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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months now. and all of a sudden hes asked for a naked pic ( i wont and havent given him one) i told him i deserved more respect than that, and he didnt seem to care that he hurt my feelings.
so school starts tommorrow and i will see him again. io want to break up with him and have waited till now to do it face to face.
how do i break up with him.
he wont care when i do, i doubt he even had feelings for me.
so suggestions?
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honestly thats good for you. you have respect for yourself. i just think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. just say that you feel like he doesnt care about your feelings and the fact that hes asking for naked pics in such a SHORT amount of time is ridiculous. i think breaking up with him is the best decision for you especially if he seems like he doesnt care. just try and keep it simple and to the point.. try not to argue because when guys get rejected or broken up with they can be a**holes. so try to do it in a good way. wish u the best of luck. --anny xo.
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my boyfriend and I are at the point where we just fight all the time. I dont know why. I say he pushes me into theses fights, he says im too confrontational etc. etc. blah blah. Its just stupid and we keep creating more problems. It isnt fun anymore. I dont know what to do. Does it sound like maybe we should just move on? Any advice please. (link)
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i know this sounds funny and stupid but if you guys actually sit down and talk about it you guys could prevent arguing and fighting so much. its not a healthy relationship if you are always fighting. you can both end up getting hurt so its better to talk about it and come up with a solution together. this doesnt have to mean that you guys need to move on. i would say talk about it and if you guys are still fighting then yeah its time to move on. like the person said if you keep fighting your not happy. and if your not happy then why are you guys together? think about it. and it should be something you guys speak about together, and hopefully try to speak. wish you the best. ---Anny. xo
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ok so i have really tiny boobs and im in 10th grade and i feel like im the only one becuase there are so many girls that have huge ones. I know i dont want to have huge ones but i would like at least a little i guess this is one of my self asteem issues. My mom never had huge boobs but she got a boob job and i was shocked when she told me. i would never do that. but this has really affected me becuase she never had alot so she did what made her comfortable and I dont care if thats what makers her happy. But i feel so uncomfortable with my body becuase all my friends have some and idk my questions is ...is there any way NATURAL way to make them grow any bigger not a whole size or whatever just a little (link)
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yes, just like the person below me said gaining weight does make your breast look bigger. what my friend does that i dont know if i would recommend is that she buys pushup bras. or even a bra that a size bigger. honestly, i would just recommend you to be happy with your breasts. in a way your lucky. i have a friend of mine who would kill for small boobs. she is constantley putting herself down becuase of how big her breast are. i just wish that we could all learn to love ourselves. you still have enough time to develop more believe me. youre srtill young. everyones body is different. i read in the seventeen magazine an article about why some girls the same age have different size of boobs. its because we are all different and our body develops when it wants too.(you can also pick up copies of that magazine they can help you alot with that issue.) i know this sucks but maybe you could learn to love your breasts. believe me its much easier that way.
--anny. xo
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hey..i been struggling for 5 months after my boyfriend broke up with me..i been really sad and dont know what to do :(...
here is my story am sorry if its too long..
ok we we lasted 2 yrs and 2 months going out but then he left to the dominican republic and he cheeted on me overdere with another girl...he posted pictures on myspace and when he came back i confronted him about it..he told me that was his cousin..but i actually got to talk to the girl and she told me that he was her boyfriend.my heart just dropped...i cant believe he actually did this to me because he loved me and he did alot of things for me...now he is here and he tells me to go to his house in the night so his parents wont see me ..but its just to have sex..i dont even want to go because i dont like doing those types of things with him...but its been 5 months since he broke up with me and my heart still hurts..its like its carrying a heavy pain..i cant seem to move on,its just hard for me, i try to let it go and not think about him but its hard, and no i dont go out because i hardly have friends here.am always stuck in my house.but can someone please tell me wat to do or do you guys have a similar story similar to mines..i appreacited .thanks :) (link)
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Hey, I am so sorry that this is happeneing to you. Trust me I know
How hard a breakup is. But you have to think about yourself here.
When he left to D.R. And messed around with someone he didn't
Care about you. He did what he needed to do to make himself
Happy then lied about it to you. That's pretty low!
I think you shod try and meet other guys. Go more often to the mall
Hang around with some friends. Or close family members trust me
That helps a lot. When me and my ex broke. up
I was extremly depressed. But I found that family and friends
Definetly help a lot in this situation. Plus you know he is
Using you just becuase he wants to have sex! Let that loser
Go. Its time you start thinking about yourself. You don't
Want to end up getting hurt again right?? You know the old sayingJ
Once a cheater always a cheater. And if he does want something
Serious with you he has to prove himself ! Anyway, I really suggest
You drop all contacts with this guy, he doesn't sound like
Good news. Good luck. - anny. F 18
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So i recently got a new boyfriend(lets call him M*xx), and a super sweet guy behind his "gangster" act. We have been dating for about three months now. Anyway after a dramitc experiance i made a vow to myself to keep my virginity as long as i can without any boys bribing me into it. M*xx has a diff. plan in mind. Yes, he holds my hand and kisses it, making me blush...but sometimes he tries to reach for my breast iwth his free hand when he thinks im not looking. And of course i push himm away. Sttubborn..he keeps trying. He tells me that one of these days im going to give into him, and i have fears that my vow will be broken before the year has ended. How do i keep the sensual mood going but not resulting in sex??
Thanks in advance.... 14/f (link)
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hey this is sweet and simple. if he loves you he will wait. i know uve heard that a million times but its the truth. ghuys now a days they dont care about the girl. as long as they get what they want its w.e. if that promise you made to yourself is important to you then go by it. dont let anyone stop you. he needs to respect you, and ur decisions. thats the truth. maybe you can tell him that you would like to wait a little longer before you lose it, and see what he says. if you dont wanna say it face to face maybe call him or textr him. but either way it has to be said and understood. you have to think whats more important to you. a promise you made to yourself or a boy?? im sorry im so blunt, this issue is very common with young girls. xoxo-anny 18 f . hope all is well. ! :)
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Okay so, This may be a bit confusing but bare with me. And I also apologize for any graphic descriptions. This is very hard for me. I am having trouble deciding wether or not I had a horrific dream or if something really happened. You see, I think my father molested me when I was about 6. But I am unsure as to wether or not I dreamed it. I recall him coming into my room several times when I was masturbating (humping a pillow)and I can remember him rubbing his penis on my vagina. I don't remember him ever actually sticking it in. The thought of it makes me sick. But I can also vividly remember him wiping my vagina with a washcloth when he was done, then telling me not to tell mom and then he left. I can remember the way it felt and everything. It disgusts me. I can also recall another time after that when I told my mother as my dad walked through the door but I dont remember anything that happened after. Its disturbing to think about but I have no proof that it really happened. Thats part of the reason I think its a dream. I also have had a dream or 2 before when I woke up and thought it really happened. I just need to know if it really happened. I cant even look at my dad the same way because of this and I dont dare ask anyone. What is your opinion? Did I dream it or was it real?
If it helps your decision any, I once found a porn video on his computer that was titled something to the effect of "Dad f**ks blonde teen daughter". I watched it and it didnt look that way and I know sometimes things can have a different title than what it really is. I mean it was an older man that had sex with a blonde girl and she called him daddy. But... :// I dont know!
:( Any answer is appreciated. Just elaborate your thoughts on it please. Thank you. (link)
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I don't really know what to say. That's horrible. I really think u should talk to your mom or atleast speak with a guidence counselor. I do believe that this could have
What's the worst your mom can say? Yea she will probably think ur nuts but just tell her that youhad a dream and yÓujust want to know if its true becuase its been killing you. I reallydont know what to say to youi can't say I can imagine how you are feeling becuase I can't. But I really hope you resolve this issue. It must be hard living like this. Please speak to someone who can help you about this and especially to your mom. She should understand. Its been 2 years since you posted this..maybe its time to speak up.
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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=573879
I started to feel better about it today. I felt bad earlier this morning but she texted "I need you to be strong for me" and I just kind of snapped out of it. I sent a huge message to her telling her about how it was all going to be alright. I felt alot better about it after that and although I felt a little empty in the back of my mind, I overall did a pretty good job of not thinking about it. we had a really good conversation. you were right. It really was that I just miss her. but I'm starting to fall back into the feeling again. I tried calling her and saying I love you over and over but I still just felt a little empty. I cant get rid of it and its eating me up. I really do love her. I know I do. but now is just idk.
I never questioned the foundations of our relationship before but several people have told me that long distance doesnt work and that maybe I want to date other people and Im starting to beleive them. I dont want to! I want my girlfriend. Im in college and theres lots of other girls whom I find attractive, and I crush on them every once in a while, but I know that after a year or so, I wouldnt be as happy with them as I have been with my girlfriend. I have so much in common with her. music, politics, style, viewpoints, everything. but I just find myself thinking about these other girls. I just want to love my girl and not crush on anyone else. how do I get rid of these doubts? I never felt like this before but now I feel like other people have pushed these negative thoughts into my mind. how do I focus on her? I love her. I miss her. i need her. I was so happy with her before all this and I dont want to throw what we have away for some silly crush. please help me.
have you been in a long-distance relationship before?
have you ever felt this?
Im not used to not having answers.
im so lost.
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Hey I'm soo soo sorry I couldn't answer ur question. I lost my account password and recently recovored my account I am super sorry! But I hope that everything tirned out good and that you don't have this problem still (eventhough that was a month ago) thanks for the messg once again I apologize hope all is well, but let me know how it worked out thanks. - anny F, 18
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18/m
My girlfriend and I have been together for a year or so. I knew her for a year before things became "official" so to speak. She lives a few states away. We've had great chemistry ever since we met. that first year and up until almost 6 months ago, we hadn't spent much time together in person but last July I went and spent 8 days with her and her family and things became 100x better than they had been. I realized I loved her when I realized that I wanted her to be the best she could be, I wanted her to be safe, I wanted her to be happy no matter what. She has said the same for me and I love her very much. I definitely could see spending the rest of my life with her.
About a month ago I just out of nowhere couldn't feel the excitement I had felt when I thought about her. I felt kind of lonely, but after praying about it and pushing away the feeling away, I felt just in love with her as I had been before. a week later, the same feeling came. I was on the phone with her and I just started crying. I don't know where it came from. I'm not a big crier but I just couldn't stop. I felt so empty, as if I didn't know how to love her anymore. I was frightened that the next time I see her (december 26th) I wont know how to love her or how to be excited.
Its been about a month now of off and on of this feeling. but this weekend has by far been the worst ever. I DONT WANT TO LOOSE THIS GIRL! I love her so much, but lately I just haven't been able to be happy.
Is it just stress? is it just that I miss her? I've never felt so bad in my life. She by far is the most amazing girl I have ever met. but right now I just cant seem to be excited about her. Im so lost. Help me! (link)
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Hey,
I totally agree with the person below me. But I wanna add a little it. We can all relate to this. I used to feel the same way. A lot of times it comes from the fact that you barely see her and aren't able to touch her whenever you want too. But don't worry. Just by what you wrote we can all tell that you are truely in love with this girl just don't over stress it. You might also be stressed. Just don't think about it. When you get that feeling push yourself to call her and just hear her voice and say I love you over and over. It will go away, it should go away, if ur truely in love. Just remember don't over stress it. Don't worry, you're not alone. XX-anny F. 18.
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i like a boy, he acts as if he likes me but acts different in front of his "HOMEES", we talk on the phone alot, what do i do, please help me Kiyya(please) (link)
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Hey.
Well only God knows how much I hate stupid guys who do this. They are super sweet to you when you're alone with them.but when his friends r around they are totally different guys. This turns me off so much. I think you should speak to him about it though. Just let him know that you notice he treats you different. And just see what he says. If he humiliates you in front of his pals I say let the kid go becuase he is a total jerk and doesn't really care about you. If he doesn't than maybe speak to him about it. Let him know that you like him and it hurts you when he treats you diffrently. Goodluck. I really do hope that ur situation gets fixed becuase I know its not easy. Best wishes XX-anny
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how do i stretch my vocal range?Is there any voice exercises to help? (link)
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Hey. You can do some breathing excersises. Also I heard that humming helps. You can also youtube this. Becuase they have a lot of great voice lesson videos. They r awesome. I checked them out and they were great.! You can also google videos, and such. Hope this worked. XX-anny
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how can you tell if a guy like you or not?? (link)
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Hey.
Well you can tell when a guy likes you by his body language. Does he smile at you often? Looks at you? Stares at you? Always agrees with you? Says hi? These are some simple questions you can ask yourself. Alsol its pretty hard to tell since we don't know the guy personally. You can also google it and type in "how do you know when a guy likes you". My best friend googled it and got some pretty cool stuff. Goodluck. XX -anny
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me and my best friend have been friends since kindergarden (im 13) and his sister is 14 i think she awesome and i didnt no id like her like this but i do so i asked her out and she said yes but idk if i should stay with her or brake up cause me and her r doing this behind his back plase help me (link)
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Hey.
Well I think you should probably speak to your friend about this and tell him that you like her. If you don't want to do this than maybe just do it slowly. Like maybe compliment her oneday in front of your friend. You know little things like this so he can probably get used to the idea that you have feelings for her. I don't think you guys should break up. If you like her then I don't know why you have to do that. Hopefully everything works out. I know it can be tuff. -anny.
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15/f
ok. i have a crush on this guy but i'm really shy i don't know what to say to him so i never talk to him. two months ago i had my friend set up an "interview" with him so i could find out what he likes. he found out the real reason behind the interview and now he just ignores me. i don't know why. why do you think he ignores me? what should i do?. i asked if he was mad at me and he said no. and it sounds weird because i'm not dating him or anything. but he's really close with one of my old friends he always sits next to her and talks to her and touches her and has her give him bak rubs. is it ok if i'm jealous about this? i probably shouldn't i don't own him or anything. but i can't help it. am i wrong to feel this way? please help me i feel so helpless (link)
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Hey. Well I think that maybe you should just appologize to the guy. Maybe he's mad becuase you were trying to find out things about him behind his back without telling him yourself. I also think maybe you should give him some time and maybe just start talking to him little by little after a while. And as for you being a little jealous when your friend talks to him, that's normal. Every girl would feel the same way if her friend was all over the guy you liked. But you know just give him some space maybe after he sees that he will speak to you himself. Hopefully this works. I know guys r super complicated and it sucks. =/ . Goodluck. -Anny.
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Please read this! Ok my name is Farrah and i am a 13 year old girl who is pretty obese. I get embarrased all the time with my friends because they are all skinny. I am tired of being fat!!! Does anyone have anyone good diets easy to make and good. Maybe even some good exercises that are also affordable and easy. Any advice will help and some personal experience would be greatly appreciated! PLEASE HELP! -overweight Farrah (link)
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Dear farrah,
I wish that kids could have mor confidence on their body. And at the same time be halthy. Anyway, since I know if I tell you the basic" I know u still look great, and jus be happy" u won't listen and that won't help you. So im gonna tell you some great excersises that could help so when you return to school kids can say you lost weight. (Just remember that that isn't the most important thing in life soon you will grow to underdstand) some good excersises are sqats. Hey work for your legs. Maybe try 50 every night and morning. Also do situps on the floor. Its hard to do but if you do it you will find your self healthy, and losing weight. Now don't get carried away with it becuase appearance isn't everything. Please LOVE YOURSELF.
- anny
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I really need babysitting jobs but i don't know anyone who has little kids. how should i get more people to ask me to babysit? i have red cross training. help me please! 14/f (link)
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screw everybody elses answer. no! im really just kidding but this is going to really help you. okay this is the way i got my babysitting job. okay go to craigslist.com and choose your state and look at all the categories search for childcare click it and you will find alot of people asking for babysiters around your area. some of them leave there number if not email them tell them what you do and if they are interested they will contact you back. now when you go to meet up with them make sure!!! you GO WITH A PARENT! never go alone okay.
hope that helped atleast a little.
xoxo
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Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks
1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places (link)
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IGNORE the person below me. They are dumb and obviously can't read the title the fact that it is a question and you're asking if you're a whore. Imagine if one of you're friends did this? You'd probably think she was a whore right? Look really you need to respect yourself more. You're young and you have a whole life ahead of you. You can't be doing this to yourself. If you want a bf there's other ways to get it. These guys are taking advantage you should learn how to respect yourself. They are treating you like a toy.
So just stop it. Think about the fact that that isn't fair to you. There is still time for you to fix yourself. You know better than this. You are better than this. There is still time to fix what you did. Just ask for forgiveness. That's usually the way out.
Xoxo hope it works out and that you choose the right decision.
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13/f
my friend is at camp which does not let you bring cellphones so she has nto read the message saying that her bf broke up with her.
me and her bf are friends.
yesterday i got a text from him (((first time i have talked to him in about 2 months))).
We talked, as friends do, then he started flirting and i dont him to stop. I yelled at him saying that he cant do that to my friend.
Then he asked me out twice, then he was tryin gto make me mad by saying that their were hot girls at the pool (((it didn't work, i dont like him))), and e keeps sending me texts messages.
one saying that i was delicious (((he wouldn't know)))
and one saying that he will stop asking me out if i kiss him.
i yelled at him and told him to treat me with respect. So i told him to stop texting me. then he said that he was sorry and that he wants me to be his friend again.
my b-day is coming up soon and i want him there, and i invited him to my party before i knew that he broke up with my friend. so what do i do. i cant have him and my friend there can i???
what should i do?? should i be his friend or should i not?
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Its not right. Your friend might find out what happend. And she will be crushed. Trust me its notworth losing a friend over. Tell the guy to back off he's a perv. Hehe and tell him to get a life you're not interested. Don't be his friend he's probably bored and trying to use you. Don't pay any attention to him if he texts you stay away. I had a friend that did that to me I was crushed. Except she went farther. Butt trust me it isn't worth losing a friend over.
Sincerly,
Kitty
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Well this is the first song i've written it's not that good but i just need advice on how i can improve the song or if it's good or if i need to change afew words
heres the song-
Over you
You left like you never knew me
You could've stayed
We could've worked it out
But you just took off and ran
Oh baby if only you knew
How much i loved you
& needed you Ohhh
But babe i'm just so over you
Over you
Completely over you
Ohhh overrr you
I just don't need you
Over you
So many sleepless night
& never did you care
So many tears and fears
& you were never there
I've worked real hard &
Never mind the nights i had to cry
Better off without you ooohhh
But babe i'm just so over you
Over you
Completely over you
Ohhh overrr you
I just don't need you
Over you
You were just so crul
You lied so many times
made me cry so many times
You'll come back no doubt
But boy im so much smarter and wiser
i dont need you
I got through alone
Babe Im just so voer youu
Overr you yehhh
Over youuuu (link)
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This song is perfect the way it is. You want to know why? Because you wrote it. And we can all tell that it was how you were feeling becuase of all the words in it. Noone can make it better than you. You're the only one who knows how you're feeling and how you want the song to be. Sure we can help you but then it won't be a song from the heart. A song you wrote by yourself from expirence.
Don't worry. I love it! Sounds awesome. Wouldn't change anything. You should record it. It might actually change your life. Who knows right?
Sincerly,
^.^
Kitty.
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ok this one's not too important. but i'm just curious about something i found odd, and i figured i'd get some other opinions about it ...
ok so at school i became really good friends with this guy named matt. we had classes together and just became really close this past semester. and that made me really happy because he's an awesome person. that, and because i had been absolutley in love with him. i had the biggest crush on him you could imagine, i hadn't felt that way about anyone since my ex, so this was pretty exciting for me. alas, we ended up just being friends after all and he got himself a girlfriend. oddly enough, i wasn't even upset. i was just happy i had him in my life as a friend. plus, i knew his girlfriend (i was friends with her too - though not as close) and she's a sweetheart. around the time of his graduation, his girlfriend threw him a surprise party, and i was one of the few invited. during the party she kept telling me how happy she was that i was there, and that she knew that matt was really happy too. when matt graduated, he vowed that we'd keep in touch over the summer. we haven't really, which is kinda sad but i'm not about to bend over backwards to get in contact with him. he's a busy guy and he's in a serious relationship so i'm not going to bother him.
ok now for the weird part: recentley i found his girlfriend on myspace. (and it was ordinary enough. someone i had added on facebook had a link to their myspace and out of pure boredom i was looking at it and noticed that she was in this person's top 8. so i added her, only because i knew her and we were friends so i figured it'd be nice to keep in touch and what not.
so she added me. and she left me a comment on one of my pictures and the usual stuff. then i left her a comment just asking how she's been and how's her summer, etc. instead of commenting me back she sent me a message with her response. which was kinda strange, but no big deal. then the next day i noticed that she deleted *almost* everything off her page (i.e. her layout, interests, about me and stuff, basically everything about herself) and changed her name. then, the part that got me the most, she deleted my comment. only mine.
now i might be thinking too much about it, but it just seems weird to me. at first i thought deleting everything off her page was strange, but then deleting my comment? that just didn't make sense. what do you guys think could be the problem? should i not have added her? do you think it maybe has something to do with matt?
any input would be appreciated, because i honestly have no effin clue.
note: some important factors to also know:
-she did not know that i had ever liked matt, nor did i tell anyone for it to get around to her in anyway.
-he never acted strange around me, and esp. not when she was there, which was often.
-we're in college, not high school (i don't know, for some reason that might matter, lol).
ok, that is all :) (link)
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Hey.
Wow that does seem strange. But no worries I've had people who deleted my comment sucks I know. Maybe it was a mistake since u said all of her other layouts were deleted. Also, myspace is stupid. (Eventhough I have one haha) but yeah I used 2 comment my sis a lot one day I noticed she deleted one of my comments which only said hi.. I found it weird. But she said she never deleted we thought myspace was facing some technical problems. Maybe that's the problem. If anything ask the girl that you noticed she deleted your comment andwhy? If she responds roudly for some reason maybe she really doesn't like you then just forget about her. Your world doesn't revolve around her anyway. ^.^
As for the guy. I know you're prob. Crushed about not keeping in touch with him. Why don't you try a small myspace comment, a text, or even a small convo on the phone or aim. That couldn't hurt?
Hope eveything goes well. Nd sry if it was long lol
Good luck. =]
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so in the 6th grade i had got with this guy name well lets call him "dude" well me and dude were on and off untill 8th grade when he had got this new girl friend name well "chick"
well i became very jealous to the fact that I fell in love with him and he dumped me for her..well alot of drama had got started cause he would still call me when he was with her
well me and dude finally stopped talking and I both moved schools...now sometime passed by and dude called me from a private number and we began to talk and then like 2 weeks later he told me to stop calling him so I did now its been a whole year and we are at the end of our 9th grade year and dude calls me again and we begin to talk and told him not to talk to me and then decide to stop calling me and he said okay but the only reason why I did it in the first place is because I was with chick...and I was like okay whatever..we had been talking for like a month or 2 now and decided to see each other again well we planned on going to the movied together but 3 days before we were suppose to go i found out from his myspace profile that he was back with chick and i didnt care at the time so I messed around with him at the theater and then we went back to his place and did alot of sexuall things..I gave him head he rubbed me down there suck on my boobs and I didnt have underwear on just for you to know IDK if that is a turnoff for him or not...well now he hasnt called me since then and dosent say much on the 5 messages he has sent me on myspace..I tried to add his brother as a friend but he wouldnt say yes or no neither would his brothers girl friend IDK what to do I really love him and Im so confussed and plus he is having a birthday party and I wasnt invited maybe because of the fact that I dont get along with his friends but PlEASE help what do you think is going on with us I have way to much pride to ask him and well please help me (link)
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something like this happeend to me, so i found it interesting and kept reading your problem. i was madly in love with this guy and he kept saying that he loved mme. this happened when i was in the 6th grade we went out on and off until sophmore year which is now and i found out he had a gf and he lied about it while we were still messing around and we stopped talking but i still really love him and cant stand the distance. now with me telling you this what advice would you give me? would you tell me to keep trying harder like to get with him again? but he hurts me everytime we get together, or would you say to get over him hes a jerk..what makes more sense. whatever you would answer to me you should answer to yourself.
its a matter of knowing what you really want. you cant love a guy like this. it has to be a 2 way street. eevrytime you get near this guy he pushes you away and it ends bad and then somehow again you guys start talking to eachother. is that the way you want to be? you have to think. you keep getting hurt everytime you talk to him. end it now the sooner the better. i once posted a question like this and they answered saying "right now it seems like the end of the world becuase you have to get over him and you think you wont but you will, trust me" and at that time i thought i wont. but evryday i get over him a little more and its getting better, and guess what im better now and you will be too. there are aLOT OF HOTTER AND NICER GUYS OUT THERE youre worth more than this. trust me you will get over it and sometimes you just have to think "whats best for me>"? being with him or without him. you know the answer to that question more than anyone else here. you will be better its not the end of the world trust me. =]
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