Hi my names Nikki..i love to give people advice on almost anything.Sometimes I can be brutal with my answers but I speak my mind and give my opinon. I help people look at life from a different perspective. So if you need an answer let me know ill give you one!
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I am a junior in high school and a friend I have known since 1st grade has taken his life Monday night. Everyone believes it is due to bullying. Yet, my school is not doing any thing about it. Nothing. That makes me so incredibly mad. That just makes it look like it's okay for people to be bullied and have someone take their life. These past few days have been hard and the situation at school with no actions being taken is making it an incredible amount more hard. I can't get the picture of his helpless body hanging there in his closet.. I want to do something for him. I want to do a candle light service or make a memorial somewhere so the people that bullied him can actually admit that they messed up and that this boy was loved. He has put a smile on my face numerous times through out my 11 years of school with him and right now I just want to put a smile on his face in Heaven. How do I go about doing this? Do I have to go through my school to have a candlelit service? Do I need a permit to build a memorial for him? I know I am going to need a lot of people to help and I'm sure I can find quite a few people whose lives he blessed. Just help me out with what I can do for him. Thank you so much. (link)
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BRing up the top to your principal maybe they can organize something for your friends....sory for your lost the best of luck
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i am dating guy,we like eich other,but he is olvays busy and tells me he likes me very much,he takes me out somethimes,then its anding up,he has to go to his work,i am sure he works at night,and he wants bj in his car,and that is all,what can i do?i really like him,what shoud i tell him?or just find someone elce who is not so busy,but i like him so much. (link)
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your wasting your time move on you deserve better than a guy like that he sounds like a loser that just wants a quickie find a guy that really likes and wants to be with you....best of luck
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I have been married a little over a year. I didnt know my husband very long before we got married but I loved him I know I did and I still do but he wont work, he doesnt help with house work unless i beg him to please help me. He complains when i go to work and has to stay home with our daughter. I have a 3 year old son who isnt is. But my son knows him as his father. It just seems like he is constantly yelling at him. Hes spanked him before and left a big hang print but he doesnt touch him now since i yelled about it and made him apoligize. We have been arguing a lot. We have our good days and our bad but it seems to just get worse. Weve has fights were hes taken a part off my car so i couldnt leave but he told me to get the F out. I love him and care about him I just dont know what to do. I am looking for support and advice and your opinion please and thank you (link)
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Im sorry but if some one laid a hand on my kid apology or not i would leave him second thing he sounds like he can be violent nor you our your kids should be around some one like that violence only esculades trust me you may love him but loving him isnt worth you or yoou kids safty my advice get away from him asap and make sure your kids have a better less violent home best of luck
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I need a pros and cons list with regards to admitting a crush. Opinions and other comments are also appreciated. C:
Background:
There's this guy who I've liked for months at school, but nothing has happened to make us "more than friends." Arguably, this seems to mean that he is not interested, but the obvious "signs" of his crush cannot be ignored. "Hinting" at my feelings hasn't worked so far 1. because I'm a terrible flirt 2. because he is dense when it comes to dating/has never had a girlfriend. Still, there is no way for me to guarantee that the crush is mutual. I'm willing to tell him in person, but, should I?
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the only way to find out is if you tell him if he dont feel the same atleast you will know and you can move on but i he feels the same thats great best of luck
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Okay so I have no idea what I want for christmas other than uggs and gift cards so I was thinking I could ask for a bunch of expensive styling products that I would never buy myself. I have crazy curly/frizzy hair.
I have a curling iron but I'm not too impressed with it. Maybe it's just user error though, I'm not sure. What is the best curling iron. I was thinking about getting a waving iron too but do you think that would work if i have naturally curly hair?
I'm very happy with my straightener so I don't need a new one until this one breaks.
I also might want a new blow dryer. Does anyone know if those blowdryers that also straighten your hair work? I'll even have my hair blown out at salons and they can't even get it to not frizz so i'd need a really good blow dryer to blow out my hair. Also whats the best one for defusing?
As far as products go.... I'm lost. I'd like a curl cream that like stops frizz and defines curls but I haven't found a good one yet, i've tried a few gels and mousses too with not much luck. I'm also trying to grow my hair out so I'd like something that prevents heat damage and something that nourishes my hair. Other than that what's the best antifrizz serum? (link)
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sally hansen products are the best you will def be satisfied with one of her products
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Okay so my boyfriend has already mentioned to me that he was so excited to see my reaction to his christmas present and he's kind of a romantic type. I'm not all that romantic or anything and I have no idea what to get him. We haven't been together for too long so I don't see him all that much so I don't know him that well. And even if i did I still would have trouble. I'm really bad at getting people presents. I want to get him something cute, but kinda generic i guess... not in a lame way though. HELP?!?! (link)
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nice hoodi and a hat always does the trick with a cd of is favorite band soomething like that
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ok so my ex boyfriend who is a total asshole is having a house party this weekend and i want to call the cops on it and get it busted. there will be underage drinking. i am not against underage drinking or anything but i do hate him and want to get back at him after he sent nude pictures of me around after our break up. so my question to you guys is whether anyone could find out that i did it. i wont tell anyone i did, but could they some how find out it was my number who called in? i really want to avoid drama which is why i dont want anyone to know. also do i just call 911? i am positive i want to call the cops and get it busted, i just dont know exactly what to do.
if you guys knew him you would hate him too. total douche bag.
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dont call911 look in phone book in call the police and tell them if they ask who you are say just a nieghbor i dont want my name involved i just want this party to stop thank you
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So tomorrow I have a quiz where the teacher gives me a chemical equation and then the masses of the reactants and I'm supposed to find the masses of the products. I know you're supposed to convert to moles and find the limiting reagent and then base everything else off of that, but I'm not sure how to go about doing it. My teacher also says we should make a table with the starting moles, change in moles, and ending moles for the reactants and products... (link)
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google!
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there is this i guy i like. Im like best friends with his family. I stay over their house alot so i know practically their whole family and they have a huge family. Their family is close. Me and him are the same age and so people always say stuff like maybe you guys like each other. We both just deny it and smile. We are completely different so I think he thinks that i would never like him. My little cousin once was like melanie likes you and i was like no i dont she is just lying and he was like yeah i dont think she would say something like that plus he knows that my little cousin adores him so he believed me but in reality i do like him i like him alike. Im just tired of him not knowing. I dont want him to find another girl. I dont want to tell him because i dont want to make it awkward between the family and me. Even though their family likes me and treats me like im their family. I dont think they ever have thoughts of me and him dating. I dont want the whole family to know anyways. I just want him to know that I like him. Im shy also so i cant just tell him. He does have a picture of me and his sister in his bible. So i think thats kind of a big deal cuz why would he have a pic of me in there. But he isnt living at home he is in another country till next year so im not planning on anything till then and i would be almost graduating. So what should i do? and how should i? Im confused and he is always on my mind and i dont want him too like any other girl. O yeah i cant text him or facebook him because him and his sister share a phone and he doesnt have myspace or facebook or anything like that (link)
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if you like him and r to shy to tell him when you are around him and getting ready to leave give him a note that tells him how you feel in the next time you talk or see him you might be suprised of the response you get from him
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I'm 17/f and he's 20/m
We've been going on with some issues lately. He's still confusing me about some stuff if you read my past posts. Lately, I've been hurt. I know he wants to get back on track and find out what he wants to do. He wants our relationship to be hidden from his parents until he's ready, since they do not approve of me. We're limiting the time we see each other so he has space, so seeing each other everyday ended up seeing each other once a week. And once every 2 weeks, which is definitely hard for me. But I agreed to it, he needs time. But then he asked me if I was upset that he's putting other stuff above me. He says that he'll try to see me as much as he can, like see me if he gets off work early and if something he was going to do is canceled. He's not always busy. I'm hurt because I feel like I'm just there as a left over and he'll come to me when "he has time". I don't know what to do, what to say, I'm not sure if it's fair or not. Advice? (link)
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it def not fair i was 17 dating a guy 23 and he didnt want his parents to no til he was ready i went along with it for awhile but to be honest if a guy acts like that ten to one its because he is insecure bout the relationship and your on the back burner my advice find someone that will treat you right n kick the guy to the curve
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I'm fifteen, sophomore. It's been five months since me and this guy I dated for seven months broke up. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, fingering, hj, and bj... It was a really unhealthy relationship and a super long story but to sum it all up, he really hurt me. He became sooo much a part of me that when we broke up I felt like I had nothing to distinguish myself with anymore. Even now, he doesn't even feel like a person to me, more like a whole part of myself. But its an empty space... We don't talk. Hang out. Nothing. But I still think about him every single day. I sometimes still cry over him... It's just wierd. Because even thoguh I hate him for all the pain and betrayl he put me through I miss him like crazy. And I feel like a different person now that he's gone... And I hate it. I want it to go away SO bad. I just don't understand. It took him days to move on. It's been five months and I'm still hurting. Whats wrong with me?? (link)
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honey he was your first it will always hurt to a point you will ever forget him but you got to tell your self i enjoyed it but now im to newer things and better thiings dont let it keep you down youll find a better guy
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16/f
Alright, first off I have to say I feel stupid for doing this, but strangers do give the best advice because they aren't really biased.
Alright, so I told my best guy friend that I liked him (Which was really awkward because the day before he told me he wanted to go out with my best friend). He didn't exactly reject me, but he didn't exactly accept that either.
So fast forward a couple of weeks and he mentions to me he started talking to my cousin quite a bit. Three days later he's dating my cousin. Not to be rude (and it's not because she's dating him) she's kinda a whore and doesn't seem like the type he'd be into at all.
So after this happened I decided to get over it. It's been half a month and I'm nowhere near moving on. Every freaking time I log into Facebook, or hang out with my friends I see/hear something about their relationship and it's like 'Stabby stab stab stab!'.
I don't get it. He and I have been friends for over a year, I've known him for about four years because our older sisters are friends. We've never been more than friends, so why can't I just get over it? Yes, I care for him. Who wouldn't care for their friends?
I'm just confused I suppose. He's not the hottest guy in school, far from it actually. He's not what I'm usually attracted to. I love his personallity though, and he's really quirky. It's something I love about him. He's not afraid to act weird or crazy because that's who he is.
I don't know. I don't even know what my question really is. I just need advice. (link)
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its easy to fall for a friend but sometimes friend actually means friend nothing more. sometimes you think you like someone cause you been friends for along time but actually you dont want them to date other people cause your affraid the friendship wont be the same or you will lose them. this guy doesnt like you from how it sounds so you need to be his friend and move on
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my bf dumped me because i wouldn't say i love him...its a long story but the short of it is that a while back a guy really hurt me and ever since then i've dated lots of guys, but never loved them. its never been a problem before even for this guy i dated 7 months. but he is obsessed with me and he knew about how i am but randomly it got brought up and yea..were done now. since then i just cant stop crying over it and i never cry..i'm so hurt and i don't know what to do. i need advice a.s.a.p cause just writing this is making me cry again:( (link)
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It sounds like he aint theonly one having feelings. every one gets hurt bad i was n a 3 year relationship in loved this guy with all my heart and he cheated and everything else but you cant let the pass effect your future if you do you will never be happy if i were yoou id tell the guy im sorry and you do have feelings for him or you do love him getting hurt is apart of life no matter what you cant run from it
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20 female.
I'm just asking for people's different stories about having sex with their best friends. Was it awkward, was it fun, was it the best sex you've had, was it the worst, did it make you two closer or did it make your friendship awkward? Any insight you can give me :) (link)
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I had sex with my closest guy friend and after that we werent as good of friends and eventually we quit talking
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Is it a good idea to pursue a high school relationship during senior year? I can't predict the future of this relationship, whether or not it will last, but in all likelihood we will be separated by college. I'm going on to college and the girl is still going to be in high school. Is it worth it? (link)
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high school relationships can work but it depends on her personality and yours i mean you might sit and wonder who shes hanging out with why she missing your calls stuff like that because if you wonder that sorta thing you should just try to find someone else
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. She's a nice girl but I don't have those feelings of love for her. I've been trying to wait it out, thinking that I'd start to feel the magic sometime, but it ain't happening. She's really into me and I'm just not into her. She's nice and all but that's about it. How can I dump my girlfriend without hurting her? I know I need to let my girlfriend down easy but how? (link)
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If I guy wanted to break up with me Id want him to say something like this....its been a great couple of months and i like you but i think i like you more as a friend im not trying to hurt you but i dont want to lead you on either so can we still be friends?
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i wnt to stop cutting myself but i dont know how i really need advice any reccomended support groups i dont care what it is as long as it helps me stop cause i dont want to hurt myself anymore
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I know what its like I have scars all over my wrist from cutting some timees its hard to stop but puta rubberband around your wrist when you feel like you need to cut flick it and itll tak the edge off and tell your self no i dont want to do this and if yoou have enough power you wont cut
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what are some good ways to cut that makes nasty looking cuts ?????? (link)
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no one needs to ut their self trust me ik when u have a scar it will haunt u ur whole life
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Ok so i am 13 female and i am having trouble getting a bf i mean i am pretty or so i have been told i am really curvy and pretty shy when it comes to guys I want to open and be able to feel comfortable around guys again,but not be a slut!Any advice i want to loosen up!
THNX IN ADVNCE
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just be your self if a guuy likes you then so be it if not dont let it bother plenty of fish in the sea
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Okay so I've had a crush on this boy brian pretty much since the day I met him.. which was about a year and a half ago..we've been hooking up for the past year on and off..sometimes drunk sometimes sober.. I really want to ask him how he feels toward me because I honestly don't believe its solely physical..how do I go about asking? I need it to be casual, I'm so nervous! Thanks (link)
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If it's been a year and aaa alf and he hasnt mentioned to you about being commited then it sounds like your eing played so you need to plain out ask him is this all for sex or do u actually like me
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