yea umm im 14 and a girl
Ok this is gonna be long. I went out with this kid joe for like 4 months. the whole time we were going out this girl Amy was always flirting with him even around me. I would tell her to stop but she never listened and always denied liking him. Well when me and joe broke up I asked him if he liked Amy cuz it kinda seemed like he did but he said she would be the last person he would ever go out with. So then like two weeks later he goes out with amy. I was over him completely but it still made me mad that he had lied to me. They'e been going out for like 4 months now and theyve gone all the way. Two months ago my best friend andrew asked me out. I'm sooo in love with him but guess what's happening. Amy likes him even though shes going out with joe. She always tells me online how andrew always flirts with other girls when im not around. when i ask my friend nichole whos around him a lot she says thats not true.I know andrew would never hurt me or like anyone else. Hes liked me more than anyone else from the moment he met me. One time andrew had to sleep over amys house because her mom is friends with his mom and he couldnt get a ride back home.
Amy: Did andrew tell you what he did on sunday?
Me: No. Why?
Amy: Oh he wouldn't have.
Me: What did he do?
Amy: He slept over my house.
Me: ((theres nothing i could do about it anyway)) thats cool
Amy: OMG!!! Why dont you ever care what he does!! He flirts with like everyone and you dont even care!!
Me: I do care but i trust him so i dont worry too much.
Amy: w/e
I know she is lying but idk what to do. Please help me out. I hate her and i dont know how to handle it without like telling her i hate her cuz she kinda thinks we're friends. I cant be mean to people and i really dont wanna lose my boyfriend cuz i love him more than anything. Please help me!!!!! ((sorry this is so long))
okey i am just like you..i hate being meen to people or at least i used to be like that..i will absolutely hate someone and want to kick their ass but whenever they cry or sey sry i luv u i jsut forget about it and forgive them i am soooo forgiving like that..but you cant live your life like that sometimes because everyone needs to be mean at some points to some people this girl is going to make your life miserable if you dont tell ehr off..tell her that she needs to back off and she has joe she got him ( ur sloppy seconds but still) and now your happy with andrew and u trust him and hes happy with you nothing she can do can change that and make sure she understands that no matter what yell scream do whatever you need to do so she can understand that and talk to andrew tell him what she did with joe and how she goes out wit him and u kno thats their friends and u repeect that you even trust him but it only takes one person to turn around and kiss someone..and tell him you dont want to loose your relationship cuz u luv him so much..and for joe..fuck him he dun deserve you..hope i helped . . KaT *
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is it normal for me to be crying over little things when i get my period??
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yes i do all the time . . KaT *
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I have this friend and I have been friends with her for like 5 years, and recently I met this guy and I like him a lot, and I told her that. And this guy told me that he liked me too. Well now she is going out with him. He still calls me and say that he loves me and wishes he was with me. I don't know if I should talk to the girl or if I should stay a way from her since she stabbed me in the back. What should I do?
no every girl gets one or two guys stolen by their best friends..no matter what the circumstances..i did that to my best friend int he whole world and theres nothing i regret more i meen at the time i didnt because i made excuses but sumtimes ppl do it for thea own self esteem..tell the guy if he realli luvs u then to dump ur friend and go out wit you ! but dont let htis ruin ur fvriendship . . KaT *
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Hi.. My name's amy! Ohh I'm female lol.. And I've kind of had a problem my whole life, and it's the whole ideal of being shy. I'm 14 years old, and I have yet to make out with a boy or any of that sweet stuff. I've hugged and pecked guys. But its just.. Everytime I would kiss my boyfriend, the next day I'd come into school slapping my head and saying, Why would I do something like that, I feel so stupid, and then my face turns red. Also, the other night, I was hanging out with my boyfriend, and he hugged me like we were watching fireworks, and he just put his arm around my neck.. and I just stood there motionless. I had no idea what to do! I just started laughing. Many guys have broke up with me for the reason that I am shy. Is there a way I can change? Because all boys think I start laughing or being shy because I'm using them, or that I don't like them. What would you did in my situation..? Thanks alot!
i am shy too..really really shy but like sometimes its not always a horrible thing..if you just dont like abuse it..if you are friends with your boyfriend first before going out wit him..just act lik friend jsut wen he puts his arm around you lean over..i know you want to kiss him..so dont b afraid and if you dont want to ksis him which it doesnt sound like then theres no rush..take your time..but let your boyfriend make the first moves then..jsut dont totally ignore them..hopedd that helped . . KaT *
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Okay Herez My Deal:
My friend and I have gotten into lotz of fights before well one time she gave me this girls p/w so i went on her s/n real quick to get this boyz s/n and then i signed off and never went on it again well my "friend" told the girl and she called me a female dog in her profile and said never go on my s/n again and its mostly emmie! and then she got mad at them because they went up to her house carlee,gabby(the one's who p/w i had),and mallory and carlee said to emmie why r u leaving mallory out and emmie said cuz i don't like her! and then gabby said im on emmies side then carlee started saying funny stuff and gabby said im on carlee's side now and well emmie told me this on the phone and hung up! but i have had lotz of good times w/ emmie but shes really fat and no one likes her!what should i do? Please HELP!
omg i have had the sameeee problem with one of my exbest friends..we were soooo close and lik bffl we were always together and shit but not many ppl liked her and she was relaly fat and annoying sometimes but we used to fight and she sold me out and we were like always fiten but still lik manging to b bffl but then at the beginning of the summer we got into our last/final fite she sed that she wudnt care if i died and that was it for me i guess sometimes i feel lik i need her and i cry because i want to be her friend..not only because of allt he good times i had with her but because of how much wew ere just there for eachothr even if in the end i cudnt trust her..but you hafta realize your pride and dignity is worth mcuh more..wen a friend disrespects you like in this case what emmie did to you..you need to leeave her behind..even if you loose lots of friends..you know they were never true and emmie and you just arent ment to b friends i guess.everything happens for a reason..and thats wat happened wit me and my old friend . . . KaT *
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my friend who i was REALLY close to now has a bf so obviously they do "things" together and stuff and i know she's been drunk b4 and stuff like that and i haven't and it just feels to me that we aren't as close because it's not as fun for her to tell me things anymore since i can't relate and i don't kno how to make things the way they used to be
talk to your friend..the only way to hold a friendship together is both of the friends have to try..it takes two..and like just because you havent gone through it doesnt make it any less of fun to tell you because your still friends and you shouldnt have to get drunk or fuck guys to be able to talk to your best friend..tell her that you still want to talk to her and hear her stories and be close no matter what guy she is with...because eventaully they will break up and she is going to want to b bffl wit u agen . . . KaT *
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ok theres this guy hes reallly sweet and just everything any gurl could want hes fukin hott t0o!! lol...well we kno eachother in person but live kinda far away so dont c eachotha alot...we keep in contact by fone and mostly AOL!!...he used to be in love with me and i kinda blew him off....i took the time to get to kno him and relized hes a gr8 guy!! and now i REALLLLY like him...i told him and he says he likes me alot too but the long distance kills it!! but we flirt ALOT on the internet..well lately...hes been ignorin me and he NEVER IMs me anymore...he used ot IM me and talk to me ALL the time...now he NEVER does..i hav to IM him and we hav a gr8 convo...but like rite now hes on and i told my self not to IM him bc i ALWAYS do...and hes been on for like an hour and still hasnt IMed me...it really hurts my feelings...HELLPP...=\ wat shuld i do..
maybe he feels like he fought for you soo long and soo hard that it is your turn to try and get him . everyone likes a chase . . . KaT *
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i know this is really long.. but i really need help.
okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do?
i think you should make sure that you and ur old boyfriend are over and then move on with the new one..you need to move on but make sure your not making a hugeee mistake doing that..
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this is for anyone whose parents divorced, i just need to get a general idea of what it's gonna be like at divorce court. we're going to court at the end of september. my dad has had a girlfriend for around three years and last summer (2003) she had a baby boy. i am thirteen and my little brother is 11. will i get to tell my side of the story? will my brother? how long will it take? thanks for reading this and please don't answer if you've never been to divorce court.
well its different for every family and the circumstances..wen my parents got divorced..we hadda go to court so many times but my dad refused to sign the papers..but with different cases they use differen methods..they didnt ask me or my two brothers anything, and my brother is older then me so at the time he was lik 10 11 n 12..they try to keep the kids out of it at all cost but sumtimes they need the kids to make statements and choose which house they wud rather live at..so they mite make you choose and se wat environment is better for u . . KaT *
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i like this guy alejandro.. he's like my best guy friend and i can tell him nething n he's always thea 4 me.. one dai we hooked up and i got the feeling tht maybe i like him more than jus a friend.. all my friends told me he sed he liked me but they all thot i didnt want a bf (which i didnt but then i kissed him n i decided i did). the next day, he tells me he's going out with this girl debbie that he's liked since june and she lives near him so its easy 4 him. hooking up is usually no big deal so i guess he thot i had no feelings 4 him whatsoever but i did. the past couple dayz he's been saying how much he likes debbie and how hot she is and all that kind of stuff and it breaks my heart to hear. at one point i was gna tell him i like him and everyone told me i shud but then that nite i was talking to him and i asked him the ? if he was happy.. he told me he was realli happy n i cud tell he meant it so i cudnt get the courage to tell him how i felt about him cuz i didnt wanna confuse him or ruin his relationship with debbie somehow. since then i kind of give the hint to him but he just seems pretty clueless. i got the advice before that i shud tell him but since thats not an option nemore, i dont know what to do.. kat plzzz help cuz i know your right most of the times wen it comes to advice.. what shud i do???
ok denise furst off i luv u soo mcuh nd its ok..i meen think about it this is ales first gf lik all year besides bri .. u hav had allot of boyfriends im not tryen to b meen and call u a slut cuz ur not n evrythign im just seyen..de u cnt tell him ne more i meen hes happi he luvs this grl..u just gutta sit by and let sumone else hav the boi for a change..ur not used to having ur hart realli broken and ur deff not used to having sumone else make the boiz of ur dream happi..but lik for this one u just gutta bak off u sey ale is ur bffl in the hole wrld and all that shit .. well then let him b ur best friend and do wat u wued do for ne othr best firned...make them happi and if u wnt ale to b happi u gutta just let him n his gf hav a chance i meen at one point or another they will break up and if its absolutly killing u then u can tell him that u dun wnt him to always talk bout her but de...this time it cnt b abbout u im not tryen to b mean but this time it dun mttr how u feel or nething its about ur best friend sacraficing ur hart is just sumtin u gutta do for him..and one day ull get ur chance baby i promise u one day he will realize jthat u make him happi not debbie or w/e and wen he realizes that ur relationship will b bttr then evr..becuz if u steal him frtm debbie hell always think of wat cudda happened wit her..so u just gutta b patient and wait..i luv u grlieeee . . . KaT *
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Dear Kat,
i dont kno what to do im jz so cunfuzed u see im addicted to sex...my boyfriend Mike is really pissed off at me you see i dont wanna talk or kiss i jz wanna bang him im 13 and i shudnt hav this kinda addiction pleeze help me i realli need u ive had counsellin but noone kan help me...eventuaally my bf will break up w. me ...n i dont want that to happn...
---->kikee(lol)
kamarah these are seriosu ppl with serious questions.... n ur ruinin it. ur lucky ur my best friend lol
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Okay i have my bf of 4 years you all know this if you answerd one of my questions before and all but anyway...
I love him to death but there are times where he really frustrates me like today he wanted to see me and i had things to do and same with yesterday hes like you made plans with me and i never did hes really bad at forgetting things too...but he gets really selfish on things all the time like wanting too see me..well me i have dance and soccer practice and house stuff that i do all the time and i still try and make time for him but when i have littel things that come up he gets pissed when i think that he should really just understand that these things can come up...What advice would you give me to give him beside the things i already say to him like love goes fonder when not together i mean yeah you miss the person but for me i love him more nd more every second and everything and there are times when i like to just be by myself in my room and not have him here...what do you think i should tell him besides the things that i already tell him?
-Cassi-
uve ben togethr for fourr years..thats crazii lol well it sounds lik ur realli in luv .. and hes lik obsessed with you..which can get annoyen and lik selfish on his part..but lik you shud b happi that u hav someone that luvs you and not always wna spend time apart..xplain to him that shit happens and things cum up but ur gna do ur best to see him and to try n spend time wit him..but him getten mad wont solve ne thing..and realli try to make time for him so u can b wit him more..bcuz just for u bein away frum him that makes u luv him more or w/e that duznt meen it wrks for him mayb he needs to b around u to luv u more..ya nvr knoe..hope i helped . . KaT *
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13-Female
I went out with this guy for 4 months, (From October to January) and I broke up with him because I thought I had no feelings left for him. I guess it was just a time of the moment thing, because ever since January I've been soo depressed. I've wanted to kill myself. I'd cry every single night. Sometimes I still do. He's not taking me back, and he's a year younger. So I guess he might think I took advantage of him. But, his bestfriend rides my bus and he told me a bunch of shit that wasn't true, and he made me believe it. So basically I was forced to break up with him, blah de blah de blah. I told my ex about his best friend, and he made exscuses for him. Like "Maybe he was jealous, or sometimes he gets mad or hyper and does stupid stuff".
So anyways, this guy that I seriously want to spend the rest of my life with, well I need a way to get him back. I don't just want to be with him forever, I need to be with him forever.
Please, If someone could help me at all, I'd owe you a big one, and I'll rate you too, I just need help. =/
wow..r u sure that ur soo in luv with him? becuz if u thot u had no feelings for him mayb nothing changed..its just that u r lonelyy cuz ur used to havin a boyfriend..n his friend is soo meen that he ruined ur relationship lik that..if u r sure that u luv him mayb u shud talk to him bout his friend and tell him that u still lik him..u mite not wnt to sey the luv n the rest of ur life..it mite scare him a lil bit lol but yaa ne ways and lik just dun giv up if u luv him fite for him do w/e u can..if u realli realli luv him then dun let go w/e u do..hopee i helped * . . KaT
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Alright...I have moved away,but I still love this same guy and i an't get over him and I know deep down he still loves me too..he always tells me he misses me n thinks about me all the time..but he is talking/dating someone else..what should i do?
move on..look the onlii reason u havent moved on is cvuz deep dwn in ur hart u still hav hope for him and ur relationship but its too far away,..ull move on and find sumone bttr for u .. everything happens for a reason n u moved for a reason not to see if u cud make it in a long distance relationship becuz u knooo u can get ovr him onlii u can control the way u feel it cud take 2 years but wen it comes to the point that u r going to move on and get ovr him ur gna make urself do that..u can always luv him but at one point u wont want him or need him ne more..just get urself to that point and everything frum thea will wrk out
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Im 16, and a while ago I was involved with this guy who was 18. He was a senior at my best friends school, and he was gorgeous and popular etc. I met him because he works at My gymnastics school
Now me, im invisable in my school. Im shy and no one notices me, I hide behind books and avoid talking whenever possible, but im different at gymnastics. My teammates are my best friends and im outgoing etc when im with them
When we met, I was seriously depressed about being invisable, and only my best friend knew. Now she went to school with the other kid, but she wasnt popular so he didnt talk to her.
Anyway, one day my best friend was working with him, and he told her he really thought i was pretty and kept asking questions about me and this pulled me out of my depression
-he saw me when i was invisable
Then a few weeks later we actually talked, like hed call etc, and he eventually broke my shyness and i ended up at his house in his bed making ut with him. That went on for a while, wed keep hooking up till he tried to get farther to fast. I told him to stop and he respected that then not much later he blew me off because i wouldnt sleep with him
After that I pretended to get over him quickly, but I still saw him at gymnastics, and when i worked with him hed be all over me, or when id be working out and hed be coaching, hed coach when my teammates were on the beam, but stop and watch when i was etc. He played major mind games with me, and I played them back. I went out with this other kid he goes to school with just so hed be jealous (which he was and he also checked up on me) and I made him think I hated him on perpose, though I think if id showed him I liked him I could have had him back.
Then he got fired. I took it as fate. Someone was trying to help me get over him, but it wasnt that easy. HE alone saw me when I was invisable.
Either way hes going to college in like 5 days, and I miss him so much and I cant get over him and it hasnt gotten much better over time
What should I do?
okk whethr or not he saw u wen u were invisible or w/e u were talking bout he basically had ur relationship end becuz u wudnt fuk him..how much do u think it mattered to him..i kno u still have hope for it..but 1.its lik rape now..and 2. he dun deserve u .. now hes in college prob fukin evry grl and ur gna find sumone sooner or later that 1 sees u wen ur invisivble and 2 lets u go as slow as u wnt..just dun give up faith for moving onn*
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Alright. I have this guy bestfriend whom I have known for 2-3 years. I used to move a lot when I was younger, and this is the first time I've actually remained in one city. He's the most person that I am closest to. We used to date but we broke up, then that's when we became best friends. He moved to Austin awhile back, but we still talked everyday. I got a boyfriend that I'm in love with which I've been dating for like 6 months now. My best friend came back down from Austin for the summer. When I saw him I got mixed feelings for him, but I brushed it off. Then, he finally told me he had strong feelings for me. He's always had feelings for me. But I don't think the feeling is mutual. I love him to death, but I'd rather be with the boyfriend I have now. My best guy/friend has been chasing after me all summer. Finally, he's realized that he should just stop trying because it's getting no where except more drama and tears for the both of us. I suggested that we should just be friends, but he came out with "It's hard to be friends when I am madly in love with you. It hurts too much." So, we talked it out... and the only resort came down to completely NOT talking anymore. Basically from best of friends to nothing; not even acquaintances. I don't know if that will work out. I love him, but not in that way. I would like him as a best friend, but he says we can't do that. He says that we should stop calling each other and whatever. I don't know if this is really going to work. I just want everything resolved. Advice anyone? [If anyone understood this paragraph]
wow..umm this is pretii confusin..lik he luvs u but u luv ur boyfriend and he wont b friends wit u becuz of it..okk well u shud call him up or see him or sumtin and tell him to his face that ..this is rong wat he is maken u do basically choose between ur boyfriend and ur best friend u dun luv him lik that..u luv him as a best friend and if he is going to throw away his friendship wit u ovr a stupid crush thats fked up cuz ur finally happy and ne real best friend wudnt wna ruin that..eevrr
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hey you lol i made my own fool. its xolilcutie186ox muahz love ya!.. n chris sucks
nicole..ura creep
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i've been going out with a guy for over five months, and i think he wants to but he hasnt tried to kiss me... how do i let him noe im ready?
well if you think that he wants to hook up then maybe you should just make the first move on him..or u cud alway b strait forward and tell himthat you wan to do stuff..or u cud tel his friends that u want to do shit wit him cuz then all his friends will go running to him being lik ohhh u cud get sum ass haha *
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Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx
~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~
yaa..if u luv him then go for it..it realli doesnt mater how young you are..uless u feel lik you are really ready to fuck him..just fuck him..and get it ovr with like its special but u s hudnt have to debate it for lik a year..just get it over with..itll b speciual if u luv eachothr..which it sounds lik u do..
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okay...i was with this guy for a month and then we had sex but the next day an old guy friend called me and we talked for a while even tho i was still at his house. then he got really upset and started yelling at me and i yelled at him saying how he cant talk to me like that and he slapped me across the face. i broke up wit him right then and there and called my sister to come pick me up and the next day he called me saying how hes so sorry he was just going through a lot and has so much stress on his back (which i knew he did) and he called me and asked me to take him back..this was today and i know that i shouldnt but i love him and i have all these feelings for him..what should i do because there is always a chance that he could do it again????
nooo noo way ne guy that raises his hand to u .. evn once..ius not worth it..move on u can find lotsss of new ppl it mite b hard but u can do it..ne guy that lays a hand on u is fken a horribleeeee person and dun deserve u AT ALL!
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