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this is not good at all. one of my best friends (lets call her Sarah but thats not her real name) i think is a compulsive liar. she lies about everything...or so we suspect. her cousin told me that a disease like that runs in her family. but she lies about everything. here are some of the things:
-she told me she got raped and went to court for it. one time she told me she went to court at 8:00p.m but court isnt open that late
-she told me she has a boyfriend but nobodys ever talked to him except on AIM (and she has 2 computers so it might just be her) and yeah, she gave us a picture of him but its weird because i found the exact smae picture on BuddyPic and the names didnt match up
-when i talk to her on AIM she always says i feel so sick im gonna go make myself throw up im anorexic
-she told me she had a signature of somebody famous that i really like and she said i could have it. then next day she came in with it and it looked NOTHING like the real signature and it looked like her handwriting
there are more things but im just too stressed out. i DO NOT want to talk to her about it because one of my other friends confronted her about the lying and she almost commited suicide. she's really scaring me. she lied about getting RAPED...or so we THINK cause its not 100% sure. i tried to talk to my best friend about all this cause he knows whats going on with Sarah, but he told me that he belives her about all this because nobody else will. its freaking me out...a lot. i love her so much and i dont want to lose her. but i cant believe anything she says! and im afraid that if one day something bad really does happen, im not gonna beleive her. what should i do? PLEASE HELP! i have more info if you need it...just ask for my email. (link)
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i think she is lying
the next time she trys to lie or something ask if it is true and if she says yes say u dont belive her and try to talk to her about it
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yo butthole!!! i have a member of my family that i really . his is a total effin BIOTCH!!! ive tried 2 say something 2 him or my mom but i lose courage wat do i do??? (link)
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why do i suck i didnt even understand the question r u amanda stanford i want u to be onist i have a hunch i know it is u
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hey butthole, my great great step-grandpa raped me but like he's sort of related to me in a way thats too confusing to say. well i had my kid and the kids dad is like 97 years old and im only 14. this is very embarassing but i am in a crisis because the baby is going to live a bad life and it's dad is going to die pretty soon..like you don't live very much longer than age 97. plz help me my baby it's so innocent. (link)
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hey
1. your the innocint one
2. i think u should tell the police or someone because this is prity sirious
3. try to take as much care as posible of the baby
sorry,
pinky
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hey i have to good friends we have a class field trip coming up and one friend,A wants me to stay away from friend,R who will get relly mad what should i do???
- friendless in California (link)
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you should try to make them friends or hang out with the both of them
pinky
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i really like this girl and i dont kno if she likes me...and i dont kno if i should like anyone right now cus i want to be single for the summer time..but i really liek this gilr and if we went out into the summer time then we would hang out alot and we'd she eachother everyday..but idk..help me out (link)
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if u dont want to go out with her then dont go out with her just be friends for a while
pinky
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I moved to a new state last summer and i havent made that many friends at my new school. There was this girl who was also new who didnt know anyone and she was really down to earth, so we became friends. Over the school year shes become very stuck up, materialistic, and rude to people who try to be nice and talk to her. So im her only friend, and for a while she was my only friend. Ive made some friends with some very nice guys which have invited us (me and my friend) to sit with them during lunch. She never wants to because she thinks shes too good for them. I really dont see anything wrong with them, they are just trying to be friends with her. So i told her to stop being mean and to come sit with them sometime. She always refuses, which means im stuck with her and i dont get to sit with them. Then they get upset (not mad at me) when we dont sit with them. Each day she becomes even more and more rude and i dont really want to be friends with her anymore. Sometimes i feel like she doesnt like sitting with me either. Today during lunch she was on her phone for 45 min out of 50 min. She just kept me sitting there, and when i said i wanted to go sit with the guys she said no. I got really mad and just got up and left to go sit with them because i didnt want to just sit there and listen to her conversation. It was rude for her to be on the phone the ENTIRE lunch period (which is the only time i see her). Anyways, do you think i had the right to do what i did? I know it wasnt very nice, but shes been so mean to people and i thought she deserved it. What would you do in my position? (link)
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i am having the same problem w/ my friend and i think you made the right choice. if you have stoped liking her, and you like the other people better, then go sit with them. and it doesnt seem like she likes you so why are you hanging out w/ her? hope i helped
pinky :-P
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My friend and I are good friends and have good times and stuff like that! But she always takes advantage of me. Like she will always ask me for everything and get her things and sometimes i will do it and sometimes i wont! And when im around her friends, she just doesnt talk to me she ignores me. I mean she will talk to me but not like she does when its just me and her. Her friends and I are friends too. What should i do...she does treat me like a friend its just the taking advantage part i dont like!
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hey
i think u should tell her she prbably will under stand i mean the same thing happened to me and it worked out really good well i hope it goes well good luck
pinky
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