your time and thinking about him if he's not thinking about you. The reality is he's probably trying to get a dumb young grl thts a complete and total skank to experience his sexual fantasies with. Your just lucky tht you didn't stay w. him or he would have used you like most guys use most grls. I'm sure tht your really pretty and can get cute guys to like you> you should def. open up your options and look around. Trust me I always say tht "everything happens 4 a reason." If you guys don't end up together than tht just means tht there's something better 4 you in your future. Try to not get attached to the guys tht you probably will date in the future there honestly not worth your tears and heart aches. Abuse them, Use them, and than Lose them>> I hope I helped w. my advice and cheered you up a bit. TRy doing something fun w. your friends tht will get your mind off of tht guy. Xo. Gl!!! Rate-me~~
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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up on August 17th. I want to do something really special for him. Any suggestions are appreciated! (link)
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Hey..sup? Well I was thinking maybe you could throw him a surprise b-day party. It really doesn't have to be this huge party but maybe something short n sweet w/ his close friends would b cute> Good Luck> Xo. Rate me!!
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OK my cousin is pretty much a slut. she's 11. she wheres really tight shirts that go up past her bellybutton along with a really short skirt. She wears VERY thick padded bras so she uses a C cup. When someone calls her a slut she giggles and says "nuh uh..!" And I'm gettin sick of it because my friends are like "how does it feel to have an 11 yr old have bigger boobs than you" and honestly i really dont care because im not fake but no one realizes that. and on top or it, she brags about gettin slapped in the ass by other guys and she shaves which i dont think she should be doing when she's 11 even though its not my choice. What can do to help her without gettin her upset?? (link)
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Hey sup? While I was reading your ? I was wondering what her parents think of the situation> I def. know that if I had a daughter I wouldn't let her out of the house wearing practically nothing. If I were you I would maybe confront her about it because she needs to hear the truth sooner or later> If you decide tht you don't want to upset her maybe you should secretly tell her mother and her own mom could talk about the way shes been acting and dressing lately> tht way you wouldn't even be involved. You could also tell her tht it gives you a bad name to be seen w/ her due to her appearance. Good luck w/ everything n I hope it turns out ok> Xo. Rate me!!
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well my hair is about a little longer than my shoulders, and it is VERY thick and sorta wavy. now i have been wanting a perm for awhile now, but everyone says it will look bad b/c of my thick hair! but i really want to get it! what should i do!?????? pls help! (link)
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Hey Swty..sup> Well I know that a perm seems like something tht you really wanna get riite now buh trust me you'll regret it later. First off when you get ur perm done it'll burn your hair and fry it to a crisp. Your hair will look dead and life-less:( If I were you I would just leave your hair the way it is. ( My hair is wavy too but when I want it straight I straighten it, and when I want it curly I use L.a Looks Gell and I scruntch it) I think tht wavy hair is actually the best to have because you can do anything to it really. Gl and if you decide to get your perm done neway I hope everything goes well. Xo> Rate me!!
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im so scared, okay in a few months im getting a tonsiectimy(sp?) im getting my tonsils out. and im going to be on my period during it!! im really secretive about my periods..can they operate on me while im on it? i have to get anisteshia(sp?) that will put me to sleep (link)
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Hey, sup? Well I had my tonsils taken out two years ago and even though they put you 2 sleep it really doesn't affect your menstrual flow @ all. I think you should be more worried over the fact that you won't be able to talk for a week n hald minimum> lol. Hey look on the bright side..I hope you like ice cream cause you'll need to eat a lot of it. Gl. Xo.
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alright, this is really confusing but ill rate really high. alright, i told my friend bobby that i liked my bf garrett ALOT! so bobby asked me on a scale 1-10 how much i liked him, and i said 8. so then he was talking to garrett and he told him i only liked him a little bit. and that i gave him a 4! how dumb is that. y would he say that? so last night garrett told me that bobby said that and i was really mad. i mean i told garrett that that wasnt wat i said but i didnt tell him the REAL number. so now i think he is mad. i want to tell him wat my number really was but i dont know how to bring it up or how to say it....im so confused....HELP ME HELP ME HELP ME PLEASE! (link)
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Hey, sup? Well I think you should just tell Garett what the actual # was, because he'll be relieved to hear that it was much greater than a 4. About your other friend who told Garatt that you said it was only a 4 is an idiot~ Just learn not to trust him w. anything> Truthfully mayb this other friend likes you and wants to sabatosh the relationship you have w. Garatt in order to get w. you. JUst some food for thought> But i def. think you should tell your bf the truth. Good Luck:) Xo.
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Theres this guy at my camp (teen) lol, and hes black, Im white. And hes really nice and sweet, funny, cute, hot, and i think its true love ive only known him for 3 weeks and i wont see him ever again after friday. I sad and confused i know its love not just a crush because you feel kinda sad and happy at the same time and you cant eat or sleep and you want to cry type deal. How do i get his email or IM (i cant call him) without sounding like an idiot and how can i tell if he likes me or not without sending a messanger to ask him? please help me im really sad that ill never see him again and ill never know how he feels about me.
He use to be mean to me and now hes nice and sorta quiet.
ill rate ya if the advice is good. (link)
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Hey, sup? Its really surprising, but I actually went through the same thing your going through right now. Honestly if i were you I would approach him in person and let him know how you feel. I understand that you might be shy and a little embarrased, but I'm also aware that he'd think that you really had guts to tell him face to face. If he tells you that he feels that same than def. exchage sn's and so forth..If he says that he doesn't feel the same towards you than: Option A> You could tell him that your fine w/ being friends and still get his sn. Option B> Avoid him for the rest of the time you'll be in camp. I mean it seems like your leaving soon anyway. Good luck and I hope everything turns out the way you want it 2. Xo
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ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!
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Hey.sup? Wow I really don't think that yu should fool around w. anyone without a condom> Its really not safe~ If I were you I would def. have taken the day after pill(which you can get @ any Plan Parenthood) the day right after you have sex. It's a little too late now so just incase maybe you should schedule an appointement @ your local gnecologists office for a *check up*. Definently Pee on the Strip today/tom and see what is says. If it turns out "positive" than thats a matter of if you want the child or not..but if its "negetive" than you could release a sigh of relief. I would still go to the gyno. though just for a check up to see if you contracted any diseases. Even though you've been w. your bf for a long time you never know what kind of diseases he had before he met you. Good luck w. everything and I hope it turns out ok. Xo
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I'm 16 and I have recently gotten mixed up in the dating scene again. I've been staying single for a few months to try and sort out my priorities so that the next time I decide to start dating again I will end up with a guy that will treat me right. Well that day has come but its certainly not as easy as I thought it would be thats for sure! One guy I've known since I was a little kid, my mom knows his parents and she likes the idea of me dating him. Plus we've liked eachother for over two years and have both are single now. We've talked on the phone alot and hung out almost every other day. We've kissed and we have so much in common and he is really sweet. But some things about him I'm unsure of. I don't trust him that easily because some things he says seem like lines and he hasn't ever brought up the subject of us dating or anything so I'm not sure if he just wants to mess around, cuz I'm not up for that. The other guy I've met a few days ago. He just recently moved here and the minute our eyes met we clicked. We have alot of things in common, his parents already met me and love me, my mom knows about him and is willing to give him a chance, and we've already talked of dating and he's all up for it and so now it is my desicion. And there lies the problem. I like both guys and I have major chemistry with both. My mom wouldn't mind me dating either and now I'm stuck in a tricky situation. The first guy is from my school and I really want to give him a chance cuz I like him and if I turn him down and date the other guy he might feel played. And visa versa. Please help me. My heart is torn between these two guys and I have no idea which way to go!
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hey.sup? Well I honestly do think that you've been put into a really tricky situation. I think that instead of waiting for the 1st guy to bring up the dating topic maybe you should ask him if he's looking 4 a serious relationship.If he replies with a no, than you don't need the 1st guy anyway. If he says he wants a serious relationship than you should debate which 1 you want to date. Honestly since they both seem like they have good personalities I would go on looks next/ which 1 looks better?? because even though you might tell yourself that looks don't matter you know that deep down inside they do~ The 1st guy seems like he has the benefit of the doubt because you've known him 4 4ever and he attends your school so its easy access to see eachother. Than again the 2nd guy seems more interesting because you don't know anything about him so you guys can spend a lot of time *getting to know eachother* lol. Know that you know what I think its up 2 u to decide..goodluck xo.
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ok this might be long but people PLEASE bare with me i need your advice. ok now.
im a kinda girl that gos thru boyfriends alot like jumps from one to one (no im not a slut) ok well last year in school i started going out with a kid i really liked him not only was he my first kiss but he was kinda perfect. he was shy tho but it was kinda good since he wasnt annoying you kno? and sometimes he couldnt hang out and all. and we were on and off for like ever. and it seemed i was always the one to dump him and he was always the one to ask me back out after all the times i dumped him. i guess i kinda got selfish and i heard some other kid liked me that i went out with before. he was also hot and called you alot. so i dumped my old boyfriend for him and went out with him. everything was alright until like i dont kno i heard he didnt liek me anymore and all. and he just is such a jerk now! and i really want my old boyfriend back but i dont kno if i should ask him back out and how to do it. just please help i need advice.
ps. please dont just tell me to talk to him and all. i need help weather to ask him out again and how to stuff like that
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Hey,sup? I think that you really should have never broken up with your ex- bf to begin w. because even though he's shy he seems like a sweet kid, and your current bf seems like an ass hole. If I were you I would def. see if your ex-bf is mad @ you because it is possible that he could be holding a grudge since you did drop him flat on his face. Afterwards you should start w. an apology saying how you never really knew how much he meant to you until he was no longer yours. You should def. tell him that you still have feelings 4 him and ask him if he feels the same way. If he saus yes than well you know the rest>wink wink.lol. But if he says that he doesn't you should try to become close friends w. him again and build up his trust in you. Afterwards you should try to see if the relationship can further itself in any way> if not I'm sorry to say that you should move on. I'm sure there will b plenty of guys in the future that will want you and you shouldn't dwell on this particular one. I know that saying that is a lot harder than actually doing it, but remember that no guy is worth your tears and agony. There all the same, they think w. their diicks/
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