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Okay here is the deal.I like this one guy.He likes me back too.I dont know if i should go out with him though because we have been best friends for 2 yrs.I am afraid this is going to hurt our friendship if we break up..What should i do?This is really hard on me.I luv him!
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Well all I can really say is that best friends should stay best friends because once you cross that line between best friend and b/f or g/f then things start feeling a lil akward like your best friend who you could go to about anything becomes the person you start hiding your feelings in fear of losing them like if they make you mad you end up just biting your tongue and describing how you truly feel and if you all break up you will never go back to the way things were you will be lucky if you guys are still friends in my opinion your true mate should be someone you know but not like a best friend or anything because gradually as the relationship progresses they will become your lover soulmate and best friend but whoever your best friend is now keep it that way or you might not have a best friend anymore I know you might like him and all but wouldn't you rather have him as a friend then not have him at all I hope this helps
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go out with him
since you guys are such good friends the relationship should probly last a while and after its over.. you might be mad at eachother for a while but theres a really good chance that you will be able to be friends after
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i think it'll be all right if you go out with him, especially if you feel that you love him. since you are already good friends, even if you do break up, it shouldn't be so bad, and you'll probably be able to be friends afterwards. i have been in that situation, but i chose not to risk it, and now i not having at least tried it.
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i think you should go out with him. If you have been best friends for two years then your most likely to become friends again after you break-up. It may take sometime but it'll come threw for you. And remember you should always take chances because if you don't you'll never get rewards.
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If you really care about him and love him, you should risk it. If you are having doubts about your friend ship lasting, simply tell him that no matter what happens In the future you would like to always remain friends. he Is probably thinking the exact same thing. I hope the friendship you two hold never come to an end :)
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