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Don't really know how to summarize or categorize this...
ok this one's not too important. but i'm just curious about something i found odd, and i figured i'd get some other opinions about it ...
ok so at school i became really good friends with this guy named matt. we had classes together and just became really close this past semester. and that made me really happy because he's an awesome person. that, and because i had been absolutley in love with him. i had the biggest crush on him you could imagine, i hadn't felt that way about anyone since my ex, so this was pretty exciting for me. alas, we ended up just being friends after all and he got himself a girlfriend. oddly enough, i wasn't even upset. i was just happy i had him in my life as a friend. plus, i knew his girlfriend (i was friends with her too - though not as close) and she's a sweetheart. around the time of his graduation, his girlfriend threw him a surprise party, and i was one of the few invited. during the party she kept telling me how happy she was that i was there, and that she knew that matt was really happy too. when matt graduated, he vowed that we'd keep in touch over the summer. we haven't really, which is kinda sad but i'm not about to bend over backwards to get in contact with him. he's a busy guy and he's in a serious relationship so i'm not going to bother him.
ok now for the weird part: recentley i found his girlfriend on myspace. (and it was ordinary enough. someone i had added on facebook had a link to their myspace and out of pure boredom i was looking at it and noticed that she was in this person's top 8. so i added her, only because i knew her and we were friends so i figured it'd be nice to keep in touch and what not.
so she added me. and she left me a comment on one of my pictures and the usual stuff. then i left her a comment just asking how she's been and how's her summer, etc. instead of commenting me back she sent me a message with her response. which was kinda strange, but no big deal. then the next day i noticed that she deleted *almost* everything off her page (i.e. her layout, interests, about me and stuff, basically everything about herself) and changed her name. then, the part that got me the most, she deleted my comment. only mine.
now i might be thinking too much about it, but it just seems weird to me. at first i thought deleting everything off her page was strange, but then deleting my comment? that just didn't make sense. what do you guys think could be the problem? should i not have added her? do you think it maybe has something to do with matt?
any input would be appreciated, because i honestly have no effin clue.
<b>note:</b> some important factors to also know:
-she did not know that i had ever liked matt, nor did i tell anyone for it to get around to her in anyway.
-he never acted strange around me, and esp. not when she was there, which was often.
-we're in college, not high school (i don't know, for some reason that might matter, lol).
ok, that is all :)
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I do agree that it was strange. Did you leave a picture with your comment? Maybe she thought it took up too much room or didn't fit her layout well. Or another possiblity is someone hacked into her account because password stealing is common on there.
What I would do is send another comment, one without a picture and just see what happens, or you could send a message and just ask if everything is okay with her account because you noticed the layout is different and your comment was gone.
Since you don't have a clue as to why it happened or what she was thinking, try not to read too much into it without knowing more.
If she responds in a negative manner or not at all. I'm guessing it may have something to do with "Matt" just maybe he revealed to her different intentions other than friendship about you and that has her concerned. Not because of anything you did--but because of something he did.
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Hey.
Wow that does seem strange. But no worries I've had people who deleted my comment sucks I know. Maybe it was a mistake since u said all of her other layouts were deleted. Also, myspace is stupid. (Eventhough I have one haha) but yeah I used 2 comment my sis a lot one day I noticed she deleted one of my comments which only said hi.. I found it weird. But she said she never deleted we thought myspace was facing some technical problems. Maybe that's the problem. If anything ask the girl that you noticed she deleted your comment andwhy? If she responds roudly for some reason maybe she really doesn't like you then just forget about her. Your world doesn't revolve around her anyway. ^.^
As for the guy. I know you're prob. Crushed about not keeping in touch with him. Why don't you try a small myspace comment, a text, or even a small convo on the phone or aim. That couldn't hurt?
Hope eveything goes well. Nd sry if it was long lol
Good luck. =]
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