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Admit crush or not?
I need a pros and cons list with regards to admitting a crush. Opinions and other comments are also appreciated. C:
Background:
There's this guy who I've liked for months at school, but nothing has happened to make us "more than friends." Arguably, this seems to mean that he is not interested, but the obvious "signs" of his crush cannot be ignored. "Hinting" at my feelings hasn't worked so far 1. because I'm a terrible flirt 2. because he is dense when it comes to dating/has never had a girlfriend. Still, there is no way for me to guarantee that the crush is mutual. I'm willing to tell him in person, but, should I?
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Hi,
Pro's of admitting your crush;
1. He might feel the same way.
2. You will finally have told the truth and will feel better.
Con's of admitting your crush;
1. He might not feel the same way.
2. Alot of people will find out you like him.
Crushes are a hard thing to figure out. Just like love.
I think you should look for the signs. Take your time to see how he acts towards you. If you can't figure out how he feels, confront him. :) GOOD LUCK!
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the only way to find out is if you tell him if he dont feel the same atleast you will know and you can move on but i he feels the same thats great best of luck
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It is always hard to admit a crush. Thinking about it makes your heard pound and your hands sweat. I am assuming you are young but this can be a tough situation for any age.
I am almost 30 and have had a few relationships under my belt. One thing I have learned is no matter how old the guy is he will be dense about whether or not you are into him. If you do not speak up you will be doomed to the "just friends zone" for as long as you know him.
The best thing you can do is to just tell him. My favorite pickup line has always been, "Hi I am incredibly attracted to you. Can I have your number?"
Really what is the worst that can happen? He may not be interested, it happens. At least you are still friends and you are not wondering "What if..."
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