helllooo advicenatorss [=
im just wondering if anyone has
anyclue when someone is completely
over their ex. like, signs or
feelings. sorry this question is
not detailed but i dont want to go
through the whole story. thanks [=
by the way, ima female, 15.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jeanne answered Friday August 10 2007, 12:37 am: Hmmm... that's really hard to tell! But from my own experience: when I look back at some of my exes, I actually do have some feelings for them. The things I liked about them when we were together, I still like. And I treasure the memories of the good times we had together. But I also know that I have no desire to be in a relationship with them again, because I learned that we just couldn't work together. Soooo... it's possible to still have feelings for an ex, but at the same time be "over" them. I guess if you still find yourself wishing you were together, or thinking that it's still possible that you could have a good relationship, then you might not be over him. But don't confuse having some positive feelings about the guy with not being over him.
laceylikewoahh answered Friday August 10 2007, 12:18 am: You know when you almost forget his name or the memories you had with them.You begin to find more and more things you didn't like about them.Also, you tend to not think about them almost at all.You realize why you aren't together in the first place.Hope I helped. :] [ laceylikewoahh's advice column | Ask laceylikewoahh A Question ]
brokenheart456 answered Thursday August 9 2007, 4:19 pm: Basically, when you stop feeling weird around him and stop thinking about him all the time. Sure, you occasionally will think about him if you find something that reminds you of him.
askjendotorg answered Thursday August 9 2007, 2:45 pm: I don't know if you've ever read the Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, but in the fourth book one of the characters realized she was over her ex when she forgot about him (stopped thinking about him everyday). I thought that was a good way to declare officially being over someone. I think you'll know when you're over him. It's not something that just suddenly hits you, but in time as you think less and less about him and finally after a while you'll be like wow, I actually liked that guy?
PS Sometimes a good cry helps. Or getting rid of pictures and any belongings that you have of his.
memoriesxforeverx answered Thursday August 9 2007, 2:38 pm: hi,
i think the sighns when you are over your ex are when you are able to flirt again, only think of your ex as a friend or just a person but not anything else, and we you are intrested in other guys and talk about them. thats some signals that probably mean your over your ex
hope i helped :] [ memoriesxforeverx's advice column | Ask memoriesxforeverx A Question ]
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