Okay... Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months... it will be 3 months on the 6th of january..! Well see my friend and her boyfriend have been going out for not even 1 month and they have already kissed (tongue) and held hands and more! Me and my boyfriend have kissed but it seems that we are never alone because of this girl that likes him... she is always there, she won't just leave me and him alone for just a little bit! What should i do? it is bothering me so much that my friends are afraid of me breaking up with my boyfriend over this girl always being there!
Maybe you could talk to the girl, and ask why you can't have come alone time with him. Don't be mean though, because that will probably come off the wrong way. Try to hang out with him outside of places that you always see her. For instance, if you always see her at Safeway (just an example!), maybe you should hang out at Albertsons. Just go to a place where you don't think you would see her. Also, maybe you too could hang out in the house, not just in public places. Hope I helped!
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Hey!I am about 5'6" or 5'7" and around 140 and 145 pounds and I want to lose maybe 10 or 15 pounds..if I do yoga and crunches will it help me any?If it won't what can I do to help me lose the weight?Thanks!
Watch how many calories you eat in a day. I am in exactly the same boat with you. I am trying to lose about 20 pounds, and I have lost 2 pounds in one week from doing a lot of situps, exercise videos, and eating less. Still eat healthy, though. Instead of spending my whole day on the computer now, I do an hour of intense workout and another hour of stretching while I'm watching tv. Another good thing to do is, if you drink soda a lot, replace one can/bottle a day with a glass of water. That saves you at least 150 calories for something else. I also am eating a lot less snack food, like chips and cookies and chocolate. I also dance and play sports to keep myself physically fit. I go jogging a few times a week with my best friend for at least a half an hour each time. It really helps burn calories. This way, I get to be social and exercise at the same time. Hope I helped!!
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Well my sister for the first time met my boyfriend and then when we were all talking (my sister, my boyfriend, and me) he touched my hand, *not a big deal right?* well to my sister it was so. . . that night my sister went on aim and told him not to touch my hand infront of her my sister is 28 and shes acting WAY over protective!! help please what do i say to her to not make her feel im making my self like "older" then her!!!!!! i'll rate high
Tell her that you think she shouldn't be too overprotective. Say that you really love how she cares for you, but you do have your own life and maybe she shouldn't be so centered on it. Hope I helped!
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well i like this boy right and he's spanish and i have no problem with that b/c he''s really sweet and cute. but all my friends do b/c im like white and we're totally diff and some of my friends are sort of racist. i don't know what to do b/c i rlly like this boy...what should i do
Follow your feelings. Don't give into your friends, because that's basically peer pressure. Be who you want to be, do what you want to do. Don't be who your friends want you to be, and do what your friends want you to do. If they don't want you to be yourself, maybe they aren't the right friends. Hope I helped.
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Ok i am DAting this guy and i am like the kind of girl who likes to take things slow and build up are relationship first and on or third date hoe is already wanting to kiss me i dont want to hurt his feelings but i do want him do be my boyfriend _HELP_
Tell him flat out. "I don't want to go that fast, maybe we could take it a little slower? I'm just not used to going this fast..maybe we could wait a little while until we kiss." Or something like that. Hope I helped!
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well, my hair is straight, but the ends go all retarded and wavy and this totally kills my hair. does anybody kno why this happens and how i can get rid of the waviness? thanx lotss
Go to a stylist or a salon and ask them what to do. You could straighten it once in a while, or go all curly! But don't overdo the heat on your hair, because that will fry it. Just do what you want with your hair, and the people that will really know what to do are the people in salons. Hope I helped.
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ok I go to church with one of my friends, and there is this guy there lets call him "mark" well I have thought "mark" was cute for awhile but i never knew what his name was or anything i just knew he was cute. Well at like the middle of November I became friends with his girlfriend, but I have never seen her in person, I only talk to her on Windows[MSN]Messenger. And the other day I introduced myself to "mark" cause she was always telling him about me but he couldnt figure out who I was so I just told him, I was like "hey im (so and so)" and well the other day one of my guy friends that also goes to that church was saying that another one of our friends,that doesnt go to that church, is goin to try to "steal" "Mark's" girlfriend away from him. So is it wrong for me to like "mark" and be friends with his girlfriend? sorry if this does not make sense
There's nothing wrong with being friends with his girlfriend. If someone tries to steal his girlfriend, then he may just need a friend for a while after she is gone. You can still like him, but I would say don't be all flirty at first, just be a supportive friend. If you just act like a normal friend, he may notice you and start to like you. Just wait, time will tell. Even if someone tries to steal his girlfriend, that doesn't mean she will acually leave "Mark". Hope I helped!
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ok well im 13/m and i have feelings for my friend. The problem is that she has been going out with her boyfriend for a long time (year and like a month) andso i've been trying to be there for her and be her friend but now her and her bf are going through some rough times and she doesn't think he likes her anymore. I want to make a move but think that might be taking advantage of her and her situation. Should i go for it? Is it taking advantage of her current situatuion?
I think you shouldn't ruin their relationship. If they're going through some rough times, wait it out. I think it would be taking advantage of her in her situation. Don't pressure her. Maybe you could find out his realy feelings, and help her through it, rather than taking advantage of her. Hope I helped.
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About a month ago, I got asked to go to a concert. Well, this guy's mother asked my mom if I wanted to go and bring a friend. Our parents are like best friends, so that's why he didn't ask me in person. And I have no problem with that. So I invited a friend to go with me. We had a really good time. My friend and I were the only two girls there. All the guys that were there were really nice to us. There were seven of them. He picked us up and brought us home too. He was really nice to us. Anyways, the guy that we went with- I don't like him as a crush, but we're friends. He has a girlfriend, but it wasn't at the time of the concert. I was just wondering what that means. Like, are we just friends, or more. I think that we're just friends, but what are some other opinions.
P.S. I've been over to his house a lot to swim, he's been over to mine for lots of stuff too. But our parents are really good friends and so are our sisters.
Well, it sounds like you too are pretty similar. It all depends on your feelings though. If he has a girlfriend, don't try to ruin their relationship for something that may not be real. Let your feelings tell you what you really feel. I would help more if I could, but only your feelings can tell you what you are feeling. Hope I helped.
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Im already having problems with my life right now but this just makes it worst!
Everyone has a girl in their school who is pretty, smart, friendly, flirty, somewhat popular.
My problem that I need advice on is how do I become that girl?
This girl, her names megan, shes short, blonde hair, pretty, smart, friendly, sorta popular, has an annoying voice sometimes, really flirty, talks about sex` bi (likes chicks n guys) a stoner but you cant tell.
She can become friends with anyone and they love her, she can start a conversation with anyone adn they talk back
Im not jealous of her bc she told me Im pretty too but I just cant be like her, I wanna find a way to be like her and I need real advice -not just talk more or flirt more- but real advice
So if anyone can help me out Id love that so please help me out Im stuck with this girl till Im outta school so I really need this advice
Please and Thank you
Find who you really are, don't try to be someone else. Also, become friends with her. She will notice you if you do all these little things like lend a pencil or open a door for her. Wait to see what happens. You don't need to "talk more or flirt more" to be that girl. Be yourself, and everyone will see you shine. Hope I helped.
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Dear Advicenators,
One and a half years ago my brother *Henry* was diagnosed with hemophilia, which means that his blood does not clot normally. If he gets a cut, it's really hard to stop the bleeding. If he loses too much blood, he could die if the blood is not replenished.
Henry and I always liked to spend time together (he's two years older than me). We'd ride bikes to the park and shoot basketball hoops. He couldn't be too active, but he was my best friend and I felt safe around him.
Anyway, he lost a lot of blood one day, and was taken to the doctor for another blood injection. The horrible part was, that the person who had donated that blood was carrying the AIDS virus. The doctor proclaimed that Henry now had AIDS.
Henry is 15 years old, is in diapers, and must be fed through an IV or a tube. He has about 4 months left to live. My entire family is sad, and angry about it. My parents must monitor him all the time, so I always have to get a ride to my volleyball games. All three of us never have extra time, because we are always there for Henry and when he must be hospitalized. I had to drop out of volleyball for him.
Henry has been the butt of the jokes from the kids at school lately. They make fun of the fact that he has been in diapers. They are unaware of the fact that his brain is slowly being devoured, and he can't feed himself. The AIDS is tearing the whole family apart. But luckily, my friends are there to console me, but I always feel resentment towards the cruel kids at school. Can I please have some suggestions on what to do about that?
Anyway, as I am spending my last Christmas with my brother, I have no idea what present to give to him. Could I please have some ideas? I want it to be special and something he'll remember when he goes to Heaven.
Also, how can I comfort / cheer up my parents? They have been having lots of mood swings lately and have been very stressed.
Any input and prayer would be great. Sorry about the length.
Well, I will pray for your brother, and I am very sorry about all this. Don't pay attention to the other kids, because they feed off the reaction you give them. The more you ignore it, the less fun it is for them. For the Christmas present, get a bunch of pictures of you and him, and put them all in one big scrapbook. This will remind him of all the fabulous times in his life that he has had, especially if they are of you and him playing a game or something like that. For your parents, do extra things around the house for them. If your mom is really sad and goes to do the dishes or laundry or some sort of normal chore for her, pitch in and say you'll do it so she can go get some sleep or relaxation. This will make her realize your effort in comforting her. And don't forget about your dad too. Do the same thing for him. They will definetely take notice and smile every time you help them through these times. Like I said before, I will pray for your family and your brother, and that his last few months are cherished. Make it so that he will remember how great his family is. Hope I helped.
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Ok..this may be long..I go to school (I'm in 8th grade) like everyone else and I hang out w/ my little group consisting of 6 people including myself. Well, one of the girls is completley attatched to me even though she is annoying and I don't want to be her friend. Well she invites herself over and does w/e she pleases and my mom does not like her or her family at all! Well how do I turn her down in a nice way and move away slowly? (that's just my first problem) Then there is another girl that I absolutley adore! We are just getting close b/c my first friend talks bad about her constanly I never wanted to be friends with her...well anyway I want to be her friend and be close with her but not the immature childish one...any suggestions on how to solve this? Thanks alot!
Talk it over with her. Find ways. Think this through, and you should be able to come up with a solution. For the first girl, tell her straightforward that it's not okay that she brings herself to your house without saying anything to you. Write a letter, talk it over on email or IM, just find a way to get it through to her. For the girl that you adore..just stay being her friend. Talk to her daily and just try to get to know her better so you can become a better friend of hers. She'll notice eventually how cool you think she is and how badly you want to be friends with her. Hope I helped.
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I don't know why but it seems like everytime I am at my dads he drinks. And when we are at some family get together my step-mom and my dad both drink and get "tipsy". I hate it when they do this and it pisses me off. I hate it. I tell them that it is stupid for them to do this but they never listen and it makes me frustrated and they act like idiots and it embarrases me to even think that I am related to him and her. It is so embarrasing sometimes, I feel like i am about to cry. What can I do to help me persuade them to stop drinking so much and just have a good time with out the liquor? I would really like to get some advice.
Show them the damage they are doing to themselves and everyone around them. Drinking can cause serious brain problems, and more. You are at high risks of so much when you drink a lot. Find some things they can go to to help themselves. Maybe they could go to a clinic or something. Also, show your mom what he is doing, and just bring it to her attention the problems going on in his household. Hope I helped.
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My best friend and I like the same guy. The thing is, he is dating my best friend. But she and he both know that he likes me also. He wants to be with both of us, but I don't want to hurt my best friend so I think I should back off. What should I do?? Thanks!
Just wait. Don't lose a best friend for a guy. If he is supposed to be with her, you'll find someone else. If it doesn't work out, see if he is the guy for you. Hope I helped.
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m/16 Hi, ive been dating my girlfriend for 5 months and a few weeks and her parents are, sorry to say, PISSING ME THE **** OFF. They wont EVER let her see me but maybe 1 every two weeks or so, and it kills me cause i never get ANY alone time with her, and the time we do get to spend together is with friends cause her parents wont let her over to my house alone. Anyone know of anything I can do to get their parents to let her do somthing, or anything i can tell my girl to say? help please!
Talk to your gf about the situation. See if she feels the same way. The only way a relationship works out is if you two communicate. Prove to her parents that you aren't going to do anything that they wouldn't approve of if they're alone. Don't sneak away together, because that could result in not seeing her at all. It wouldn't be worth it. Talk it over with you gf and her parents, arrange times that you can see her alone. Hope I helped.
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If I walked on the tredmill for an hour every morning, didn't eat as much and ate healthy, and did crunches and excercises, do you think I would get skinnier within a month? Thanks.
Yes you would. I have been walking 3 times a week, for about an hour or so, for a few weeks now. I have also been eating less, and doing crunches and exercising. I lost a full pound in the first 2 days. In these few weeks, I have lost a totaly of 10 pounds. But I also dance, play soccer, and softball, and I do extra at home. For sure, you would lose weight in one month, but I can't say exactly how much, because for each person it's different. Hope I helped.
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Hi, last year I read a short story in our 8th grade literature textbook called "Charles". I really loved the ending and the story itself, and I was wondering if anyone that has read it, knows the author of it. All I remember is that she was female, and she has written a lot of books. I've been searching for hours, and can't seem to find anything. Please help!
I read that story this year...and I loved it too! I'll see what I can do. I think the authors last name was Hughes. I can't quite remember though. I can always find out for you...because I can jsut ask my teacher when we get back from break. If you want to ask me more questions, ask dancindanger. I will find out who the author is, but the only way I can tell you is if you ask me another question in January. Hope I helped.
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Im a 15 male.. and im gothic, is it wierd that i wear black nailpolish? give me some details and convince me if it is..
It's your personality. Be what you want. Don't listen to others. Though it can sometimes be a bit hurtful when others look at you different, that means they aren't people that would be good for you. It's not weird. It's just you. Hope I helped.
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I like this guy and i thought he liked he but yester day he called me and he said'' I need advice, i like this girl and i think she likes me ... but do you think i should ask her out?'' well i thought he was talking about me, but then i found out it was this other girl. i dont know if he acutually likes her or not because she is not his type at all. Should I just let it go or should i say something?
Talk to him. Are you really close friends? Find out about the girl, and ask him what she finds in her that is similar to him. If they are nothing alike...he will at least be thinking it when you ask him that question, even if he doesn't say it. He may be embarassed too. Hope I helped.
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ok my family n friends live in connecticut b/c i moved a few years ago... we go there every xmas... im gonna be seeing my bff who i havent seen for like a year... i need a REALLY good xmas gift! im going to be seeing a few of my other really good friends so does anyone have any ideas about what i should get? please answer asap im leaving in like 2 days! thanx so much!... i rate
Well, get her something that you know she really enjoys. A great book, her favorite bands CD(that she doesn't already have), a necklace, just get something for them that you know they would really love. if you have some pictures of you and her from a few years back, put them together in a little book and give them to her. She would probably love that, I still have the one my best friend gave me before she moved. Hope I helped.
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