Question Posted Saturday November 14 2009, 7:00 pm
i like a boy, he acts as if he likes me but acts different in front of his "HOMEES", we talk on the phone alot, what do i do, please help me Kiyya(please)
blackluna7111 answered Saturday November 14 2009, 11:06 pm: Hey.
Well only God knows how much I hate stupid guys who do this. They are super sweet to you when you're alone with them.but when his friends r around they are totally different guys. This turns me off so much. I think you should speak to him about it though. Just let him know that you notice he treats you different. And just see what he says. If he humiliates you in front of his pals I say let the kid go becuase he is a total jerk and doesn't really care about you. If he doesn't than maybe speak to him about it. Let him know that you like him and it hurts you when he treats you diffrently. Goodluck. I really do hope that ur situation gets fixed becuase I know its not easy. Best wishes XX-anny [ blackluna7111's advice column | Ask blackluna7111 A Question ]
Rachelpb9 answered Saturday November 14 2009, 10:42 pm: Does he act like he likes you when you two are alone? If so, then he probably thinks his friends don't approve. Either that or he's just shy and doesn't feel comfortable with public displays of affection. If you talk on the phone a lot then i=that means he's comfortable with you just not the combination of you and his friends. All you can do is talk to him. Tell him how you feel but don't lay it on too thick or don't beat around the bush just be straight forward. Then he'll know that this isn't a joke and he needs to decide what he wants. Give him space to decide but don't seem desperate like you're waiting on him every second. Just make sure you guys TALK about it. That's the most important thing. Don't avoid the topic becuase then it's just going to get worse. Remember, communication is key. Wish ya the best of luck :)
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