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okay i have a six inch penis and i am uncircumcised. i feel like am the only peson uncircumsied.is there anyway you could be circumcised at the age of 14.I NEED HELP FAST!!! (link)
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why on earth would you want to be circumcised? it's a really bizzare trend in the u.s., which fortunately is dieing down. when i found out in my child development class that 50% male babies in america are circumcised, i was in shock, because i'm european and it seems unnatural to me. there really is no good reason to do it. it you feel pressured because all your friends are circumcised, don't - you have it the natural way, and most girls like that ;) they are the ones who are deficient, not you. think about it - they are missing a part of their penis.
plus i don't think you can do it at this age anyway.
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15/f. What are some unique ideas that I can do at home to my clothing? I have read articles about bleaching/ripping jeans, and I am open to many things (even buying clothing at Goodwill). I am just looking for tips on how to change up my wardrobe without buying expensive clothing. And does anybody know how to remedy a fading pair of jeans? Thanks! (link)
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oh man, i love doing that to my clothes!
shirts
-you can just cut off the neck, so that it would have that hip look. you can make the neck wider, so that your shoulders are a little more visible. also, you cut off sleeves to any length. right now i am wearing a t-shirt that i did that to - looks much better this way =)
- sew on stuff. cut out stars/hearts/shapes from different pieces of fabric, and sew them on by hand or with a sewing machine. i think a little cluster of starts of different sizes and shapes in the corner of a shirt would look cute!
- buttons! they're so much fun. you can buy a bag of different buttons at wal-mart for a couple of dollars. sew them on in little clusters, randomly, or in patterns. i have a pair of old jeans i did that to - they look great!
jeans
i love modyfying old pairs of jeans! i have a set of fabric markers, and those are fun to use - draw weird things, write favortie lyrics, names of ppl, w/e. you can dip your hand (or foot) in acrylic paint and decorate your jeans with handprints. you can sew on lace to the bottom of one pant leg - it would look original! buy some fabric glitter to make it look fun... basically, i'm describing the pair i have on now =)
also, you can make holes (i would use something that would wear the fabric away slowly, like sandpaper or rubbing one sissor blade against the cloth), and then insert colorful patches behind them - looks really cool. you can use the fabric web stuff to attach the patches without making any stitches. you can also make patches on top, without any holes, or make holes without patches. try to make it look tasteful though - don't overdo it.
just try a combination of those things, and see how it looks. also, that a good way to deal with a pair of old/fading jeans.
just use your imagination, and anything you have at hand - ribbons, pieces of cloth, pint, markers, buttons, beads, threads, etc.
have fun!
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im 14 female and im bi, i have a gf. but im starting to like a boy is that cheating tho? (link)
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are you asking that question because you're bi? as in, if you were dating a guy and liking a guy, or dating a girl and liking a girl, that would definitely be wrong, but in this case it's unclear b/c they're different genders? it's ok that you like him, until you act on it, but you shouldn't look at it so differently just because you're in a same-sex relationship attracted to an opposite sex person. even tho i'm attracted to both sexes, i don't really know much about being bi, but it seems to me like you shouldn't treat liking boys and girls as two completely unrelated things.
sorry if i completely misinterpreted your ideas on this, i might have elaborated a little too much...
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i rarely wear any underwear and i was wondering if there is anything wrong with this or anything bad can happen to my you knowww (link)
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there is absolutely nothing wrong with going comando if you like it - i know a lot of ppl who haven't been wearing underwear for many years, and they're fine. it's really just a matter of comfort - my ladyparts don't feel comfortable against jeans, but if it feels comfy to you, go for it.
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is it wierd that i like porn? like i know a lot of guys that look at porn, but watching other people turns me on. is that natural? (link)
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i'd be worried if you were completely neutral to porn. just don't overdo it. we're made to believe that porn is primarily for guys because we live in a sexist society, where women are often depicted as a pleasure source for men, but not as much vice versa. the thing is, it's equivalent both ways, it's just underplayed by media. i live at place where there's a lot of porn around, and let me tell ya - there is so much less porn for heterosexual females out there than there is for heterosexual males! it's ridiculous. but girls like porn too, and that's perfectly ok.
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ok ive been begging my parents to get me into gutar lessions, and i just got an awesome gutar i can play some songs already from freinds that taught me.
problem is i sort lost intrest in it and dont wanna learn it anymore
but i CANT tell my parents that, the truth is i wanna learn paino!! and cant afford to get both!
please help!
--ashley (grayrainbow) (link)
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how do you know that you won't lose interest in piano? pianos are much, much more expensive than guitars. of course, you could get a keyboard, they are fairly affordable. i would give guitar another chance, maybe you'll like it more once you're better at it, but let your parents know that you're not so sure about it. maybe they'll let you take a few lessons so that you can see for sure. and then if you don't regain interest, you might be able to sell your guitar or something. but try getting aqaited with piano a little before you actually try to get your parents to buy you a keyboard.
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When someone has a boyfriend, how long should it be before they begin to "french kiss"? My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a month, maybe a little more. The other night, when he was dropping me off, he began to kiss me. Now, don't get me wrong, I am fine with a quick peck on the lips. But he opened up my mouth! I felt a little uncomfortable, but I let it go... until he started to use his tongue! I told him he was going WAY too fast. Did I do the right thing? (link)
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there is nothing wrong with making out after a month of going out. many people make out before they are even "officially" going out, or even casually. now if that actually makes you physically uncomfortable, that's another story - you shouldn't do anything that doesn't feel pleasant to you. if you'd rather just cuddle, maybe you could do that. but don't try to look at how soon other people do it - set your own pace based on how it feels to you.
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Ok, when I wear lightweight shirts like tee-shirts and stuff, I sweat! I use good anti-persperant, but it doesn't work. What is wrong with me! (link)
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nothing is wrong, b/c everyone sweats. modern society has convinced us that sweating is bad, mostly so that people would buy deodorant - it's all about consumerism. don't worry about it. maybe try wearing slightly looser shirts. if you think you might smell, carry around a bottle of body spray to refresh yourself every now and then. but seriously, everyone has that problem, and it's not that big of a deal.
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I want to put up posters and drawings on my wall of my favorite rock bands but my mom won't let me. What should I do? She's way too overprotective and I hate it. Got any ideas.
How do I make my mom less overprotective.
by the way i'm 14/f (link)
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ask her questions. how would having those posters up harm you in any way? what's wrong with those posters? what potential dammage could they do? tell her that in order to get your understanding, she needs to provide you with reasonable explanations to her actions. explain to her why you like to listen to those bands and why you want to have posters of them in your room. try to act as a partner in this child/parent relationship indtead of the parent's property. if she sees that you're being mature about it, she might understand your needs and allow you to put the posters up.
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i got a few facebook group invitations and i was wondering where do you go to see your invites? (link)
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i think right now you really can't, because of the facebook layout changes. i got invited to a group but i couldn't find that invite anywhere on my profile or homepage. you can just go search for that group and join it.
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hey my name is ellen and my son justin who is 19 years old and he is teaching sunday school at church,but I just found out he he and his girlfriend tessa had unprotected sex about a month ago and there was a big hickey on his neck what should I do?
I want to help me so so bad but when I confronted him about he got mad at me and now he won't speak to please help me help my son thankyou iam really worried. (link)
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i don't quite understand the problem. your son had unprotected sex... ok. you know he did it once, but there nothing you can do about it now. if you think he might still be having unprotected sex, you can get some condoms and safe sex brochures to put in his bathroom (i heard parents sometimes do that when they find out that their 14-year old teens are having sex). a hickey... well, i can see how that might be a little bit embarassing for a sunday school teacher. if he's worried about what others think of him, he'll do something to cover it up.
but really, your son is not doing anything wrong or unusual, i don't see why you're so worried. of course he'll get mad if you start confronting him about things which he's old enough to handle himself.
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hi, well im not a politics type of guy, so i dont know why george bush and tony blair are hated so much. what have they done thats so bad? (link)
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i think a better question would be: why are there still people that like bush? and the answer would be: because they're stupid. if you ask a person why they hate bush, they'll talk about the war in iraq, gay marriage, his low intellect, abortion, and the many lame policies bush has implemented. if you ask someone why they like bush, their answer will be: well, because... he's so cool! bush-lovers can't provide you with a good argument because you have to be blind to still support him as a president.
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17/m alright this is about a friend of mine...who is a bit wierd i guess. you see, she moved into my town a while ago and automatically people wouldnt accept her (and now i am beginning to see why) buti accepted her. NOW all she talks about is what she would do if she had a penis. she was over my house one time and out of no where she said "if i had a penis i would stick a needle and uncooked pasta into the hole of it" SHE WAS NOT JOKING. she even asked me if she could see mine to stick sometihing in mine and I FREAKED. is she like a transvestite wanna-be???? i am so wierded out..i want to end our friendship...ugh...what do i do? Please Help!! (link)
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maybe she is, or maybe she just thinks it's funny to act like this. but i think it's more likely that she is just being silly. just tell her, look, i know you think it's funny, but i really really don't, can you please please stop saying things like this because it's weirding me out.
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My father is turning 90 years old soon. Recently I heard that my nephew's wife was planning his birthday party. She told my sister this. I mentioned to my sister that I was not thrilled that my nephew's wife would take that responsibility on as I believe it should be up to my sister and I, not my nephew's wife. When I contacted my niece about attending the party she told me that she had already been contacted by my nephew's wife. I think that is presumptous of my nephew's wife to make plans like that without talking to me. Am I correct? (link)
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you are definitely right, i'm sure you and your sister are a lot closer to your father than your nephew's wife, so it only makes sence that his daughters should plan his 90th birthday party. but if she's doing this, that probably means she cares about him too, so maybe you could talk to her about how you feel and you could all do it together - your sister, you, and your nephew's wife. i remeber my brother's ex-wife cared about our grandfather more than some of us, and i can imagine her planning his birthday... so please, try to understand her if she's doing this because she cares about your father.
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here at my school we have a table called the popular table and i sit at it .all my friends are popular i guess i am but there is another table its like a blank table and two hispanics sit at it . i try to invite them to sit with us but they always say know and they talk about my friends behind their backs the worst part is they cuss them out when their not around their the only hispanics in our homeroom all of us are white i dont know if their racist or not.we all pray before we eat .i decided to sit with them one day and i asked if they wanted to pray but they just cussed me out it makes us feel bad .they think were all dumb blond\brunettes.but they are teachers pets it kills me please help me. (link)
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doesn't seem like there's much you can do. sometimes people get so prejudiced, they completely close themselves off and don't accept any chance that some of the people they're prejudiced against might actually be okay. it's just the way they were brought up. their parents probably work for some white people and they think that most white people feel superior to them, and that's why they act like that... all you can do is keep being nice to them, ignore their rudeness and ask your friends to do the same thing. if it's just beginning of the year/semester, they might actually become a little friendlier if you don't give them any reason to think that you're snobby or that you look down on them.
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Okay here is the deal.I like this one guy.He likes me back too.I dont know if i should go out with him though because we have been best friends for 2 yrs.I am afraid this is going to hurt our friendship if we break up..What should i do?This is really hard on me.I luv him! (link)
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i think it'll be all right if you go out with him, especially if you feel that you love him. since you are already good friends, even if you do break up, it shouldn't be so bad, and you'll probably be able to be friends afterwards. i have been in that situation, but i chose not to risk it, and now i not having at least tried it.
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okay heres the thing
about 6 weeks ago i was having really bad cramping, pains in my breast, soar all over, felt really sick, then i started my period, ive been on my period for 6 years or so now, and never felt that kinda pain at all, for the last 6 week s though ive been on my period and it hasnt stopped, and the whole 6 weeks ive been having blood clots,NOW 6 weeks later i feel soo tired, and even sicker, everytime i stand up i feel like im going to faint, and i feel really dizzy and cramping. i just start crying for no reason, and i feel really stressed out, and ive called 5 differnt gynocologist's to see and the soonest i can get in is middle of august, Should i maybe go to the hospital? or just wait, i really dont know what to do. (link)
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you should see someone immediately, this sounds very serious. you can go to urgent care, see your family doctor, or you can call your health clinic and tell them that you need to see a gynechologist ASAP. if you tell them it's very urgent, they may be able to find an appointment for you sooner. if this gets any worse, go to the emergency room.
i hope you get better and everything turns out okay!
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ok well im the type of girl who is sooo self consious. i ALWAYS wear sweatshirts and i roll my pants up to my knee and i always wear sneakers. I want to break out of that. i AM a really pretty girl and i know it but one problem. I am VERY busty. like im not moster busty im like busty enough to look about um 2 years older than i am and yea. So what shirts would would look good on me to flatter my chest (B34 btw) thank you soo much (link)
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i dunno... i'm B34 and my chest seems pretty small to me... but i guess if you're 13, that is kinda big. i wouldn't worry about it so much, people will just think it's attractive, but if you want to make your chest look smaller, wear a sports bra or a padding-free bra. or use a tanktop with a built-in bra. and don't wear very slim shirts - something flowy that doesn't stick to your stomach.
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Hi, everyone. I'm a 15 year old male, and so is this girl I like. I honestly don't know why I am attracted to her. She is overweight, and that's just a turn off for me, like most other guys. But beside the few extra pounds (actually about 30), she's gorgeous. (or so I think) She had chestnut colored brown hair, and paleish skin in contrast. Her blue eyes are amazing. We sat next to eachother in biology all of last year, as the teacher never changed the seating arrangement. We talked a lot, and I'm very shy, so it was a change for me. She talked to me first, and from then on we became very good friends. She bought me a cake on my birthday & gave it to me in class. She laughs at everything, so I don't know if she thinks I'm funny, or not. But I love it. I love talking to her, I love her laugh, I love how random she is, how different, how uncaring of what people think. (dont get me wrong, shes not a geek or anything, shes in with all the right kids, shes just overweight). I couldn't tell if she liked me, but there's something about her that makes me want to be with her all the time. As I said, this would be awkward for me, because she is overweight, and my friends would definitely have fun teasing me/her over that. I don't know what to do, I asked her for her number & aim screename, so I have those now. Whenever I see her get online, I IM her. I told her when I was doing driving school so she could maybe sign up. I think I'm just confused on what to do. Why is it I'm so attracted to her? Should I tell her how I feel? What about my friends? (link)
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so the only problem is that she's overweight?? don't you think it's a little shallow to even think about it twice when you know how much you like her? look at what you guys are putting us girls through - saying that you won't date us if we're a bit chubby, or if we're too skinny! pllllease. just ask her out already. if you didn't, that would be just an awful thing for you to do to her, even if she doesn't find out. and think about it - if she likes you too, you'll have this awesome relationship, and will you really care what your friends think then? if they tease you, just tell them to buzz off and that you think she's gorgeous and like her just the way she is.
i'm sorry, i don't want to be mean, really. i think it's great that you like her, and just follow her example - don't care so much about what other people think.
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I recently just went through some second-degree burn trauma on Sunday. I was supposed to get my period on Monday. It is now Wednesday evening and I still have not gotten my period. I am guessing that all the stress from my injury has delayed it but I am showing no signs of getting it. I've never had sex so I'm not worried about a pregnancy but it just seems odd that its been delayed this long already. Any ideas? (link)
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well, when you're under serious stress, you can just miss your period alltogether. i recently missed my period simply because i was stressing over finals (i know, that sounds kinda stupid). and then i had it again two cycle periods after my last period - it was as if i'd never missed it. so i think you need to wait until the time when you should be having your period again, then see if it comes. it won't be surprising if you miss it even then.
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