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My name is Katie....im a loving person who has been through a lot in life....friendship troubles, boy stuff, family stuff, i babysit, and I've seen my friends go through a LOT, so i know what i'm talking about.
I'm 15, and I'm currently a sophomore in high school!

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im 13 and ive been getting discharge for like 3 months(at least i think its dicharge...)and i was wondering when i will get my period...my mom got hers when she was 13 (link)
you could not get it until you are 16!
I'm in high school (freshman) and haven't gotten mine yet, and my mom got hers in 7th grade. Its not genetical, it just dpeneds on when your body is ready :)


so my friend and i were at our schools weight room and working out, then someone put on a cd and the music was really good. I love that cd!!! I can't get the songs out of my head and not think about the cd for 1 minute. So I need advice... how do i get those songs from the cd? I was thinking of taking the cd and borrowing it for 1 day and take it to my house and make a copy. but i'm not sure if thats right... so then I thought maybe I could ask someone who works at the weight room if they could let me borrow it, or at least make a list of the song names.

but I'm not sure..... all of this seems pretty weird just for a couple of songs. but I can't stop thinking about the really cool songs!!

HELP!!!!!! (link)
You could borrow the CD then ptu the songs onto Itunes or Windows media player then make a CD. idk if you can with ITunes, but i know you can with WMP.

Or, download Limewire and get them from there if you could get a list of the song names. You can search for songs and download them free.

HOpe i helped!
Katie


Ok, so the school i go to has a bathroom with stall doors that big spaces where the hinges are and people can see through them at you. Obviously when they built them, they just made the doors like that. But anyways, me and all my friends are really self concious about that. What should we do? (link)
Try going during a certain class every day, or rotate classes. It probably won't be as croweded.

No one looks into the crack unless they want to stare at you..most people just do their business and leave right away.

Hope i helped :)

Katie


I got my first period ever on July 31st and I've had it ever since and I still have it. Tomorrow's going to be the 3rd week I had it. Is this normal on the first one? I'm kinda worried about it. (link)
When you first get your periods, they are almost always irregular. I wouldn't worry too much.

If that particular one continues for another week or more, i would have your mom take you to see the doctor. its nothing to worry about, i'm sure :)

If you need any more help, please leave a note in my inbox :)
Katie


Someone was using my computer user the account the other day and did something to it, but I do not really know what.

Now when I am booting the computer, at the select user account screen, there is a little message below my name that says I have 5 New mail messages. I have no new emails on my email adress account, so I guess it is for the guy that was using my computer.

So here is my question. How do I remove that sign?

(I use a pc with XP) (link)
My Friend has Vista..if you log out of your computer and don't turn it off and you were logged into a messenger, any messages you may have recieved you are notified of on that screen.

Hope i helped :)
Katie


how do i change the darkness of my computer. (or is there a way?)Everything on my computer shows up dark and it makes it hard for me to look at pictures. it really bothers me so i wanted to know if there was a way to make everything..lighter? or less darker. (link)
On your monitor, there should be a dial or something with a symbol that looks like a sun above it. if not, like mine, it might have one big one that you press, turn and scroll untill you are on 'brightness', then press the button, then set to your liking, press again, then scroll around to the 'exit' icon.

HOpe i Helped :)
Katie


ok here are the details:
im thirteen and will be fourteen in november
im normal, not anorexically skinny.
i skip a meal every now and then though, but only because i wasn't hungry
but im not anorexic.
i mostly over eat :]
but anyway, the problem:
i got my first period in march; and it lasted for a week.
its been five months, i havent changed anything about my health or my diet, and i havent gotten it since. i havent told my mom, because im hoping it will just come back.
im kind of worried, is this normal?
what do i do? (link)
When you first start getting your periods, and you haven't been having sexual activity, then your periods may be irregular for a year or so :)

If you continue to not get one for another month or so, see a doctor. Its probably no big deal :)

Hope I Helped!
Katie**
P.s. If you need any more help, please leave a note in my inbox :)


helllooo advicenatorss [=
im just wondering if anyone has
anyclue when someone is completely
over their ex. like, signs or
feelings. sorry this question is
not detailed but i dont want to go
through the whole story. thanks [=
by the way, ima female, 15. (link)
Basically, when you stop feeling weird around him and stop thinking about him all the time. Sure, you occasionally will think about him if you find something that reminds you of him.

HOpe i helped :)
Katie**


My boyfriend (who i loovee :D) his friend always gives me evils everytime he sees me and i dont know what his problem is with me i talked to my bf about and he said "Its ok ignore him" and smiled at me and i smiled back cuz i know he gives the right advice whenever i need it and i know that hes right but his friends been bugging me for ages and im not like a really nasty person when we get along were really good friends but when hes in a mood i feel like ive done something wrong...Anyway should i ignore it or get on with my life and take my bfs advice!
Confused_Friend_Situations xox (link)
I would keep ignoring it. if it continues, try asking your bf if he knows why his friend is acting that way.

He's probably just jealous :) Unless he has a gf.

If all else fails, talk to your BFs Friend.

Hope i Helped,
Katie**


I'm a shy person and only have two close friends. I always thought that it didn't matter if other people accepted me because they did. Today my best friend sent me this email:

hey, i have something i need to talk to you about. it actually involves dixie too but she is too afraid to talk to you about it because she doesn't want to make you mad or upset. okay first off dixie and i both agree that you have been acting rude to us. every time we say something that isn't said "perfectly" or is not something you would say you treat us like we are 5. like for example at dixies party at my house i said something about sequences (i proabably spelled it wrong but i really don't give a crap) and you were like amanda you are special..blah blah blah. also you make a big deal out of the fact that dixie hasn't seen bambi.....BIG FRIGGIN DEAL!!! you haven't seen marry poppins...OOHH ASHLEY YOU HAVEN'T SEEN MARY POPPINS OH MY GOSH!!! sorry but that's the way you treat us. you have also been acting spoiled and it seems like you are trying to make us jealous....okay personally dixie and i don't give a dookie that you did whatever...good for you..we are happy for you! oh and the college situation. it seems like everytime we are talking about college you always say that dixie can't be an interior designer. SHE CAN DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS IF SHE PUTS HER MIND TO IT. she has an interest in it! SHE CAN DO IT! you are sapost to be her friend and support her instead of put her down!!! why don't you think she can be an interior designer??? cuz she doesn't dress like you do or decorate like you do???????? give me reasons..because if that is your reason then we don't think you could be a teacher because you have no patients. oh and that time you called me just to tell me I was wrong when really i only had a different opinion than yourself. it was about global warming. you said we are all going to die and blah blah. i don't believe in global warming and i don't believe we are all going to die. i don't care what scientists say or what al gore says...they're not God..i only believe what God says. i don't care if you are thinking i am stupid because i am my own person and i have my own opoinion....you heard the old saying "opoinions are like butt-wholes, everybody's got one!" that's all i have to say now but we just wanted to let you know how rude and childish you have acting. we love you to death and don't want to ruin our friendship but we had to say something so you would realize what you are doing is hurtful...and if you are thinking that this letter is hurtful i realize that. i wrote it so you would feel the hurt and humiliation you have caused us. please write back

I just don't get it. I mean I'm the one with self esteem issues. If anything I envy both of them. Just the thought of them being mad at me is killing me. Its like my world is falling apart. Its not just them. My whole family has been treating me worse lately. I'm digressing backwards. I'd went from almost commiting suicide to being a relatively happy teenager. I mean I'm 17 and I want my life to end. I'll never kill myself and I know it. I just don't want to spend the rest of my life alone and unhappy. I just need some advice and help.

By the way, sorry about how long this is.
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I had...omg the exact same situation with my friends, only the scenarios were different.
My Two BFFS, one who is again and one who still doesn't like me wrote me a two-page note right before an Algebra test saying how much they didn't like me and what i 'did wrong'.
Of course, i'm 14, but i still think i can help.

I'll tell you what i did.

After the note, i just ignored them. of course, your friends don't hate you. I have self esteem issues. i envied my friends. I sympathise with you with all my heart.

YOu need to sit down with your friends and have a heart-to-heart talk. When i got my friend back, (which i don't think i'll ever get the other back, but i've learned to let her go) i resolved to be a better friend.

The Key...after all of my rambling :P is to realize what your faults were, and to fix them. IF you truely don't want to lose you friends, start now!!!

I hope this helps you some!!!
If you need any more help, please leave me a note in my inbox :)



hi my name is kristina and i keep getting made fun of because i am to skinny and i eat like a pig and everything and i just cant seem to gain weight and i hear about kalten bares where can i buy them??? please write back (link)
Hey Girl, be glad your naturally slim!
The People that are making fun of you probably are just insecure about themselves. A few of them are probably jealous!
I'm like you. slim, and i can eat all i want and not gain weight. you just have a high metabolism.
Just eat healthy, and you should be fine :)

If you are really worreid, see your doctor. He/she can tell you if you are underweight or not :)

Hope i helped :)
Katie


Okay, so obviously i have a nintendo DS and the game Animal Crossing...can anyone tell me how to get your friends pictures, and how to cross breed flowers? ASAP please thanks sooo much!!!

and if you pay off the last debt...what happens?
Anything else "cool" i should know? (link)
http://cheats.ign.com/ob2/068/682/682878.html

That site has a lot of hints and cheats for Animal Crossing for DS!

If it doesn't help, try googling your questions!

HOpe i helped,
Katie


I heard today that if you put rubbing alcohol on a pimple that it will clear it up. Is that true, because I don't want to try it and start breaking out? (link)
I don't know if it helps or not, but it will dry your face out, which will make your skin produce more oil, which can lead to more breakouts.
If you get a product designed specially for acne, it won't dry out as bad.

Hope I helped :)
Katie


how does lulu.com work? (link)
You:
1. Create a description of your book
2. Upload your manuscript
3. Choose your binding and colors
4. Choose your cover art
5. and then set the price

hope thats what you needed!
:)
Katie


So, I got some sunburn a week ago. A couple of spots on my back & stomach are starting to peel. Well, I heard that if you peel, that spot where you peeled won't get tan for the rest of the summer, or it won't get tan ever again? Is that true? Can someone explain it to me? Also, what are the bad effects of peeling (besides the gross shedding skin thing) THANKS! (link)
I was sunburned a couple weeks ago, and yes, you can tan again there.
I don't think there are any bad effects of peeling, i didn't seem to have any.
hope i helped ;)
Katie


ok so ive had a bad belly ache for about 3 weeks and i have super bad cramops and im not sure if its the start fo ym period or im just not healthy



help (link)
It could be cramps.

since it has lasted so long, however, you should see a doctor. it could be a stomach problem...

hope i helped :)
Katie


when you have sex & use a condom. is there any chance of being pregnant? (link)
There is always a chance of getting pregnant, no matter what kind of protection you use.


What would you do iuf you hurt someone's feelings (someone in your family) and you apologize but they don't want to forgive you? (link)
Give the person some time and space. MOst likely they are just still upset and need some time to cool down.
Just give them space, and smile at them once in a while, and be really nice to them.

Eventually, they should cool down and accept your apology.

Hope i helped! :)
Katie


you see i just created a new myspace. btw, im 13/f. last year i made one but deleted it before the school year so i wouldnt get distracted. theres this girl, i've known her since like.. 4th grade, and we've been friends since then. this year (well it just ended for summer) i was in 7th. so yeah, like 3 years. when i wasnt in her pod for 5th and 6th grade, she was more friendlier with me. it was like we were still good friends though we didnt see each other often. she even invited me to her sleepover bday party in 5th grade though i couldnt go, cause my parents wouldnt let me. but in 7th grade it was different. in the beginning of the year it was the same like the other years but it progressed and it was like she was less interested in really being my friend, as i saw it. she'd share secrets with other friends and stuff, and wouldnt hang around me as much. i'd hang around her, but it was like.. she was half-interested in me. when i made my myspace before we were on each other's Top friends list. but this year, at the end of the year she had another sleepover party but she didnt invite me! i asked her if i was invited and she said it was for close friends only. i didnt show her how i felt, but i felt hurt cause i've been a good friend to her and i've known her longer than some of the people she considered as "close friends". and in my new myspace, i asked to be on her top and shes like "ummm.. no your not going on my top" and idk if its just me, but it sounded really snotty and that kinda ruined my mood for the rest of the day. cause i put her on my top... and yeah. and my other friend, we all knew each other in 4th grade too, shes not even in our pod but she got invited to the sleepover party and is 3rd on her top friends list. i dunno what i did wrong.. or is she just a friend i should drop? cause im not sure.. i dont like losing friends but i dont like being friends with people who dont act like friends should. or am i overreacting? also, i havent replied to her "umm no your not going on my top" comment yet.. i dunno what to reply! should i just be like "thanks, but no thanks" or "okay.." or "are you mad at me or something?" cause this is really hard to do. =( (link)
like Tina_DUH said, drop her if she continues to be snotty towards you.

I sympathise with you..i just completed junior high (7th and 8th grade) and i can for sure tell you this....frienships change a lot, because you are really figuring out who you are, and discovering more about yourself. I lost a couple friends to junior high.

I don't think you ahve done anything wrong...ask her why she is mad (if she is) and tell her you feel hurt because you are being left out and feel like you don't hang out much anymore. If she is still snotty to you, then drop her.

Love the people who treat you right, and forget about those who don't (even though i know its hard...really, i do)

ok well hope i helped!
Katie


Hi, I'm 15/f. And I'm 4'11. I wanna to know things I can eat, drink, or do to get taller.
By the end of this summer, I want to grow at least 3 inches. Please, I really want to get a bit taller.

Ps: Please don't tell me "Just eat a balanced diet" or as to why I wouldn't be able to grow. Just answer if you know what I can do. (link)
Drink Lots of milk!
my cousin stopped drinking pop and drank milk all the time and she grew an inch in a month. my other cousin drinks like a gallon a day and is 6'5" and is 16 i think.
I don't know if you will get the same results, but it will probably help!




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