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I started to feel better about it today. I felt bad earlier this morning but she texted "I need you to be strong for me" and I just kind of snapped out of it. I sent a huge message to her telling her about how it was all going to be alright. I felt alot better about it after that and although I felt a little empty in the back of my mind, I overall did a pretty good job of not thinking about it. we had a really good conversation. you were right. It really was that I just miss her. but I'm starting to fall back into the feeling again. I tried calling her and saying I love you over and over but I still just felt a little empty. I cant get rid of it and its eating me up. I really do love her. I know I do. but now is just idk.
I never questioned the foundations of our relationship before but several people have told me that long distance doesnt work and that maybe I want to date other people and Im starting to beleive them. I dont want to! I want my girlfriend. Im in college and theres lots of other girls whom I find attractive, and I crush on them every once in a while, but I know that after a year or so, I wouldnt be as happy with them as I have been with my girlfriend. I have so much in common with her. music, politics, style, viewpoints, everything. but I just find myself thinking about these other girls. I just want to love my girl and not crush on anyone else. how do I get rid of these doubts? I never felt like this before but now I feel like other people have pushed these negative thoughts into my mind. how do I focus on her? I love her. I miss her. i need her. I was so happy with her before all this and I dont want to throw what we have away for some silly crush. please help me.
have you been in a long-distance relationship before?
have you ever felt this?
Im not used to not having answers.
im so lost.
-M
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Hey I'm soo soo sorry I couldn't answer ur question. I lost my account password and recently recovored my account I am super sorry! But I hope that everything tirned out good and that you don't have this problem still (eventhough that was a month ago) thanks for the messg once again I apologize hope all is well, but let me know how it worked out thanks. - anny F, 18
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