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my best friends sister
me and my best friend have been friends since kindergarden (im 13) and his sister is 14 i think she awesome and i didnt no id like her like this but i do so i asked her out and she said yes but idk if i should stay with her or brake up cause me and her r doing this behind his back plase help me
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Welpp me and my bestfriend (both girls] dated once. & It went great. We never told any1 because i felt wrong. Im not bisexual anymore tho im in a healthy 7month relationship with my boyfrann. Anyywho; You shouldnt feel wrong especally if you both really like eachother. You should both sitdown and talk too hem. Tell me how it goes!
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Well, if you hide it long enough until he finds out on his own, your friendship will go in jeopardy. It's better to tell him the truth. Honesty is what makes a friendship real. Sometimes truth hurts but it's better to expose it and move on. You've basically betrayed him for doing it behind his back. just so it doesn't interfere with your relationship with his sister, tell him the truth. He should understand!!!
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That is a difficult situation to be in. I don't see why you two shouldn't go out- since there is a mutual attraction, and she already wants to go out with you, you should at least see how things go with her. You even mentioned that you think she's awesome, which is a very good sign. I am sure that you know what kind of a person she is already. Just because she is your best friend's sister, doesn't mean that she is off limits. You aren't doing anything wrong in this situation. I think that you should talk to her about it and let her know that you feel a bit uncomfortable going out with her behind her brother's back, and see how if she is okay with maybe having the two of you explain to her brother that you really like each other and get along well, and that you are interested in seeing each other. You don't have to tell him that you have already been going out, but that you are going to-- but you should definitely talk to her first, and then come to an agreement on how best to let her brother know. It might be awkward for all three of you- but the important thing to remember is that you two like each other in more ways than one, and that nothing should get in the way of your relationship. Your friend will have to accept it... and considering how long you two have known each other, it might be a lot easier for him to do so. Doing anything behind anyone's back is never really the way to go.
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Hey.
Well I think you should probably speak to your friend about this and tell him that you like her. If you don't want to do this than maybe just do it slowly. Like maybe compliment her oneday in front of your friend. You know little things like this so he can probably get used to the idea that you have feelings for her. I don't think you guys should break up. If you like her then I don't know why you have to do that. Hopefully everything works out. I know it can be tuff. -anny.
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