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I am fun and can give good advise wothout laughing. It may not always work but I will still do my best to anser honostly and fully. I have honestly had my fair share of problems in life and can use experience to anser problems.

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for around 2 years now i have had this white stuff in my knickers.. what is it and what dus it mean??
My mum started her period when she was sixteen ad im 13 so i neva thought i meant i was gonna started my period soon

Don't worry, that stuff will be there for a long time even after your pereod. It just means that your growing up. Good luck
Daisyswim

Well my bf of over six months is leaving for the summer. Im not gonna be able to talk to him or see him all sumer till he comes back. So I'm thinking do we stay together or should I just tell him well see what happens when he gets back (not necciseraly breaking up)or should we just stick it out all summer and stay together. we both love each other very much Im confussed what should we do? I rate 5's!

I live in a different state then my best friend, and we still managed to be good friends. One summer won't hurt and you will stay together if you are in love. Stay together, when he gets back he will have tons to tell you and you'll have a good new topic to talk about especially how much he missed you. Hope it works out between you too good luck
Daisyswim

there is this girl named Courtney and she as a crush on my boyfriend. Well he has track with her and sits with her at lunch sometimes. Well she knows me and him are going out and she flirted with him right infront of me yesterday and then has the nerve to talk shit about me and give me dirty looks! Well me and her got into it but it was only words being said. My boyfriend yelled at me for yelling at her! He said that if I hit her at all that me and him are done! We I don't know what I should do.. its complicated! Please help!

.: Miss Confused :.

It seems like every girl I know who's name is Courtney is a witch. Tell your boyfriend not to hang around her. She has no right to flirt with your man. I don't blame you about wanting to punch her, I would too, but don't do it. It will give her plesure to see you mad. Good luck
Daisyswim

i dont really no what category this should be under,but anyways...

My legs are sort of sensitive and get dry a lot,does anyone no what shaving cream that would pervent dry legs?

Shaving cream with moistuiser in it. I personally don't mush like shaving cream so after words you can put loition on your legs.

lord i dont no what to do. my dad is prejudice and theres this black boy i love half to death and he likes me i want to go out wit him but my dad said he'll kill me and that boi and i was like is love worth gettin killed over please tell me what i can do..?

No one can stop love reach for the stars and follow your heart!
Daisyswim

im asking this question for my friend...

one year ago, when my friend and her family were away, some little girl was walking through the alleyway. my friend's neighbor's dog is really big and scary, so the little girl ran, and jumped my friend's fence to hide from the dog, and as a result, broke her arm and needed surgery.

one year later, my friend's parents get a letter in the mail saying that they will be getting sued because it happened on their property. IT'S NOT EVEN THEIR FAULT. can they fight against this?

As long as there is a fire there's a fight. Sounds to me like it was no one's fault. The dog scared the girl, the dog was being a dog, the girl jumped the fence because she was scared, and it happened on your friends property. Tell your friend that maybe they should just talk with the parents of that little girl, no one should be sued for this, Best of luck
Daisyswim

Okay...I have alot of friends. But, there is this boy that i have been friends with since like forever. But whenever he has a gf we dont talk at all. it's like we dont even know each other. If i talk to him, or call him his gf will think i'm stocking him or i like him. Someone help me....What should I do? If someone could help that would be great. Thanx

Do you have fealings for him? I have plenty of friends who are guys and when ever they have a gf I don't talk to them much. People always say your going out, even if yout not. It's really stupid if people think that. If is gf thinks you like him let her, what dose it matter to you. Hope things go well for you,
Daisyswim

ya ok at the begining of the year i went out wit this kid, he was really nice and everything but i dumped him for another guy after a couple months of going out. well im single now and i like the kid again, alot but i kno he doesnt really wanna go out with me again cuz i hurt him and now he's a lot more popular with the girls then wen i was wit him. should i still go for him and try to convince him im not gunna hurt him again or should i just let it go?

Everyone gets hert once in a whiel in a relationship. If you still like him tell him your sorry about breaking up and that you would like to make it up to him. If he doesn't forgive you then it's his loss, you can move on and set your sights on someone else. If he dose good, you have your man. If you want to break-up again one day do it gentally and try to stay friends. Hope i helped
Daisyswim

ok...i went out with this guy for a while on and off then finally we just stopped going out...then one of my friends went out wit him and i wasnt that comfortable at first but then got used to it but still thoguht about him..they broke up for a couple days and i started liking him again..but they got back together..and i still have feelings for him...whut should i do!?

Tell your friend the truth. She will understand. If you still have fealings for him then you need to resolve them befor it gets out of hand. If he still has fealings for you maybe you need to discuse them. Your friend will understand, but just remember

Guys never
Friends 4 ever
Daisyswim

Okay heres the deal...
Ive been dating this GREAT guy i mean he's perfect..But im not exactly the most loyal person..So over spring break i lost mah virginity 2 some one else..Yeah i kno its bad and n a way i regret it..But the otha guy well call him Will is soo hot, popular, cute, sweet, and hes jus a lil freak and we mesh good togetha. PLus i think (i know) i could really stop my game for Will which would be a HUGE achievement for me!! Now on 2 mah boifriend again well call him Jay. Jay is okay lookin, sweetheart, says he loves me 2 death, hes perfect ecspect..he cant make me laugh like Will and he thinks hes funni when hes not @ all..Me & Will jus have more n common PLUS he took my virginity!

Well i dont want 2 be with Jay anymore but im n fear of hurting him AND everyone says ill be making a huge mistake because hes so good 2 me.

But I would prefer 2 date Will jus for the simple fact we have more n common..

But i dont know what 2 do OR HOW 2 DO IT!!

-Caught Up-

Im feeling sorda guilty....

There are 14 girls trying out for cheerleading and 12 make it, i know i am going to make it because some of the girls who are doing it cant to crap, anyways i feel like its more handed to me then me working for it... Should i feel guilty? I mean i feel realy bad....

You shouldn't feal guilty. It's ok for somethings to be handed to you, as long as you still tryed. if you did try to make the squad then it's not your fault if you make the team. The fact that you feal guilty about it says that you care. Do what you think is best and keep your head up hi.
Daisyswim

O.k i'm 14/fm and live in Texas. I want a b.f. so badly, but none of the boys at my school like me cause i have braces, and i'm 5ft 2inch. I've had boyfriends, but they were'nt very much true b.f.'s. I'm always told by a friend or something that i'll never have a true b.f. that actually likes me, cause they eather say i'm not pretty enough or i'm not smart enough. My dad says i'm pretty, and i get all a's in my classes. How come guy's still don't like me. Maybe a guy could answer this question for me. Thanx lots.
Love- Lacey P.S. i give people who answer nicely 5's.True answers to please.

Guys can be jerks, but I am pretty short, have braces and get strait A's to so I know. The right guy will come and will see threw all that. You will get your braces off soon, and you still mite grow. I don't think anyone can have friends who say they are not pretty. Maybe they are jelous. Someone will come, don't worry. Hope, do well and peace out
Daisyswim

I am about 15 years old and I have had a wierd sweating problem since about the beginning of 7th grade (and im a 9th grader now). I have tried almost 10 different types of deoderants/anti-perspirant including mens. I tried certain dri and the Aluminum Chloride(Hexahydrate) that i got prescripted. My friend uses the prescripted stuff aswell and she says it helps her and she never sweats, but ive been using it since last year and it hasnt helped me. Have any ideas?

Everyone is different. One thing that mite work for a friend mite not work for you. Yhe best thing to do is keep trying around. There is bound to be one thing that works.

omg i just got braces like this morning and they are kind of sore..will anyone give me some advice on what to do and how to floss and all that stuff?? thanksss

I have braces and belive me they don't stop herting. Prey you don't get bands! They stink. Anyway it's really hard to tell anyone how to floss but what you do it get the little floss holder thing ( I forget what it is called) and slip the floss threw. Then take the floss thing and on the narrow end slip it threw the place imbatween the braket. pull it up and then floss just like you always do. Sorry if this is a little weird to understand. Ask your ortho to show you how to do it, It will make it a lot easier.
Daisyswim

i have been friends with this guy for a while now and umm we are really good friends. ALL of our friends say we should go out cause they all know that i like him more than a friend they all say we look so cute together and blah blah blah and he even knows i like him cause we talked about it one night but he said he just wanted to stay friends cause he didnt think of me as more than that. i was okay with that or thats what i told him but im really not i want to be more than that but i just dont know what to do he like this one girl that i dont like that much not cause he likes her but because she is a hoe!!! when im around him i feel like i can tell him anything even though he tells his friends but i dont care, he just makes me feel free, i guess you could say. his parents seem to like me but im not to sure cause i get nervous when im at his house. i dont know what to do can you help??
17/female

Try your best to think about what you really feal. I have a friend who i have fealings for too. But, maybe you should ask one more time. After all he is a boy they don't talk about fealings. If your his friend then tell him how you feal about the hoe-girl. You need to make the desion for yourself, it's your life. And maybe he just needs some time.
daisyswim

ok i need help yesterday 4/14/05 i was baby sitting my best friends little 4 year old brother because she went on vacation and we were playing hide and seek in my woods and after a few minets i could not finde him then i herd him scream!! i finally found him crying and screming on the ground a stick got poked rite in his eye im not sure how far back it got i pulled it out but half of the stick broke off into his eye he is getting very sick and i can't get any thing done with out his parents permission and they don't even kno their coming back on 4/19/05 in 5 day and i don't kno wut to do HELP ME PLEAS!!!

Call them if you can, if you can't tell find a grandmother of a grandfather of someone related to them to get somthing done. The parents would understand. Try to help in anyway possible and good luck My heart goes with you.

Is the blood that comes when you have your period different than regular blood?

Don't sweat it. It's totally different, but still the same. That blood is in there for a way different reason then the blood in our vains. That blood comes out because the egg in your vagina was not fertilized. The reason the blood is there is because it creats a wall for the egg so it dosen't get hert. If the egg is not fertilized then comes out with the blood. This will last up too five days and will hapen again next mounth. The blood from other things like scratches are just blood vains being opened.

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